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Highschool next year
I am male/14
Next year I'm starting high school. Everyone who goes to my school now is going to another highschool than I am. Should I be worried about starting all over? I mean, I'm going to be losing a lot of friends soon. It's just going to be sad on the last day of school when I have to say good bye to all my friends. Help me Please!
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All you have to do is keep in touch with your friends. Ask for their number and address and email. You should not be worried but to be a little nervous is normal. But you will make a lot of new friends so try and keep in touch with your friends. Hope I helped!
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well when you start high school, (and i am currently a freshman)you are in different classes with different people like freshman and sophmores and even some juniors are mixed into your classes. a lot of people who go to private schools after middle school end up comming back anyways because they end up hating the school. so dont be to bumbed out because you'll make new friends.. - - <3 michelle
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Ahhh I went through that a year and a half ago when I first started high school. Almost all of my friends were going to one school and I was going to another. As much as you say that you will remain friends forever, it's not always the case. Now when I see my old 2 best friends it's as if nothing has changed, but it has. One of my other friends who goes to the same school as me keeps in GREAT touch with one of our old best friends, that's how I stay in touch with my old friend, through her. But it's not goodbye, goodbye means forever, it's more of a "see ya later" type of thing. I'm sure if there is a local mall or cinema you guys can go hang at the mall or see movise or something. Seeing each other less makes it more fun when you do see each other :). Don't stress too much. I felt this same way and I ended up making a really good friend the very 1st day of high school. It's a lot better than you think. High school is way more fun (though way more dramatic) than middle school. Just don't befriend the wrong people. If you start hanging around with the stoners or the drunks and stuff you'll get a really bad reputation and it's not something you want. But really it's the same as every year. I mean you almost always have a friend, or at least someone you know, in one of your classes, but you never end up sitting near them and you always end up friends, or at least civil, with the people in you class. It just takes time. Bring a camera your last day of school so you can save the memories, I took two cameras my last day of 8th grade and I still have most of those pictures. A lot of those friends have gotten myspace since then, also instant messenger helps to keep in touch. Go to as many sporting events against their school as possible so you can see each other that way, that's what I have to do since one of my old friends is a cheerleader. Also it's a fun way to meet people, my friend met one of her ex boyfriends (in your case I suppose it would be girlfriend) at a football game haha. Well I suppose this is long enough, if you have any other questions feel free to drop one in my inbox.
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im going throught he same exact thing im leaving for high school next year and im goint ot a toatlly differnt school so im scared about it and im worried about leaving my friends see iv gone to the same school for 10 years w/ the same people its a very small selective school well anyway i wudnt wry bout it the way i look at it is every time you try something new yopu make 1 new freind like summer camp cheeleading sports what ever you always are nervous then you get there and really click with one person and become close friends and they introduce you to their friends and itll all work out dont worry bout it hope i helped love boyproblems
sry its long
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I can't tell you i've been through a new school sort of thing, but i've def. been through the starting highschool thing. It's going to be hard the first day, not knowing anyone at all, especially not know the background and gossip behind everyone. The key thing is to be yourself and remember that first impressions arnt everything. Just remember that being yourself is the most important thing you can do, and if people dont like you for you, than their loss. Hopefully the people are nice and welcoming and will talk to you, if not dont be afraid to introduce yourself to people get out there meet a varity. It's a chance to start over with new people. As for the friends you'll be leaving behind, well that's going to be hard. Just make sure to always still keep in touch with them, visit them once in a while, just dont forget about them because they're half the reason that you're the person you are today. i guess all i have to say in the end, get out there be yourself dont hold back, they cant make fun of you if they dont even know who you are so dont be afraid.
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Okay all your friends from 8th grade you could hang out with on the weekends, and at events and crap. Also meeting new people and making new friends is really fun, I switched to a new school this year and I'm friends with everyone in the grade and I still keep in touch with my friends at my old school.
So don't worry! You will still be friends with them unless they're the kind of people that are retarded say "We aren't friends anymore because we don't hang out anymore" pshhhhhhhh.
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aww dont be worried! keep your old friends, but go ahead and try and make some new ones right away
also if you play sports youll meet a lot of new people there =) annnd, youll meet upperclassmen friends and what not
so dont be scared
good luck!!
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I don't think you should be to worried about it.
You will still have the friends you have now. You may not see them all day but they will be around.
You will add new friends too. The last day of school is sad anyway. You will be able to hang out with friends over the summer though. Soon you'll learn to drive and it will be even easier.
Don't worry, look on it as a new adventure! :)
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No, you shouldn't be worried. High school's a lot of fun because every year, you meet a lot of new people. Even if you went to the same high school as your friends, you wouldn't see them as much as you'd like to and you probably wouldn't have that many classes with them. You won't lose your friends though if you keep in contact with them so don't be sad, you'll have fun in high school.
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