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EDo u know any good peopms? (link)
I don't know any good poems. Maybe Google does. I do know that you can't spell though.

DO doesn't have an E before it.
YOU has three letters, not one.
POEMS has four letters, and isn't spelled like "people" with "ms" at the end.


I'm 13 and I'm not sure who to be. Sometimes I feel like cuddling with my stuffed animals like a little kid, but sometimes I want to have a boyfriend and be a teenager. Is this really stupid or what? I'm not sure which I am... (link)
You can be both you know.

I'm a teenager. I have a boyfriend. I still have a stuffed horse. I'm serious. I love that horsie... he makes me feel all safe and warm at night.

You are only thirteen... don't worry. You can be both. I know sixteen-year-olds who have stuffed animals.

And who says you can't have a boyfriend and still have stuffed animals?

I understand your concept though.

Age is just a number.. remember that. Do exactly what you want. Have friends.. have boyfriends.. color in coloring books (I do!), have stuffed animals.. go see movies.. do exactly what makes you happy. There isn't a definitive line which says "When you're this age you can no longer have stuffed animals, and you must begin to acitively pursue boys."

Be who you are. You don't have to be like all your friends... sure they might not have a stuffed animal, and maybe they have boyfriends. But so what? You're not them and they're not you. Be yourself, because you are a beautiful person and your true beauty can only shine when you be yourself.
-FunnyCide


I dont have nothing to draw!!

Do u have anything that u can think of that i can draw ?
PLEASE dont say draw people. (link)
I love drawing.

Look up something random on the internet (like... a jar of pickles) and draw that. OR if you have a jar of pickles at home, get it out of the fridge or pantry and draw it. I love drawing random things so... here goes.

- Pencils. Grab some colored pencils (or crayons/markers) and make yourself a still life on the floor, like a child was coloring (you could even draw a silly childish picture like some birds and a stick figure) then draw the crayons/paper - which is your still life.
- Your computer.
- Your bed.
- Pickles.
- Pencil sharpener.
- Cell phone / house phone
- Nail polish (in still-life form)
- Makeup (I really like creating still lifes. I don't think it's really a still life though because it never was alive...)
- Flowers. If you have potted plants indoors..?
- TV
- Doll house. If you have younger siblings or an old doll house from when you played with Barbies, set up some dolls in the house and draw them.
- Your "dream room."
- An alien-like creature.
- Look up a famous drawing online and recreate it.
- Text books
- Shoes
- Earrings
- Clothes
- Flowers (of your imagination..)
- a swingset with no kids playing on it
- your kitchen

.. etc. Just look around you. There is SO much you can draw, if you just put your mind to it.
-FunnyCide


i really dont know who i am...

sometimes i feel happy and i want to wear designers and bright colors.

sometimes i feel stupid and i feel like wearing baggy pants and black.

sometimes i feel like a laid back skater punk and i want to wear DC and converse....

tough one, right. can i keep switching like this??? WHAT DO I DO! (link)
Keep right on switching. I'm serious. Be who YOU are. Don't follow any one else's standards or labels. You don't have to do that. I don't.

I switch too.

Seriously.

I like plaid. :) I have plaid pants. One day I'll wear my plaid pants and a red shirt.. and the next I'll wear baggy black pants and a tight-ish purple/black shirt with mesh sleeves and seven necklaces... just whatever fits my taste at the moment. Some days I'll wear a skirt, other days I'll wear pants. It just depends on how I feel that day (and if I've shaved recently.... haha).

You might feel pressure to fit into the cliques or labels... but you don't have to.

You should wear what you want.

My moods change, and my clothes change with my mood. The way I dress is just an outward expression of what I'm feeling inside. Sortof like art... though less dignified, perhaps.

