ok so i use to go out with this boy named jacob he was soo sweet . nice . lovin . caring basicly wat a girl wants inna guyy but the only problem was . was that he was boring we never did anything other than go to each others houses . but thats beside the point . we broke up i think the beginin of December because i just felt like it wasnt goin any wher . now i miss him more than ever i didnt think i would want him bac but the tables turned on me & i really miss him ALOT & i wanna get bac together with him . i mean we didnt even speck after we broke up & yesterday was the 1st day sence . but i found out he has a girl friend . idk wat to do i mean if hes happy i dont wanna mess anything up because im not THAT big of a bitch ya kno . im scared 2 tell him how i feel cause he'll prolly just be like well your the one who broke up with me & i dont feel like hearing it .. WAT DO I DO ??
HCOxBABE answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 3:51 pm: I'd wait until him & his girlfriend break up. If you tell him that you still like him now & it effects him, he'll end up being very confused on who he should go to. If he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, that's totally unfair to his girlfriend. So, just wait until something happens to them than you can tell him. Don't mess up anything for them right now though. [ HCOxBABE's advice column | Ask HCOxBABE A Question ]
the_sweeter_heart answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 3:48 pm: Well, if this guy already is in a relationship, then you shouldn't be messing with him and his girl. I think you should just be a friend, and go from there. Be really affectionate to him, just give him little hints that you still like him, and if he reacts positively to it, then you can go a little further. If this guy asks you about your feelings, admit it, "Yeah, I like you. Is it wrong to want you?" or something like that.
But don't try to break the guy and the girl up. Don't go crazy being flirtatious and everything. Maybe even wait until the two of them break up to start giving the hints.
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