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What should I do if I sense my friends are talking about me? Comfront them, and risk them getting all worked up, or sit back and take it all in before I explode!!! Help!
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Take the "weakest" aside. The one who sometimes can lead a double life... you know what I mean. The one who would be most likely to crack.
Ask him/her honestly, and gently, if sometimes the other people (give a few names) are maybe talking bad about you? Don't get mad. And only ask one person. If you ask them all at the same time, they'll get worked up and explode in your face and defend themselves; but the weakest will probably at least say the other people are talking about you.
Mention that your feelings are a little hurt and you just don't want to get mad over nothing.
Don't just sit back - bad move. It'll escalate and you'll get hurt really badly.
-FunnyCide
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