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im scared.
i was kind of raped. i knew the guy but he came over and we were sitting on my bed. he pulled down my pants and without a condom he starting to like you know what i mean. i tried to stop him but hes bigger than me soo yeah and he pulled out then he came. im worried about being pregnant. i normally get my period from the 9th - 16th todays the 8th. i have been getting cramps like period cramps but no period yet. does it sound like im pregnant ? p.s im only 14! what should i do
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Well first of all, YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE. No one is going to think your a slut or a liar. What he did was wrong, if you told him no and he kept going, that is rape. He does not care about your well being if he did this. By not telling someone, you are letting him do this to other girls and have power over you.
On the bright side, the chances are you arent pregnanct. If your period usually comes between the 9th-16th and your having cramps, thats a sign your period is going to come soon,just on time. If it has been less than 3 days, you might want to consider emergency contreception. If your period does not come by the end of the month, take a pregnancy test.
oh and PLEASE TELL SOMEONE ABOUT THIS. I know it will be hard, but it will be even worse if he does it again to you or someone else.
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it depends on how long he did it. if you felt cum come in then you might. but i give you 99.99% no you are not pregnant.
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okay first of all you need to talk to someone you dont want the guy who raped you to get away with it do you? if you dont tell someone soon and then you tell someone later there might not be enough evidence to help you. do you know what i mean? anyway if he pulled out and he didnt cum in you then you should be okay. If you want to make sure you can always take a pregnancy test but wait to see if you get your period. your only 14 and you shouldnt be having sex of course you propably know that already.
if you want to talk to me about this write me back and we can continue talking. hope i helped and keep me updated!
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hun first of all you have to report this guy to the cops because having sex with you when you didnt want to was wrong and second of all if he came outside of you, you shouldnt get pregnant, plus you said you get your periode on the 9th if it was only the 8th when you wrote this dont worry and if you get your cramps your periode isnt far. hope i helped
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If you told him you didn't want to do anything & he forced you to, than you really need to tell someone. Your parents, a school councelor, a best friend.. anyone you can trust because you can't let him do that to you again or anymore girls. He also needs to be put away so don't be scared to speak out. If he didn't cum in you, than you're not pregnant. I usually get cramps before I start my period so that means your period should be starting any day.
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if you told him no and for him to stop you NEED to report him;; or else he might be walking around raping other girls and hurting them. even though he pulled it out before he came there is pre-cum that comes out right before that he won't feel because it's not as thick.. so theres always a change that you could be pregant. just play it off til the 16th and if you odn't get it thenn.. than take a pregancy test
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