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I love giving advice & I think I'm pretty good at it. I can get along with almost anyone unless they piss me off. I adore Hollister, it's my favorite store ever. I'm not a girly girl but I'm not a tomboy either. I don't wear any make-up at all, I don't like it. I hate it when girls wear way too much of it, it's.. ew. I'm a pretty big goofball & I love making people laugh. I'm not very mature, either. Love me or hate me, I'll still be me & I won't change for anyone.

I have a lot in common with people but I'm still different. I'm not stuck up & I like making new friends. I have a lot of them but I have no idea what I'd do without my best friends. I don't judge people by the way they dress, their personality is what gets me.

Music takes up a huge part of my life. I listen to pretty much anything & everything. Literally, you name it.. I probably like it. I love romantic songs & songs that make me wanna dance. :D

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what color is auburn?

Auburn is somewhat like a dark red or reddish brown.

so i like this guy alot. he's really nice and sweet and funny and he likes me a lot too. he told me this about two days ago, then broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out. he hasn't asked me out yet, and i dont know what to say. i really do want to go out with him, but there hasn't been one girl he's gone out with that he hasn't cheated on.. so what would make me any different? should i talk to him? he's a really great guy but i'm just not dowm with the cheating thing.

You probably won't know until you ask him because there is a chance he could cheat, like you said.. he has cheated on every girl he's gone out with. I would talk to him & ask him how you would be any different, tell him anything that's on your mind about it. Good luck, girl. Hope everything turns out alright.

ok well ive decided to go tanning for the very first time you see im not the type of girl that would normally do this but its something i want to do but the only problem is i have no idea how to like i know you have to wear something like a bathing suit but how do you adjust the temperature? and how do you know when its done? the lady told me there was two options but i forget the names of both how do i get a nice tan with out turning orange and without coming out the same i was before?? help!!!

Tell the people who are working that it's your first time tanning & they will run you through on how to use the bed. Whatever you do, don't go in the tanning bed for longer than ten minutes your first time because you'll burn very badly. You know when it's done because at the front, they'll ask you how many minutes you want & they'll set it on the computer. Your bed will turn off automatically right after the minutes you asked for. You don't have to wear anything when you're in the bed but i usually wear underwear because it hurts really bad if you get burned on your lower back. I would recommend the stand up bed because I don't like laying down where other people have layed but whatever works for you, use whatever you want but I wouldn't recommend The Mystic Tan because there's a chance you'll turn out orange. Oh & definetly don't forget your tanning goggles. If you need some than buy some, they're very cheap. If you don't wear them, you can damage your cornea & can eventually become blind. Have fun, I love tanning & I'm sure you'll love it, too.

i was kind of raped. i knew the guy but he came over and we were sitting on my bed. he pulled down my pants and without a condom he starting to like you know what i mean. i tried to stop him but hes bigger than me soo yeah and he pulled out then he came. im worried about being pregnant. i normally get my period from the 9th - 16th todays the 8th. i have been getting cramps like period cramps but no period yet. does it sound like im pregnant ? p.s im only 14! what should i do

If you told him you didn't want to do anything & he forced you to, than you really need to tell someone. Your parents, a school councelor, a best friend.. anyone you can trust because you can't let him do that to you again or anymore girls. He also needs to be put away so don't be scared to speak out. If he didn't cum in you, than you're not pregnant. I usually get cramps before I start my period so that means your period should be starting any day.

ok iv really like this guy for a while, and hes the first guy that iv actually reaaaally been interested in. wev kissed and stuff befor but wev never gone out. During the summer i kno he liked me because he was really protective and stuff.but now he wants to do like sexual stuff with me , and i kind of want to but im not sure if hes using me or not. Also i dont want to seem cheap, but its kind of hard because i do wanna do that stuff and i really liek him. usually i lose interest in guys pretty quickly but this ones got me crazy haha. so what should i do? how do i find out if hes using me?

Even though you're crazy about him, I wouldn't do anything. If you're afraid of being used, I don't think you should be doing anything sexual with him. You should lose it to someone you really love & he should love you back. Since he's not your boyfriend, than you'll probably feel used after you guys do stuff because he can go off with another girl & do the same thing.

where can i buy cute black flatts? (any kind) thats not a lot? link please :]. thanks !