Be yourself. You are a beautiful person, who has beautiful emotions. Your beautiful emotions change. Be artistic and show that in how you dress. :)
-FunnyCide


yeah well i have to call someone but on my list there are three numbers and i dont know which number i should ring up so i need some advice what number is the home number how can i see that? (link)
What is the first numbers of your phone number? For instance, the first three numbers might be "859" or "559" or "833" or something like that. Those all are landline numbers. Cell phones are different... "807," "368," "506," "478" etc. Whatever the first three numbers in your phone number are, or the first three numbers of your friend's homes, should be your best bet. For instance (this is a made up number) if your phone number was 445-7834, and on your phone, the three numbers are 445-2839, and two others, go with the one that has the same first three digits of your home phone.
-FunnyCide


ok i was using this little electronic razor thingy to comb out my eyebrows so theyll look neat. The thing was off. I was doign it for a while and then i wasnt paying attention and accidently turned it on WHILE IT WAS ON MY EYEBROW now theres a lil blank spot it the middle of my eyebrow- is there any way i can cover it up? please help a.s.a.p ♥anonymous (link)
Haha. Once I did that... it'll probably be pretty much grown back in about a week and a half. In the meantime... go somewhere (Wal-Mart will be fine..) and get an eyebrow pencil. Make sure it's the same color as your eye brows - as close to the same color as possible. Use short, quick strokes to fill in the place without hair, and overlap them. Do a few strokes throughout your whole eybrow so it looks more natural. Be sure to take it off though at the end of the day with makeup remover.
-FunnyCide


Anyone know that code for myspace that can make you write big AND have any color you want? I`ve seen some people having it & they can put it as their captions on their pictures and write something. I have this code to do that, but it`s too long to fit as a caption. So there must be one smaller I`m guessing. Any one know it? (link)
Ok.. I used to have mine like that.. I have it like that on my Xanga though.

Remember to remove the spaces between the arrow things [] but leave other spaces (IE - between words) alone.

< FONT FACE="YOUR FONT HERE" >< FONT COLOR=YOUR COLOR/HEX CODE HERE >< FONT SIZE=NUMBER HERE >

You can use some color words, as in "blueviolet," "hotpink," "salmon," "skyblue" etc. But some words won't work. when a word won't work... or if you're afraid it won't work... refer to this page : http://www.december.com/html/spec/color.html

That is the best hex color code page EVER. Just click on one of the available values (neutrals, warms, blues, greens, etc.) and you'll have a huge list of colors and their codes. You don't have to put the number (#) sign in front of it when typing your HTML code into your header thing in MySpace.

A list of fonts : http://www.buyfonts.com/fontlist.htm

And as for the "number here" thing. Ok, don't actually write the number. If you want it to be size three, don't write "THREE" write "3" instead. The larger your number, the bigger your font will be.

At the end of your greeting, it should look like this [example, remeber - no spaces between arrows!] :

< FONT FACE="Century Gothic" >< FONT COLOR=CC00FF >< FONT SIZE=6 >Hey everyone! Welcome to my site!< /FONT >

Did you notice what I did? I closed the tag - < /FONT >

Always close your tag!!!!

You don't have to type your HTML in caps, I just do. It's a habit. HTML can be typed in either lowercase or uppercase, but it's best to stick with one or the other.

Happy HTML-ing. :)
-FunnyCide


My cat is freaking me out! whenever im in bed she lies next to me. Then i'll pet her and she does a weird funky thing to my hair. She expands then inclines her paws in my haie and purrs. when shes done (3 mins) i feel my hair and theres drool! and my hairs all knotty! what is going on? (link)
It's normal. She's "kneading." What that means is she's extending and retracting her claws. Sortof like you would do to a lump of bread dough. All cats do this, it means she's happy. My cat does it all the time. Drooling is normal too. I was holding my male cat, Oreo, while watching Dr. G: Medical Examiner last night, and he was kneeding into my stomach like your cat does into your hair, and I had a huge drool spot on my shirt... haha.
It's normal. Don't worry, she's not possessed or anything. ;)
-FunnyCide


I'm 13, 14 in June. I haven't gotten my period.I only started getting pubic hairs about 5 months ago. Am I really unormal? (link)
Yes, you're really normal. I didn't get my period until after I turned fourteen. I'll be fifteen in June... I started my period about a month after I turned fourteen.

