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my boyfriend doesnt want me
my boyfriend doesnt find me very attractive.. he thinks i'm cute but not hot, he doesnt seem to have any desire to have sex.. which bugs me lots.. can someone help me with tips to make him want me more? please
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i think your boyfriend just cares about how you look and not cares whats inside.in my opinion thats totally wrong.you don't have to look sexy for some guy.just be yourself.if he dosent like it,then whatever.
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Have you ever thought that your boyfriend should love you for who you are, and not for someone that you're pretending to be? If it bugs you that he wants to have sex, then why would you try & turn him on more?
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For one, hunnie if he doesn't like you for you, well his lose. He seems to be the type to go for more of the looks in a relationship than the personality, i could be wrong though. What i think you should do is confront him, ask him why he's holding back, or why he doesnt seem to have the desire of having sex. Just sit him down and have a one on one conversation ask and make sure you didnt do anything wrong and that everything is going ok in his life, and tell him how you feel, dont hold back. The whole attractive thing, you dont want to change your looks just to impress him because then thats just like disgusing yourself and not being yourself which is key in every relationship. If he doesnt make you happy, then maybe he's not the one for you, maybe you just need to give it a break, take a breather find some fresh air, you deserve someone who wants you for you, and doesnt want to be with you just because, there should be a reason, the reason that he doesnt want to leave you.
Sorry, it may not be the best, but theres not much left to say. You deserve so much better if all he cares about is looks.
Hope i helped a little. Let me know!
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sweetie looks arent EVERYTHING. i bet you are gorgeous anyways! but um you could either do something nice for yourself like wear something cute/sexy not slutty tho you dont want a reputation! um do your hair and makeup cute just things like that. but i would say that if he doesnt like you for you, and only goes for the looks he is no good. i would wait and see how things develop and if nothing gets better find a guy that actually loves you for you and not what you look like. if you need anything im always here hun just let me know!
♥ Kristen
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Well, if your guy doesn't want to have sex with you only due to your looks, then i would personally leave him and find someone else who will treat you right.
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i dont know what to tell except not everythign is about sex and that if you bf doenst want have sex with you and doesnt think your attractive leave him. looks arent everything and i bet you have a gorgeous personality and can do a lot better then this guy.
*~Stephanie~*
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If your bf doesn't want you just because your not "HOT"then FUCK HIM. You don't need him. Don't change or do anything just for him to like you more.That's crazy!!You can find someone that loves you for who you are not just because your on considered his so called "HOT". ♥
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