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I'm in 9 grade 1st of all. I live in a small town, so in my high school, its the same people from all 3 years of middle school. But I reall ywanna byofriend or just to have fun with guys but its hadr because they think of you as the reputation you earned in middle school, and of course Ive changed. How do I show that Im different from what i used to be like? and any other suggestions for having fun etc with the same old people? (link)
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This is exactly what happened to me. im moving but basically im running away from my problem. i would never suggest that to anyone. you need to meet people beyond your school as well. i got a boyfriend and he doesnt even go to this school. you just need to know how to get close to somebody.
Yours Truly
Ashleigh
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My boyfriend came over last night to watch a movie(we werent planning on doing anything).
During the movie, we started to make out.
Then it came to me giving him a bj.
After that he told me how much he loved me & he asked if we wanted to have sex.
i said yes, and as soon as he was taking my undies off, my little sister (10 years) walked in on us. I didnt even know she was home!
She just kinda stood there, and i yelled at her to get out.
Right after that my bf had to go home.
i dont know what to do because shes probably going to tell my parents & i dont want them to know!
help please? (link)
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If i were you i would go sit down and talk to yours sister. that kind of happened to me. my brother heard me and my boyfriend and told my mom and she walked in on us. but thats beside the point. talk to her and ask her if you two can keep a sister sister secret and if it makes her feel better than you can tell her to tell you something secret and you can keep each others secrets.
Yours Truly=]
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well my problem here is that my best buddy is cheating on his girlfriend.I talk to her, I mean we are schoolmates and we talk right, but I dont know what to do because I know my buddy is cheating on her but I dont know whether to tell her or not because if i tell her my buddy is gonna get mad but if I dont and she finds out, she'll be mad at me...I dont wanna lose any of them what should I do??... (link)
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Ok cheating is the WORST possible thing a guy could do to a girl. trust me i know from experience. it hurts. and i know how feel that you dont want to tell anybody because you dont want to hurt them. but what you should do is call him up and talk to him. tell him he should tell her. and if he is an asshole about it, then tell him that you are going to tell her anyways. and make him feel bad about it at the same time. if hes going to be like that then hes not a good frien and maby you should drop him=]
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This is WAY long and confusing so I apologize in advance. All this year i've had a "makeout buddy". We have the same friends, and we all hang out in a big group on the weekends, but sometimes when no one is around we kiss, and no one knows.. Anyway, 2 months ago we stopped and 1 month ago he kissed one of my best friends. (She sort of initiated it, she was flirting with him EXTREME at all times.) My best friend told me that they kissed and then I told her that I had kissed him too. She started crying and saying that she shouldn't have done it and then we agreed that we'd both been played and that neither of us would ever kiss him again. The reason I was upset with her wasn't really that they kissed, but the fact that she had suspected that me and the guy had had something going on, but she had always flirted with him anyway. Anyway, the other day he stayed at my house after a few friends had been over and we kissed, then he asked if I wanted to go upstairs (because my mom was downstairs) and I told him i couldn't and we couldn't kiss. I confessed that I knew what happened between him and my friend, and we talked for hours about it. I told him that what we did was never wrong, but it came wrong when he did that with my best friend. He agreed, and we talked forever, and it turns out my best friend didn't tell me the whole truth about what happened between them. Then we made-out and dry-humped and stuff and I feel really guilty. Am I betraying my friend, because I really feel like I can trust my guy friend more, i know that he's a whore and all, but i'm young and it's all just casual kissing (i've never taken any article of clothing off nor do i plan to.) (link)
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ok personally, you are not betraying your friend. she should know how it feels to like somebody. and even though she didnt know until after, she still did it. but if you have feelings for someone then thats not anyones fault. she was wrong for lying to you. even if it was just a little fib, its bullshit(sorry for the language.) guys dont always have a lot of respect for girls but if you can trust them more than you can trust your closest friend then thats alright. just dont trust talking to her anymore. iv had PLENTY of this kind of thing happen to me. =]
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so i like this guy alot. he's really nice and sweet and funny and he likes me a lot too. he told me this about two days ago, then broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out. he hasn't asked me out yet, and i dont know what to say. i really do want to go out with him, but there hasn't been one girl he's gone out with that he hasn't cheated on.. so what would make me any different? should i talk to him? he's a really great guy but i'm just not dowm with the cheating thing. (link)
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ive been cheated on a couple times and it hurts. but people do change. like my boyfriend cheated on his ex and im with him now and like i have full trust in him. peoples can always change no matter how much people can say they cant. but i think you should to him. give it a try. it might work out. ;]
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Okay, so I haven't had my period yet and I think I'll have it towards the month's end. And my birthday happens towards the month's end. So here's the prob: my fam and friends will go on an out of town trip and we'll go swimming. Now, how the heck can I swim when I have my period? I don't use tampons but I heard that if you use tampons while swimming then there's nothing to worrry about. Is that true?! And I've also heard this thing that the "flow" stops once you're underwater so you don't have to worry. Is this also true or is this just a myth?!
Please do help me! This is urgento! (link)
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well if i were you i would start using tampons so you can swim. they work well and they feel better than a pad. but the flow doesnt neccesarily stop. because when you are in wwater you evebtually have to get out to. nobody should take the chances. trust me i tried=]
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