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heyy guys! my name is miriam. i have way too many nicknames to list.. i have a big family with mostly sisters. i live in new york and go to camp in MA. i love music. all kinds of music is great for me (except country.. yuckk)! so anyways, i'm always known as the one you can always count on for advice and definitely the truth from my friends. i hope you write soon so i can get started on some answerss!!
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when is it ok to kiss your girlfriend? like, what times/how long you've been dating/age?

thnx in advance

its ok to kiss your girlfriend when you know shes ready. depending on the girl, either you go at it on the third date or just wait until she lingers around you after your date. a sign of lingering would be looking around for keys or a long hug or even just talking about some last minute subject. every girl is different. it may be a good idea to talk to her about it. hope this helps and if you need more advice please contact me again.
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i love this boy
and he knows it
and so does everyone else in the world
but he doesnt do anything
and don't tell me he's not worth it
cause he [seems like] he IS

what do you do when the guy you like doesnt like you and you just like cant move onn??

k thanks
I LOVE YOU !!

i dont really like that kid so lets just dump him in the garbage can after flushing his head in the toilet.
k thanks!! love youuuuu tooo
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can someone tell me things that people do if they DONT go to college?? im just wondering, im debating weather to go to college or not, but i have no clue what id do if i didnt go?

if you dont want to go to college theres plenty of things you can do. for instance, my brother is going to florida to join a spiritual group and spend some time soaking up the sun and thinking out his life. another example is, i dont know if you watch this show, but on The OC, one of the characters was going to go all over the world doing what he loves, surfing. if you have a passion it would be cool to do it somewhere else in the world to experience it and that place. if you need any other advice please contact me again. hope this helps.
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well...im 13 (female) and i had this biyfriend last year...and we were really close...but we broke up...and we were friends for a while....but then he told me that he hated me...and now im really sad..and a while ago he called me to tell me about a movie..but then he said he had to go...and now im always thinkin about him....and i miss him as a friend....what should i do

i know EXACTLY how you feel. same thing happened to me, except im still kind of hung up in him. not in a friend way. you just have to talk to him. was it online? maybe it wasnt him that said he hated you. just tell him you want to be friends and that you miss him. hope this helps!
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Hey! I'm a 14/f. I got my period(or so I think it was) about 1 and 1/2 months ago. But it hasn't come back since then. Is this irregular? Isn't it supposed 2 happen the same time every month! I don't know cause I'm kinda new at this whole thing. Plus when I had my period it was brown....like the blood and everything was brown not red. I'm pretty sure it was my period but I could be wrong I guess. Can any one please help me! I'm worried its not gunna come back. Much luv xoxoxo

k, so it was definitely your period. it sometimes comes out brown. no worries, when you first get it, it will be very irregular. my cousin didnt get it for 3 months after her first time. give it time. also, be ready for when it comes next and ask your mom or sister or anyone you can to explain about pads and tampons and all the little things about it.
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Why is it that some peoples bodies reject their piercings shortly after they are done?

sometimes its an allergic reaction or sometimes its just a more sensitive spot than for others. one time, my sister got a second hole in her ear and her ear blew, the earring sunk in, and she had to get it removed. she has extremely sensitive ears. i would suggest asking a doctor before getting a peircing or having the doctor do the peircing. i know mine were by the doc!
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they always say that your grades don't matter in 9th grade...is that true? i am very worried about an exam tomorrow...could it be the difference between harvard and virginia tech? lol

dont worry THAT much, but 9th grade counts just as much as every other grade. its always nice to get great scores, but i dont think this one exam will have that much effect. just do the very best you can like all the other exams youve taken. good luck on your test!
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okay i just had a party and this boy i like did stuff with me and my friend asked him out for me without me knowing and he said he will think about it he didnt know .. walking home from school he didnt talk to me but he only walked by me once and it looked like he was trying to hide his head.. does that mean he doesnt like me ? and all of my friends and his friends at the party said he was all over me and we were goin to end up goin out.. what should i do ? and did that mean he didnt like me ?

i think hes just a little nervous. theres no real way to find out if he likes you or not until he answers. i mean, i think thats pretty obnoxious what youre friend did but maybe itll turn out positive. hes probably just a little bit nervous and thats why hes acting strangely. give it some time and if you have any problems feel free to ask again. good luck!
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ok so all of a sudden the sound on my computer shut off. i was just listening to a song and then it just shut off. does anyone know what happend or how to get it back? i already tryed unplugging it and plugging it back in again but nothing happend. ill rate 5's!

check if the speaker/s are still plugged in, restart your computer, check the volume on your computer, make sure wherever youre getting the music is all clean and stuff then if nothing works, ask again, and ill be glad to help you out again. good luck!
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I was wondering if there was a program on the internet to scan files before I download them to see if they will harm my computer. If there is provide the link please.

microsoft anti-spyware is really great and you can set so it automatically checks your computer and stuff. you can set it to your email so that whats sent isnt a virus or anthing, its pretty cool. im not sure where you can get it but im sure youd be able to find it on the internet.
good luck with that!
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hello. im a muslim and ever since 9/11 i know there has been a lot of sterotypes on muslims. Very bad ones. i had a lot of racism especially during that year at which i was 10 years old. people would stare at me and my sisters and be like go back to your country. now i want to know what are peoples views on islam and muslims?

