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Well my name is Jenny. im 16. i go to lacey high school...im from New Jersey lOl i cheerleade and wresle.been cheering for 12years..and wresling for 14...uhm i love both...i wresle and cheerleade for my high school... i also ride dirtbikes and qwades...been riding both for about..12 years too.. i skimboard/wakeboard/skateboard/snowboard/work out/boogieboard/body surf/and surf...i love my friends..i love movies,hanging out,shopping...im also a modle for Hollister clothing company...and love it. i love clothes,i love boys..I JUST BECOME SINGLE!!! SO HIT ME UPP BOYS lOl i love talking,and i love people,im very helpful...i love just everything lOl im very perky and prepppy...very outgoing...very outspoken...yeah i speak my mind Sorry if yu dont like it..... Well if yu wanna know more.just send me a ?? lOl
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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥ (link)
Well what i do because im in this problem too... is i try to like in the hallway..just wave to him sometimes or smile..and maybe just go up with your friends and try to talk to him?? but if your both shy then maybe to try to become friend ask him like...to hang out with you after school or something..or maybe to get one of your friends to tlak to him too..sorry if i ddint help love Jenae xoxox


I was talking to this guys today and he used to play football and he shaves his legs. He said that the reason he started was becuase they had to tape their legs in football and it hurt when he took the tape off. But anyway, what do they tape their legs for? (link)
Depends ..because for wresling we have to tape our leg's too..but we tape it either if our strings are to like big..or if our ankle's hurt.... or to keep our shoes tighter.. i played football too and we had to tape our's cause of our strings and when we got hurt....but depends on the team and stuf really..all team's or most are different when it comes to that


Okay I have like line marks on my breats. And like, they are like dark pinkish and stuff and I don't know what they are. I mean I am in shape so i don't knw why they would be stretch marks and I only have a Size A borderline B cup. So i dunno what it is. And I really want it to go AWAY. Please please help me I really want it gone (link)
maybe it's the kinda bra your wearing..could it be like underwear gabbing into you??


I use a sponge to wash my dishes -- wet sponge, squirt on detergent, wash dishes, rinse dishes and sponge, pretty standard. Every time I get out the sponge to wash the dishes again, it's hard and stiff and I have to wet it for it to be flexible. Is this the normal condition for used sponges or is there something I can do to make the sponge soft all the time? I tried rinsing it an extra long time last time, but it's still got hard again. (link)
I know all my sponges get hard too..but that's because they just dry out..like starfishes lOl they get hard after being in water then tooken out along time..so i think it's like..natral lOl


I'm 13 and I'm not sure who to be. Sometimes I feel like cuddling with my stuffed animals like a little kid, but sometimes I want to have a boyfriend and be a teenager. Is this really stupid or what? I'm not sure which I am... (link)
That is not stupied at all... most people feel this way..when i was 13 i wasnt sure who i was..and then like it's good to be both people ...you have a whole life ahead of you to start thinking about boyfriends and stuff..and belive me growing up isnt no picknick either..so you shouldnt act childish and stuff(not saying you do) but you can still cuddle with animals..i know i always sleep with the teddy bear my ex boyfriend gave me...and i cuddle up with my currect boyfrined too...so yeah ..sorry if i didnt help


Hey. Well, I'm currently in the 8th grade and I will be going on to highschool this upcoming August. Well, not a lot of people are going to my high school-only a few. I was wondering, how do I become social because I tend to be shy at most times, and in highschool, I want to have lots of friends and for people to know that I'm cool, fun, and nice to be around with, since I really am once people get to know me. I also want to makea great 1st impression. If you have any tips, suggestions, etc. I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks for listening! (link)
Well what you could do is maybe over the summer go to like paryt's you know about or try to get involved with different people...and when school start's just be friendly and nice to people and yeah your make friends... and great first impressions..arnt always that "Great" frist meeting somebody you should really just try to be yourself because...theire not always gonna see thaat good side about you all the time..sorry if i didnt help


for the past 3 months ive been doing 100 situps a day. (2 diff. kinds) and they work a little, but i still have a little bit of fat i want to get rid of. anyone know any good exercises for a flatter stomach? (link)
if you do situp's like on a ball or w/weights or something that might help more then just regular sit ups..sorry i dont know if you do that already..cause you werent very clear... xoxox jenny xox


