Question Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 8:25 pm
I'm 13 and I'm not sure who to be. Sometimes I feel like cuddling with my stuffed animals like a little kid, but sometimes I want to have a boyfriend and be a teenager. Is this really stupid or what? I'm not sure which I am...
melissa answered Friday February 17 2006, 2:40 pm: its definately ok! 13 is the middle age. your not too old to do "kid" stuff..but your getting to the age of wanting boyfriends and that sort of thing. its all fine..i was the same way [ melissa's advice column | Ask melissa A Question ]
xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Thursday February 16 2006, 11:51 pm: I dont think its stupid at all !! A lot of people have these knids of moments. You can be both. No reverse that you cacn be anything you want to be ! I mean yes, you are a teenager but you are still a kid. You just started youre teenage years and its ok to still act or even feel like a kid.
clearlypink428 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 10:39 pm: no, theres nothing wrong with you, at all! everybody has moments like that. my boyfriend and i have been together almost 10 months, and i still have moments where i just wanna put my hair in pigtails, and jump on the bed. as a matter of fact, i stayed at a hotel last week and i encouraged my cousins and friends to jump on the bed with me. FUN STUFF! everyone's a little kid at heart. and theres NOTHING wrong with that at all, hon. xoxo, mikelly4039 [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
laalaa234 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 10:34 pm: aww sweetie, your right inbetween, I was JUST like you. I LOVED being a kid and doing shit like that but yeah, always wanting a boyfriend. and thats all good. be who you are. man I'm 16 and I still sleep with my stuffed animal! Do what you want. :) [ laalaa234's advice column | Ask laalaa234 A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday February 16 2006, 9:28 pm: You could be both. Most 13 year olds have stuffed animals and boyfriends at the same time. It's not stupid at all. I love my stuffed animals and I'm 14 and an experienced grinder. Just be who you want. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
ThatsHot77 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 9:15 pm: hunny first of all your just 13 boyfriends can happen anytime in your life! Its not like you cant be both ofcourse you can! Im 14 and i still havnt had a boyfriend..you'll know when your ready<3 [ ThatsHot77's advice column | Ask ThatsHot77 A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:59 pm: You can be both you know.
I'm a teenager. I have a boyfriend. I still have a stuffed horse. I'm serious. I love that horsie... he makes me feel all safe and warm at night.
You are only thirteen... don't worry. You can be both. I know sixteen-year-olds who have stuffed animals.
And who says you can't have a boyfriend and still have stuffed animals?
I understand your concept though.
Age is just a number.. remember that. Do exactly what you want. Have friends.. have boyfriends.. color in coloring books (I do!), have stuffed animals.. go see movies.. do exactly what makes you happy. There isn't a definitive line which says "When you're this age you can no longer have stuffed animals, and you must begin to acitively pursue boys."
Be who you are. You don't have to be like all your friends... sure they might not have a stuffed animal, and maybe they have boyfriends. But so what? You're not them and they're not you. Be yourself, because you are a beautiful person and your true beauty can only shine when you be yourself.
-FunnyCide [ FunnyCide's advice column | Ask FunnyCide A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:57 pm: That is not stupid at all hun.
Girls can never be to old to cuddle with their stuffed animals especially when you are having a bad day.
You can be both!
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