i think thats completely horrible. no one should be prejudged like that. i happen to be half-iraqi and i think this whole stereo-typical is totally bogus. whoever gave you those looks are absolutely unbelievable. i hope this nonsense stops soon! good luck..
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I have medium length hair, its about 6 inches below my shoulders. I have a winter dance coming up soon, what are some cute hair styles i could use? I plan on getting my hair done by a stylist so i need a picture to show them.

half up, top in a bun with curls coming out of it and the bottom half a few random curls and the rest straight. totally gorgeous. im definitely jealous of you, im growing my hair and its only like 3 or 4 inches below my shoulders :/ well anyways, good luck and tell me if you need any more suggestions dont be shy to ask!!
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Okay, Why do guys care so much about a girls weight? Like skinny isnt in right now..and yeah thats a fact if ya believe it or not..most guys want meat on their girls bodies but why would they care? Like, I want a fit guy but a want some meat on him..i dont want him to be all ugh. I just wanna kno why they care!!??

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xox,
Confused

oh my goshh! welcome to my brain.. i definitely know what youre talking about. it seems to me like boys have a whole different confusing world and im not sure all guys care about weight but most probably do. its weird and i dont think ill ever understand it but you know, all i can say is be yourself and the guys will come to you!
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currently im about 100 pounds and i have a sorta pudgy stomache..how can i lose that pudgyness by the beginning of feb with out doing sit ups or crunches or somethin like that? thanks

try joining a gym. i belong to new york sports club and i go about 2-3 times a week. they have a pool there and tons of different classes and an excercise room. you have so many choices and they make it easy to lose weight. just dont let it get out of hand, youre great the way you are!
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Well, I kinda have a probably sometimes at night. I think about death. I wonder, what will it be like when I die? What will it be like if my family dies? Why do people have to die? Can't we just live our life? When I die, I will die. I give deep thought into being gone.
Sometimes, to cheer myself up, I say to myself that there will be another life after death, another life in heaven where it's the dream I always wanted! Then, I just cry myself to sleep.
I hope you can help with my problem. Please don't tell me to go to a therapest. I really don't want to.

~Jazz~

i understand. i recently had 2 deaths in my family and its been really hard. death is so strange to think about and often, also think what if i dont wake up in the morning? what you can try to do is think about the moments you have now and the life ahead of you instead of thikning about death. listen to music on headphones and just get lost in that instead. i used to think myself until i thought myself to sleep and usually it was bad things. now to make my thoughts go away i let my thoughts drift away and just concentrate on the music. hope this helps!
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I used to be able to sing "okay" But then I became a cheerleader for 7 years and now I sound like a man when I sing. I'm afraid to sing in the car to the radio or when I'm goofing off with my friends because I hate my voice and no one else likes to hear it. Is there anyway to make my voice any better? I love singing but I hate my voice!

you can try taking singing lessons but also remember sometimes your voice sounds different to you then it does outloud. not to mention that it could be a small change and itll change again when you get a little bit older. good luck!
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My friend likes this guy named Tyler. I was pretty much going out with him in the summer, and I've never gotten over him. My friend thought I was over him (thats what I told her), and so then they started liking each other. Now, Tyler likes me AND her, and I like him back. Should I tell my friend this, or just wait to see what happens?

you should absolutely talk to your friend. if shes really a good friend shell understand and the 2 of you can work it out. its hard getting over an ex and its even harder when your best friend likes him afterwards. believe me, i definitely know!! hope this helps.
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im 14/f and i want to get a job but i dont know any. i tried looking it up on the internet but i didnt get anything ill rate 5! and leave good comments! thanks so much!

try getting a babysitting job. they definitely pay well and its nice to spend some time with little kids especially the cute ones! i babysit and make 8 bucks an hour monday-friday. im making good money and its fun!! put flyers around your street and ring some doorbells too. good luck!
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i just need a way to shed a few poundsim 13/m like 118 pounds 5'5 i know it doesnt sound bad but i want to be able to see my abs like i can see them but not good i just wanna loose some body fat in the stomach area

i definitely know the feeling. try doing some crunches, especially the kind where you put one elbow to the opposite knee and vice versa. also you might want to join a gym and go a couple times a week just to make sure you stay in shape instead of gaining it back. dont lose too much weight though, youre perfect the way you are!
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There's a slight chance that I could be pregnant. First of all, I'm only 15 years old. I recently had sex for the first time (a little over a week ago). We used no protection, and I'm currently not on birth control. Apperently, there's certain days after your period that you can get pregnant. Well, these were one of the days. He didn't cum, but my sister told me about "pre-cum", and apperently..that can get you pregnant too. I'm terrified. I should be starting my period again in about a week, and I'm usually never late. So if I am, should I tell my mom? My mom is a very God-like lady, and when she found out my brother, 19 years old, had sex she was VERY dissappointed in him. I'm 4 years younger..and a baby? hmm. What do i do! Abortion clinics tell your parents, and there's no way I would have the baby.

p.s. I'm not certain if I'm pregnant or not, so please don't respond with anything to make me regret my experience.

you should definitely wait to see if you have your period but if you dont get it that exact day dont worry too much because that often happens. if you dont get it within a couple days then i would definitely tell your mom. this is huge news and you absolutely wont be able to hide it. also dont worry too much, because it may just be a false alarm. you can try taking a pregnancy test that you can buy from a drug store, but sometimes those arent accurate either. good luck!
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