I'm around 5'2" and I'm pretty comfortable with my height. However, I have 34 D boobs. Now, most girls might like this, but they are extremely unporportional to my body which the doc said won't grow any taller. I feel like whenever a tall guy talks to me he looks down my shirt. I've heard guys say things about it to, and sometimes I feel like all they are trying to do is get a peek at my chest. What do I do?!? (link)
well wear shirts that cover up your chest? there isnt much to do beside...if your un happy with them...talk to your doctore about maybe getting a brest reduction??


hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep** (link)
Well personally i dont think they work...cause you never meet the person..and their really tricky cause you dont know who your talking to..like one time i was talking to this kid and i thought he was 17 and he turned out to be 22....yeah so lOl be carefull if you decide to have one


hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep** (link)
Well some people think they are...but then other's dont.. to me looks sort of matter but not really...cause i go for like being nice and stuff...their will alwyas be someone out there that will think your the most beaitfuest thing in the world...then others that wont and make fun of you...but to me looks dont matter sorry if i didnt help xoxox Jenny xoxo


i need some cute love quotes for my portfolio for school. it's a project on what we love most about life..and of course...i chose love..but the thing is i cannot find any cute love quotes..please help..
i rate 5's for good quotes or sites to the quotes

thanks =]

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Till I loved you, I never lived © enough

I'd spend a lifetime with you.
I know your fears and you
know mine. We've had our
doubts but now we're fine,
And I love you, I swear thats
true. I cannot live without you.

Oh,haventyouheard© I'm kinda sorta falling head over heals for you


I cant help it baby,
this is who I am.
Sorry but I cant just
go turn off how I feel.


Whats a good way to lose weight that works and takes little time? What kind of foods do i eat? Or should i eat at all? If any one can give me some good ways to lose weight fast that actually works..that would be amazing!! I'll rate all 5's!!

thanx! (link)
Yes you should eat!! dont stop eating cause tha tmakes you gain the weight almost right back after....and run and eat like healthy food like apples bannas and stuff...or just dont eat as much..and work out like pushups pullups mountain climbers and stuff.... for wresling when we need to drop weight they tell us to run/drink plenty water/ and do pushups pullups mountians climbers. jumping jacks,sqats..sorry if i didnt help xoxox


I really feel awful right now so I'll sum it up. When I got to my last class today a friend told me I was really stained. I went to the bathroom and i had blood on the back of my pants. It's so embarrasing. I feel like becoming a hermit crab. Share your experiences with me please. (link)
Well i cant share any expexeinces w/you but there is this girl in my class...and during health she left to go to the bathroom..and i gusse she found out she had her period...but there was blood all over the seat..i mean all over lOl and well yeah it was funny..and the whole class knew...but really after that day nobody talked about it...lOl atleast not by her hahaah but yeah stuff like that happens all the time...and yeah most mautre people forget about it lOl xoxox Jenny xoxxo


i have this boyfriend, and he's my first, but sometimes it feels like i see him as just a friend. i like him but i dont think i like him enough to be in a committed relationship with him. i really dont know what to do because i'm not happy about this but i also dont want to hurt his feelings (link)
Well let him down gently hunnie its easier to do then said...cause a little heartbreak is better then leading him on..just tell him you thought you liked him but right now wanna get to know him better has a friend rather then a boyfriend...or something lOl sorry if i didnt help xoxox Jennay xoxo


Well, my best friend died exactly a year ago as of yesterday. I'm not sure if many of you are familiar with my question I posted last year about her death, but so you can hear the whole story here's the link: http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=248637

I've had a hard time dealing with her death, mentally and physically and I've been really depressed. I still blame myself for her death every day because I still feel that if I were there it wouldn't have happened.

I really need help coping with it... I've tried to keep myself busy with fencing, my boyfriend, my friends and schoolwork.. But nothing really seems to keep my mind fully off of what happened.

This past week, when her anniversary came up was when I really started to get depressed. I've gone to therapy because of her death and also because of other problems and my therapist keeps telling me that it wasn't my fault and that I couldn't have prevented it from happening. But if you really think about it, I COULD saved her. She kept begging me to go to the party with her but I said no because I wanted to be with my boyfriend. I think that if I wasn't being so selfish in wanting to spend so much time with my boyfriend, then I WOULD have gone to the party. My ex boyfriend WOULDN'T have slipped X in her drink he WOULDN'T have raped her and she WOULDN'T be dead.