Girls all grow and mature differently. Just because your friend has her period doesn't mean you're abnormal because you don't. My closest female friend started her period when she was eleven! She and I are both normal, we're just different body types.
-FunnyCide


where can i get a kitten for a cheap price i don't care if they are declawed or nothing...thanks (link)
Check out the vet's office. That's where my kitten (well.. four years ago..) came from. She was free.

Also, try the humane society, or pound, or animal shelter. Try looking in your local newspaper classifieds, often there are kittens for sale or free. Look at your local library. Sometimes there are listings for things that are for sale, or animals being given away. Also, try local supermarkets. Many times there are ads there for things for sale and animals, too.
-FunnyCide


me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now since yesturday ,i like him alot and i know he does too. It feels so good when were together, i think about him contantly sometimes i think about him so much i feel like crying. So one simple question am i in love?????????????? (link)
Well.. that's really only something you can answer. You'll know in your heart.

But I think probably so.

If you're willing to marry him, even if he was disfigured, and if you are willing to die for him... then yes, you love him.

But only you can say yes or no for sure.
-FunnyCide


what does the phrase "you can't draw blood from a stone" mean?
(link)
An unlikely event requiring much effort. -- Urbandictionary.com

Or..

[my translation]

Someone who is hardened, shows little or no emotion, is kinda... shelled up, if you know what I mean. Someone who just doesn't care what you think - and lets you know. Usually don't have many friends... they're the stone. And it's really difficult to wound the stone; because the stone doesn't care.

er.. ok so maybe not.
-FunnyCide


okay well there is this clear sticky stuff when ever i go to the bathroom and its also in my underwear sometimes..i havent started my period yet..i dont know what it is..and it may seem gross but please respond if you know? (link)
It's called discharge. It's normal and every girl gets it. You have it before and after and sometimes even during your period.

It's really not gross. It is your body's way of protecting you from infection and cleaning itself out, and other reasons as well.

This site is the best for answering any other questions you might have ... http://coolnurse.com/
-FunnyCide


Does anyone know the song that goes:

Oh god I love you that is forever, I left my body behind, looks like its over, please remember the things I never said, like you look smashing in your fourth grade picture the one that we hung by the door in the house that was so beautiful

I only know some of the lyrics.
Please help! (link)
That's Rocky Votolato's Suicide Medicine.

Lyrics:

http://lyrics.duble.com/lyrics/R/rocky-votolato-lyrics/rocky-votolato-lyrics.htm
-FunnyCide


How do I tell my mom I don't want her in the Gyno exam with me? Actually, I want her there, but I don't want her to know I have had sex. So I can't have her there. So how do I tell her I don't want her there without sounding suspicious or mean? (link)
Just one day while you're talking, say, "Hey mom.. I'd really rather go into the doctor's office alone. I'd feel uncomfortable with an "audience." I knew you'd understand."

'Cause it's perfectly normal for your mom not to be in there. When I hit eighteen and have to go... HAH. I'm driving myself, my mom won't even be NEAR me. :)

I'd feel totally uncomfortable if someone else were in the room, and I'm sure your mom will understand that you feel this way (and though you might have other motives, she'll just assume you're uncomfortable with others in the room).
-FunnyCide


PLease help me fast. Today is my mommy's brithday and we don't know where to take her for dinner please could someone give me suggestion
I rate 5's
Love me (link)
What does she like?

Well... Some of these places that I'll list are things that are near me. And they might not be near you...