I have a pair of black flatts from Payless & they were around $10.00. I'm pretty sure Aeropostale has some, too, but there's are like $20.00.

I was just at the slopes last night, and i saw this really cute guy. me and him made eye contact the whole night, then at the end i saw his friend and told him that his friend was cute. He then told him, then the guy came up to me and i got his number. I dont know if i should call him or when to call him. I'm also afraid that if i do call he will think im weird, or we wont have anything to talk about. Any ideas what to do?

He must like you if he gave you his phone number. I wouldn't call right away, I'd give it a few days because I play hard to get but that's just me. If you want to do that you can or if you want to call him right away that's totally fine. When you have a conversation just talk about if he had fun at the slopes, school, friends, family, life, what's he doing next weekend, ask if he wants to hang out, etc. hope that helps & good luck! :]

okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥

It's not a bad thing though if she tells you a lot of things, she really trusts you. Just tell the people it's none of their business & if they want to know something about her than they should ask her, they shouldn't get mad at you. Don't tell them something she doesn't want them to know about her because if she finds out, it could ruin your friendship & who would you rather have.. those people that get mad at you for no reason or your best friend?

Alright, I need some cute pet names! The ones I usually use are like "cutie, sweety, honey" you know, the norm.

if you guy could, it would help A LOT, just anything, and if its something a little...odd, explain please? lol. one day I called him stud muffin.. it was really funny, but he didnt like it :D

thanks a lot guys!

I usually call my boyfriend handsome, sweets, babe, or baby. If you can make an abreviation out of his name than you can use that, like my boyfriend's name is Kevin Montgomery so I call him K Mo most of the time, too.

ok so i use to go out with this boy named jacob he was soo sweet . nice . lovin . caring basicly wat a girl wants inna guyy but the only problem was . was that he was boring we never did anything other than go to each others houses . but thats beside the point . we broke up i think the beginin of December because i just felt like it wasnt goin any wher . now i miss him more than ever i didnt think i would want him bac but the tables turned on me & i really miss him ALOT & i wanna get bac together with him . i mean we didnt even speck after we broke up & yesterday was the 1st day sence . but i found out he has a girl friend . idk wat to do i mean if hes happy i dont wanna mess anything up because im not THAT big of a bitch ya kno . im scared 2 tell him how i feel cause he'll prolly just be like well your the one who broke up with me & i dont feel like hearing it .. WAT DO I DO ??

thanks for yall who answer me

I'd wait until him & his girlfriend break up. If you tell him that you still like him now & it effects him, he'll end up being very confused on who he should go to. If he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, that's totally unfair to his girlfriend. So, just wait until something happens to them than you can tell him. Don't mess up anything for them right now though.

I like two wondeful guys, they like me too. I really can't decide between them. If I could merge them to one person, I would call him mr.perfect! I can't make up my mind! What guy do you think sounds best?

Guy #1:
hot, brunett, goes to my class, popular, sensetive, confident (not really, just pretends to be), same humor as me, but don't have alot in commmon, lives in the city, globetrotter, short for a guy (but taller than me), looks up to his best friend, totally charmig and a smile to die for! Style: Trendy and casual

Guy #2:
hot, blond, goes to my best friends class (stil same school though), semi-popular within class, lack of confidence exept when it comes to music and sports, same humor, have alot in common (exact same music taste!), very tall, plays giutarr like a god, writes songs, down to earth, totall cutie and has puppy eyes. Style: punk/rock and casual

In order to make your desision on who might ound the best, a short description of me:
brunett,exentric, talkative, cute, weirdo, playful, could be serious when needed, have a history of BAD X-es, (don't wanna sound ego but-) popular, can hang out with anyone, very nery intrests though (like starwars, battlestargalactica and chemistry). Style:Chic and laidback

There, descripetions of my to guys and me. Which one sounds best? PPLEASE HELP! Guy#1 or Guy#2??? Because I'm clueless, I really can't decide, I like them both in different ways!
please help me!

