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hes got me, and i cant get away <3
see i like this guys and i have for a very long time, well me and him have kissed and done stuff, but i dotn know if hes using me or not. i mean hes kinda got another girl and he hasnt said anything about gettin rid of her so i think he might be using me but he tells me all this stuff about how he has feelings for me and how hes falling for me and stuff, adn he even told me he loved me. i mean weve had sex, but i dont know if i want to continue having sex or doing stuff with him (sexually) until the other girl is gone, becuase i feel kinda bad for doing stuff when i know the other girl doesnt know about me and i dont wanna feel like awhore. But, i also really really REALLY really like him!!! a LOT!! and i dont wanna lose what we actually do have=] im really confused and i would love some advice. Please HELP ME!!
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you are a whore.
stop doing that stuff.
that poor girl would be so hurt if she found out.
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Hey, here is the hard truth: If he is cheating on a girl with you, he will most likely cheat on you. I would suggest that you realize this guy is a jerk. He is using you for sex. He is lying to you to get sex. If he loved you like he said, he would be devoted to you, and only you. He doesn't really love you- that makes him a liar, period.
Why are you so worried about losing what you do have with him? Because, honestly, you got jack sh*t with him. He's using you, and that isn't anything to want to keep ahold of, and it counts for nothing. He is a user and a liar and he is playing with your mind and your heart in order to get what he wants. You don't deserve that kind of treatment, and he isn't worth a bit of your time and efforts.
Get away from this jerk and save your feelings to give to some one who actually deserves them.
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If there's another girl on the side, he's using you. Get rid of him.
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hun. as much as you want to continue having sex with him because you think it will get him to like you more.. and to pick you over the other girl DON'T. it's not something to just do. i mean.. if he is using you your going to be more hurt than you woudl be if you two continue to do what your doing.. what i woudl do is tell him straight out; if you want me. than the other girl shouldn't be in the picture. because since your doing stuff with him he's not going to let her go.. but if you stop than he will rather leave the girl.. or you. and even though you REALLY REALLY REALLY like him.. it would be better for the both of you.
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