- Macaroni Grill (Italian, my parents LOVE this place)
- O'Charlie's (American, can't go wrong here)
- Ming Garden (Chinese, I love this..)
- Number One (Chinese, these are the bomb)
- Frontera Grill (Mexican, good food, good price)
- Outback (American / Australian?, good steakhouse)
- Steak and Ale (American, steakhouse / bar)
- Applebee's (American, great ribs, good price)
- Cracker Barrel (American, old style home cooking, great place)
- Costas (American, steakhouse, good price)
- Chili's Grill & Bar (American/Mexican/Latin, good food, good price, nice selection)
- Logan's (American, pretty good)
- Red Lobster (Seafood, good if you like crabs)
- Ruby Tuesday (American, great selection)
- Qdoba Mexican Grill (Mexican, good quaility)
- Lone Star Steakhouse & Saloon (American, GREAT steak)

And I'm sure there are others. But that's what I suggest.
-FunnyCide


What should I do if I sense my friends are talking about me? Comfront them, and risk them getting all worked up, or sit back and take it all in before I explode!!! Help! (link)
Take the "weakest" aside. The one who sometimes can lead a double life... you know what I mean. The one who would be most likely to crack.

Ask him/her honestly, and gently, if sometimes the other people (give a few names) are maybe talking bad about you? Don't get mad. And only ask one person. If you ask them all at the same time, they'll get worked up and explode in your face and defend themselves; but the weakest will probably at least say the other people are talking about you.

Mention that your feelings are a little hurt and you just don't want to get mad over nothing.

Don't just sit back - bad move. It'll escalate and you'll get hurt really badly.
-FunnyCide


Is it common for girls to not be attracted to guys (age 14)? They all seem too immature in school and I'm not like those other girls that think every dude is "hot". I'm not concerned about this, I don't care If I have a bf or not but I was just wondering if this is common (and I'm not gay, I know that). It's a bit hard to explain in detail but in short, guys aren't intresting... At least not yet. (link)
It's normal. :) I don't understand girls who think that 99% of guys are "hot." I am not attracted to guys my age, in fact, my boyfriend is two years older than me. I've never been one to gawk over guys or marvel at them. Just not my style. But I know girls who do... it's a little annoying, almost.

Guys your age aren't going to be as mature, usually, as you are. Especially at fourteen. You shouldn't feel pressured to have a boyfriend or like guys or ooh and ahh over them.
-FunnyCide


In your opinion (meaning that if you tell me what you think you'll get a 5), do you think that people should miss out on church in order to do yardwork, study for an exam, play in a soccer tournament, etc? I just want to know what qualifies as an acceptable excuse for not going to church. What other good reasons are there for missing church? -no I'm not trying to avoid going to church-

Thanks! (link)
A good excuse for missing church in whose eyes? God's not going to say -- "YOU MISSED CHURCH! Now I must shoot you with a lightning bolt." But with parents...

- Playing in a soccer tounrament. Usually practice isn't a good enough excuse.
- yardwork - not good enough. The yard will be there when you get home.
- Study for an exam - not good enough [at least for my parents]. If I had something to study for, I should've already done it.
- Sick. Obviously, if you are sick, you don't need to go to church.
- Hurt physically. IE - broken arm, leg, sprained ankle, pulled tendons etc. If you're in a lot of physical pain, you're not going to be able to pay attention to church.

I know a girl who always says that she "was out late" or "went to bed late" or her "alarm didn't go off" or she's "really tired," so she doesn't go to church. I don't think those are proper excuses. There've been times when I wouldn't get home until 12:30 AM and not go to bed until after 1:00 AM and still be at church bright and early at 8:45 for Sunday School. It doesn't really matter if you're tired, or went to bed late, or stayed out late, because that's more than likely your own fault. Sometimes you're drug around with your parents, but if they're going to go to church, you should too.
-FunnyCide


Can you use Shaving cream as a lubriacant? (link)
No. That would be bad for sure. The bottle says for external use only. That would burn, badly.
-FunnyCide




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