me and my best guy friend have been friends for a long long time. he let me know that he has cared about me for a while. i like him too and told him that. we are going out now. but i dont want anyone to know right now. only because i broke up with my ex a lil while ago because i was apparently all over my new bf. so it would be bad to have this get out right now. my question is... is this a bad sign already if i dont want to know about my blossoming love.
Annieisonfire answered Thursday January 5 2006, 2:15 pm: No. It might be a good sign, that you care about this relationship so much you don't want anything to upset it already. A secret relationship can be very exciting and make you all the more eager to be together which is cool [ Annieisonfire's advice column | Ask Annieisonfire A Question ]
hugsNkisses answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 5:30 pm: i dont think its a bad sign at all. just let him know how you feel and make sure hes not telling all his guy friends cause believe it or not, guys talk about their loves too. i think its important to respect your ex, and not hurt his feelings too much. when youre ready you can start to let people know. good luck!
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ScratchesOnTheWall answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 1:21 pm: No not necessarily. I'm not a big fan of people knowing all the ins and ouits of my relationship either, plus the fact that you're obviouisly trying to be considerate of your ex (ust be careful that doesn't backfire by him finding out you've been keeping it a secret from him).
On the other hand the fact you're asking the question at all makes it sound like you don't have too much confidence in your feelings for the new guy?
prettyx10 answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 7:21 am: no not really, i don't like my personal business out much either. do what you wana do. you gotta just ignore everyone else and do what you wana do.. youll be a lot happier.. [ prettyx10's advice column | Ask prettyx10 A Question ]
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 1:53 am: Nope not bad at all. I do that too sometimes. You just probably don't want to be considered a skanky whore & be all over the school. If your new boyfriend is okay without telling anyone just yet, then keep it unknown a little longer. But if he's not then just say you guys are going out if anyone asks.
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