I think #2 sounds better. You describe #2 like you like him a lot more than #1 because you say #2 plays guitar like a god & down to earth. For #1, you don't have a lot in common with him.. if you don't have a lot in common with someone, you're relationship probably won't last very long. You get along better with #2, you're both popular, & you both have the same humor. You also say he's good looking, too, & that also adds on when he has a good personality. I'm not saying #1 has a bad personality, but I think you're a better match with #2. Good luck! :]

for some reason, i cant send myspace messages.
and it really sucks. ive sent a report, but that was about 5 days ago and it still doesnt work.
is there anything else i can do?
i dont want to make a new myspace or anything..

-thanks.

My friend had the same problem. She said that within a few days, your messages will start working again out of no where.

what are some songs about like friendship and love? and songs about like the beach or california thanks

Songs about friendship & love:
- "Wonderwall" by Oasis
- "Barbie Girl" by Aqua
- "Kiss the Girl" by Ashley Tisdale
- "Back at One" by Brian McKnight
- "All or Nothing" by O-Town
- "Iris" by The Goo Goo Dolls
- "Everytime We Touch" by Cascada
- "The Best of Me" by The Starting Line
- "I'm Sprung" by T-Pain
- "Let Me Love You" by Mario
- "Crazy in Love" by Beyonce
- "Show Stopper" by Danity Kane
- "Ain't No Other Man" by Christina Aguilera
- "The Minstrel's Prayer" by Cartel
- "Shortie Like Mine" by Bow Wow
- "My Love" by Justin Timberlake
- "Only Hope" by Mandy Moore

Songs aobut the beach & California:
- "California Love" by Tupac
- "Boys of Summer" by The Ataris
- "Summer Love" by Justin Timberlake

Ok, i have braces, and i only need them for a year. I already have Natural Discoloration in my teeth, and i've noticed my teeth are getting like kind of stains on them i think from the braces, but i cant tell. I brush my teeth pretty well and use mouthwash and i brush them alot. does anyone who HAD braces know if when they take the braces off and you have stains they whiten your teeth? i'm so worried i'm gonna have stains!!!

No, whenever you go to your orthodontist to get your braces taken off, they don't whiten your teeth. All they do is take the brackets & the glue off. If you do have stains, just go to your dentist because they'll whiten them. They'll probably tell you to use Crest Whitening Strips as well because they work really well.

OK this is a reallllly weird question, But me and my friend are 13, and she is in a size 36 A and i'm in a 30-32 A.....and she alrdy has cleavage!!! But i dont, and i was wondering how big your boobs have to be to get cleavage lol, i was wondering if there is anything i can do to get it?

I'm pretty sure you have to be at least a B to have cleavage. There's nothing you can do to make your boobs grow faster, you're still really young so you have a lot of time before your boobs get fully developed. In the mean time, you can use a padded or push up bra to make your boobs look bigger.

i just bought new uggs, i paid around 200$ for them from athletes world. (in richmond, b.c.)

im just wondering if i got ripped off.

thanks!!

In a way.. yes, you did. Some Uggs are really expensive but you can get them for a cheaper price than what you paid.

my friend lets call her "S"

well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing

should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him

She just might be trying to be a good friend & look out for you or she might be jealous. Than again, that was totally unfair about what she did to you & your ex boyfriend. Just tell her nicely that you need to talk to her & tell her something like "i know you want to be helpful but I can make my own decesions & I don't need your help when it comes to guys." If she doesn't stop, I'd stop being friends with her.

i'm always scared to IM this kid, I mean I kinda like him, but I also just wanna be friends w/ him & i feel tottalyyy weird, just being like hey! like.. i dno. should i just IM him? or will he think im tottaly weird or something??!

Yes, IM him. He won't think you're weird, he'll more than likely think you're trying to be friendly & be friends with him.

Okay, so I like, well not like but LOVE this guy named Jake. He is sooooooooooooooooooo cute. Here is the problem, he is shorter then i am! Everyone is so short! I'm begging for help. mainly because he is comming to my house to finish a project and i don't know what to say!

Just ignore the height differance. I dated a guy that was shorter than me & no one really seemed to care. Talk to him like you usually do whenever you're around him. If he doesn't know that you like him, tell him. :]

Ok, I have streach marks around my waist, a few tiny ones on my stomach, and a few on the back of my legs. I'm a tiny bit overweight, but not that much. how can i get rid of the streach (sp?) marks?? thanks everyone!!

They don't go away but you could cover them up with cocoa butter.

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