I talk to her family almost every day and they always tell me that it's not my fault... But I still feel like it is.


How can I stop feeling like this is my fault? And how can I finally get closure on her death? (link)
Well there is no way you could have stopped it...cause even if you were there he would still have done it prob and then yeah she would still be dead... you just have to accpect its not your fault even tho its hard.my friend Alex killed himself and i always thought maybe if i was a better friend and if i was just w/him before he shot himself then eveyrthing would be ok...but i accpected the fact that he is gone and it wasnt my fault cause even if i was there he would have done it....and yeah i was in threapy for awhile about it and everything...just try 2 tell yourself it wasnt your fault ..sorry if this didnt help xoxox Jenny xoxo


me and my best guy friend have been friends for a long long time. he let me know that he has cared about me for a while. i like him too and told him that. we are going out now. but i dont want anyone to know right now. only because i broke up with my ex a lil while ago because i was apparently all over my new bf. so it would be bad to have this get out right now. my question is... is this a bad sign already if i dont want to know about my blossoming love. (link)
Well no it's not bad because your just not ready to tell anybody...and really its nobody business who your going out with anyway...so i think its not bad lOl xoxoxox Jenny xoxxo


My names "Ali" and i met my friend, joe in grade 7. I am now in grade 12 and hes in University. He has gay tactics which are not attractive for a girl. So i went to prom with him because we were friends and such. I think hes starting to like me though because hes overprotective and never wants me to like anyone even if their his best friends, (who are so sweet). His mom put our prom picture in her kitchen where his whole Italian family can see it. It is so annoying and i will never EVER like him more than just a friend. How should I tell him?
Sorry this is long (link)
Well "Ali" i think you should try to tell joe in the best possiable way not to hurt his feelings that you only see him as a friend and your just not the girl for him..and he needs to keep on looking...i have had the same problems..all my guy friends are way to overprotective..so is my wresling team lOl...so yeah just tell him cause its better then him thinking you like him xoxox Jenny xoxo sorry if i didnt help


My friend and I were argueing over a weird topic.

If someone has anal sex, are they still considered a virgin?
It's a type of sex, but its still not really sex cuz its anal.

I really dont know.
Are they still considered a virgin? (link)
Well some people say your a "half virgin" if you have anal...but to become not a virgin everybody says the penis has to go in the girl...so i think that they would still be a virgin lOl


Me and my boyfriend had sex 4 or 5 days ago, he didn't cum but wen he pulled out to check if everything was ok the condom was broken. Im worried that i may be pregnant due to pre-ejaculation, even though we don't think he ejaculated at all. There was a white liquid in the condom and i am debating on what it was, lubrication or pre-ejaculation??....I have no symptoms and was due yesterday. My period isnt regular but has only been REALLY late once. What do you think I should do? Are we over reacting? PLEASE REPLY IM WORRIED!!!!! (link)
Well due to being pregnate is a big thing...i think you should go to the doctors...Cause that would be the best thing xoxox Jenny xoxo


ok so i've been going out with this boy i really like for over 10 monthss and in the begginning everything was great and he was soo sweet .. after like 7months he started bein different & didnt call as much or anything & i was always the one that had to set up the plans then after 8months he dumpt me well he called it a break and i understand because he had a lot of shit going out but the next day he told me it was a huge mistake and stuff and like hes wicked sorry and stuff & he asked me back out and i said ya now its been over 10 months and like he always hangs out wid his friends and not really me but when hes with me hes so sweet & tells me he loves me & everything & always holds me close. should i be concerned? i really love him.. is he gunna do the same thing to me again? his friends tell me he really loves me and the reason he dont always say it constantly like he used to is because for the first couple of months he showed me he loves me and now he assumes i know he doess.. i just want someones opinion (link)
no hunnie i dont think you should worry because you like hanging out w/friends and shopping and stuff..and ii gusse he dose to.... maybe you should talk to him about how you feel...cause that might work...i went threw the same thing w/my last boyfriend mike... in the begginging he always called me,told me he loved me,and always there but as we got like...going out longer he stoppped because yeah he knew i knew he loved me,and then yeah i just talked to him and i always would call him..and yeah he always hung out w/his friends and partys' and stuff and i didnt worry becaause i trusted him and i knew he wouldnt cheat and his friends always told me everything that happend anyway lOl..xoxox jenny xoxxo
sorry if i didnt help




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