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ok so i've been going out with this boy i really like for over 10 monthss and in the begginning everything was great and he was soo sweet .. after like 7months he started bein different & didnt call as much or anything & i was always the one that had to set up the plans then after 8months he dumpt me well he called it a break and i understand because he had a lot of shit going out but the next day he told me it was a huge mistake and stuff and like hes wicked sorry and stuff & he asked me back out and i said ya now its been over 10 months and like he always hangs out wid his friends and not really me but when hes with me hes so sweet & tells me he loves me & everything & always holds me close. should i be concerned? i really love him.. is he gunna do the same thing to me again? his friends tell me he really loves me and the reason he dont always say it constantly like he used to is because for the first couple of months he showed me he loves me and now he assumes i know he doess.. i just want someones opinion
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ok id make sure nothing is hapening but the way you explain him i think he does really care but ask him where are we going and see what ahppens and then youll know
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no hunnie i dont think you should worry because you like hanging out w/friends and shopping and stuff..and ii gusse he dose to.... maybe you should talk to him about how you feel...cause that might work...i went threw the same thing w/my last boyfriend mike... in the begginging he always called me,told me he loved me,and always there but as we got like...going out longer he stoppped because yeah he knew i knew he loved me,and then yeah i just talked to him and i always would call him..and yeah he always hung out w/his friends and partys' and stuff and i didnt worry becaause i trusted him and i knew he wouldnt cheat and his friends always told me everything that happend anyway lOl..xoxox jenny xoxxo
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It's hard to have a boyfriend, guessing you're in highschool? Well, if you are in H.S. think about it this way, do you like to hang out with your friends a lot? i'll take it as a yes, well thats all he's doing, he still wants to hang out with all his guy friends, and sometimes its hard to stiill be friends with your buddies and yet have a serious realtionship. That's what i think is happening, you shouldnt be worried one bit, because when its just you and him and he treats you like you're the only one in the world, well idt it could get much better than that. Maybe you should consider hanging out with his friends sometimes too, like bring some of your friends a long to and just all hang out, or have a party with both his and your friends and have them all talk and socialize, that way it will and can be a lot easier for the two of you to hang out and not have any worries. Idk if that was much help, i hope it was :-) and everything will be fine with the two of you, and maybe just tell him how you feel like sit down keep it calm and tell him that you know you feel that he hangs out with his friends a lot but you understand he has a lot of friends and wants to hang out with them, but sometimes you feel a little rejected when it comes to hanging out with just you because he always already has plans.
Sorry its not much, but it's worth a shot.
Good Luck.
Let me know how it all goes!
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