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will he cheat again?
so i like this guy alot. he's really nice and sweet and funny and he likes me a lot too. he told me this about two days ago, then broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out. he hasn't asked me out yet, and i dont know what to say. i really do want to go out with him, but there hasn't been one girl he's gone out with that he hasn't cheated on.. so what would make me any different? should i talk to him? he's a really great guy but i'm just not dowm with the cheating thing.
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You probably won't know until you ask him because there is a chance he could cheat, like you said.. he has cheated on every girl he's gone out with. I would talk to him & ask him how you would be any different, tell him anything that's on your mind about it. Good luck, girl. Hope everything turns out alright.
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well, there is always a possibility that he will cheat. like always. you can't change that - but perhaps you can lower it, or not care as much if he does cheat on you.
what would you talk to him about? say, "don't cheat on me?" i really dont think so ... even if you do talk to him, it probably won't change him.
alls YOU can do is think, well i'm a hot, smart girl and i am giving him a chance. if he messes up and cheats on me, his loss. not mine.
you just gotta keep thinking about YOURSELF. don't ALWAYS go out of your way to hang out with him. if he doesnt take the initiative to hang out, he's probably not worth it.
if he really likes you, he won't cheat on you. that's pretty much it. so be kinda, play hard to get. don't always talk to him - wait for him to come to you.
just stay positive - bad can always be turned into good. if he cheats, you'll meet a better guy, who is actually worth your time.
or, he may not even cheat, and you guys will be happy together. and good luck
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Here's the deal:
If he's cheated in past relationships he's more than likely to do it again. If he likes you, it's probably nothing personal because he's been with so many girls and has cheated. I don't think you should go out with him, I think you deserve better. EVERYONE does. Because once you get passed the looks... it's the person behind them that you have to deal with in the relationship. So have fun being single, because it doesn't always last long until a nice guy comes along! Because if you DO go out with that guy, then break up with him you might not have as much of a chance as going out with a NICE guy. Hope I helped, good luck!
~ Depressed_Poet
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ive been cheated on a couple times and it hurts. but people do change. like my boyfriend cheated on his ex and im with him now and like i have full trust in him. peoples can always change no matter how much people can say they cant. but i think you should to him. give it a try. it might work out. ;]
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