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ok so i've been going out with this boy i really like for over 10 monthss and in the begginning everything was great and he was soo sweet .. after like 7months he started bein different & didnt call as much or anything & i was always the one that had to set up the plans then after 8months he dumpt me well he called it a break and i understand because he had a lot of shit going out but the next day he told me it was a huge mistake and stuff and like hes wicked sorry and stuff & he asked me back out and i said ya now its been over 10 months and like he always hangs out wid his friends and not really me but when hes with me hes so sweet & tells me he loves me & everything & always holds me close. should i be concerned? i really love him.. is he gunna do the same thing to me again? his friends tell me he really loves me and the reason he dont always say it constantly like he used to is because for the first couple of months he showed me he loves me and now he assumes i know he doess.. i just want someones opinion (link)
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It's hard to have a boyfriend, guessing you're in highschool? Well, if you are in H.S. think about it this way, do you like to hang out with your friends a lot? i'll take it as a yes, well thats all he's doing, he still wants to hang out with all his guy friends, and sometimes its hard to stiill be friends with your buddies and yet have a serious realtionship. That's what i think is happening, you shouldnt be worried one bit, because when its just you and him and he treats you like you're the only one in the world, well idt it could get much better than that. Maybe you should consider hanging out with his friends sometimes too, like bring some of your friends a long to and just all hang out, or have a party with both his and your friends and have them all talk and socialize, that way it will and can be a lot easier for the two of you to hang out and not have any worries. Idk if that was much help, i hope it was :-) and everything will be fine with the two of you, and maybe just tell him how you feel like sit down keep it calm and tell him that you know you feel that he hangs out with his friends a lot but you understand he has a lot of friends and wants to hang out with them, but sometimes you feel a little rejected when it comes to hanging out with just you because he always already has plans.
Sorry its not much, but it's worth a shot.
Good Luck.
Let me know how it all goes!
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my boyfriend doesnt find me very attractive.. he thinks i'm cute but not hot, he doesnt seem to have any desire to have sex.. which bugs me lots.. can someone help me with tips to make him want me more? please (link)
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For one, hunnie if he doesn't like you for you, well his lose. He seems to be the type to go for more of the looks in a relationship than the personality, i could be wrong though. What i think you should do is confront him, ask him why he's holding back, or why he doesnt seem to have the desire of having sex. Just sit him down and have a one on one conversation ask and make sure you didnt do anything wrong and that everything is going ok in his life, and tell him how you feel, dont hold back. The whole attractive thing, you dont want to change your looks just to impress him because then thats just like disgusing yourself and not being yourself which is key in every relationship. If he doesnt make you happy, then maybe he's not the one for you, maybe you just need to give it a break, take a breather find some fresh air, you deserve someone who wants you for you, and doesnt want to be with you just because, there should be a reason, the reason that he doesnt want to leave you.
Sorry, it may not be the best, but theres not much left to say. You deserve so much better if all he cares about is looks.
Hope i helped a little. Let me know!
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I am male/14
Next year I'm starting high school. Everyone who goes to my school now is going to another highschool than I am. Should I be worried about starting all over? I mean, I'm going to be losing a lot of friends soon. It's just going to be sad on the last day of school when I have to say good bye to all my friends. Help me Please! (link)
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I can't tell you i've been through a new school sort of thing, but i've def. been through the starting highschool thing. It's going to be hard the first day, not knowing anyone at all, especially not know the background and gossip behind everyone. The key thing is to be yourself and remember that first impressions arnt everything. Just remember that being yourself is the most important thing you can do, and if people dont like you for you, than their loss. Hopefully the people are nice and welcoming and will talk to you, if not dont be afraid to introduce yourself to people get out there meet a varity. It's a chance to start over with new people. As for the friends you'll be leaving behind, well that's going to be hard. Just make sure to always still keep in touch with them, visit them once in a while, just dont forget about them because they're half the reason that you're the person you are today. i guess all i have to say in the end, get out there be yourself dont hold back, they cant make fun of you if they dont even know who you are so dont be afraid.
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Do you guys believe that high school sweethearts can last throughout adulthood? I've heard from many people that if they end up getting married they'll just end up miserable. Or that most end after senior year. (link)
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It's hard to have a long term relationship last through highschool. The tough thing is, college, its hard especially if your colleges are seperated from eachother. The important thing is, if you really think that they're the one try it, go for it, do not give up. I mean sure you're going to hit some bumps in the road but they'll be repaired soon. The whole marriage ending up miserable, well it all depends on the people in the relationship. If you really want it to work out, well it will, its going to take time, and i'll tell you now they're are goign to be the fights but just remember in the long run you are both in life together and not there to make eachother miserable but to help eachother through the rough times. Consider the relationship as a friendship, i mean hopefully the person is like your best friend you can tell them anything and feel ok with it, you can go on about life and have the conversation never end, i mean friends always have their drama and little fights but they always pull through and need eachother till the end.
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