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friendship or more....
Hi guys,
I'm sure you'll have a blast giving me advice.
So here is my problem.
I've been crazy about this guy for around three years now. At first, it was just a small thing but now it's huge. I know, as sad as it sounds, he's the first guy I've loved. He was in love with my 'former best friend' (I didn't fall out with her because of that reason, she left us.) Anyway, once that was over, we became... sort of mates. We argued constantly but for some reason, i still liked him... He found out and kind of stopped talking to me, but after a while once he thought i must be over him, he spoke to me again.
Basically, I'll get to now.
Three years later i'm still mad about him, but we're actually good friends. He calls me, we text all the time, (Even at really odd times, like 3am) We talk on the net. I've even invited him over to watch films (Which is a huge step) for us. I have never felt so odd in my life. There is something between my ribs and chest which feels like it wants to burst, it's making me laugh and smile but... I don't know what to do anymore, with any of it. Should I just feel lucky that we have such a good friendship (he's quite anti-social) or should I still try to be with him? If I stop trying, will he like me? What do I do?
Thanks,
Emma. X
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hey, well theres either a love connection there or theres not. you cant control if he likes you, vice versa. i think you should keep hanging out and see what happens from there. dont choose a status yet. just wait it out.
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