My name is Sara. I live in California. Im a happy person. I dont put up with drama and I enjoy trying to make life as simple as possible.
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Is it safe for a guy to eat you out or go down on you, if you have a lot of discharge? (link)
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Yes, it is safe. I would just make sure i cleaned down there very well prior to. hope I helped.
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is it true that guys are only in a relationship for the sex? and what kinds of things drive guys crazy that aren't sexually related? (link)
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it depends on the guy and the dynamics of your relationship. If you have a guy that truely cares about you and wants to pursue a romantic relationship as well, then he is probabily not just using you for sex
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when your going "down there" to finger a girl. Is the clit the place to focus alot of your time? Like will that gaurantee an orgasm? Thanks (link)
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Everyone is different, so it wont guarrantee it, but even if she doesnt, she will definetly like it. Also, some girls perfer penetration over rubbing
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whats four-play? (link)
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Four play is everything that isnt actually sex. It is usually used in the term to get people ready for sex. (ie girl getting wet, guy getting a hard on)
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I've never given or received oral sex. I am 15/f. People say it is normal to do it at my age and I sort of agree. I am afraid of having a guy go down on me because I don't have this kind of experience and I am shy. I'm sort of afraid of going down on a guy because I don't want to do it wrong.
People always say you're supposed to wait until it feels right but I think it will only feel right when I give it a try.
Any advice?? (link)
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you are right. The only way to really get a hang of it is practice. It took me a couple times, but then it just clicked and went smoothly. It was alot better for me and him. I know its hard, but try not to worry. Everyone is afraid there first time. Theres nothing wrong with not having experience.
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I had sex for the first time 2 nights ago. i wasnt in pain that night, but i was the morning after. im okay today, but i was wondering if there was a certain amount of days you should wait before doing it again? (link)
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no there isnt a certain time. You should just wait until you arent sore or feel uncomfortable anymore
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I am considering getting my nipple pierced, but I am only 16.. Do nipple piercings screw up your nipple or breast? (considering both of mine are still developing) And how bad is the scarring? Thank you! (link)
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No, they dont screw up your nipple if you take proper care of it. If it did screw anything up seriously, they wouldnt let that part be pierced. Ive had my belly button pierced for over 2 years, and Ive never had any problems with it.
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should you swim in the ocean while on your period,? (link)
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Yes you can, but you should use a tampon whenever you go in the ocean, oh and just dont swim in shark infested waters haha because they can pick up the scent of your blood.
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My x bf smoked pot, and I didn't know about it until about 2 months into the relationship (which is why I broke up with him). Anyway me being the kind of person who can't stand up for themselves and him being the definition of asshole, smoked right in front of me with his friend. When they came back from the room they were in I could still smell it and I think I may have been high for like a second or two? Or at least getting there... everything got so weird and all that happened was him walking by me, so I stepped outside because I didn't want to get involved. I just want to make sure this couldn't have hurt me in any way? I wouldn't ever do it but I got scared that it seemed to work so fast just from him walking by me. (link)
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No, there is no way this could have hurt you or gotten high. The active chemical in marujuana is thc, and thc will lose its effect in the air of a room, or on clothes after 8 seconds. Basically after 8 seconds of thc being exposed to oxygen, it dies. If they werent smoking in the room, there is really no way it couldve effected you.
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someone told me that you can have sex in different positions. like, standing or something. is that true? i don't believe it! (link)
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yes it is true. People have sex in many positions such as guy on top, girl on top, doggystyle, standing, etc..
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I have Ortho Tri Cyclen lo birth control. It's been going good for me, and everything, but I have two questions about it:
1) Does it SERIOUSLY help treat acne? In my experience it just worsens it. But I have been hearing from websites it should help it. Is this like a side effect from me using it for just a month, or does it just vary by person?
2) Also, there are like two yellow dots on the refill on day 1 and day 14 I think. What are those? And what is its purpose for being there?
thanks for reading! (link)
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The amount of acne really depends on the person. For some people it makes it better, and for others it worses it. My doctor told me it would make my ance better and did, but Some known side effects of birth control is an increase in ance.
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Ive been together with my boyfriend for 4 and a half months now. We talked about us both being ready to make love. Theirs just one thing holding me back. He has condoms but I dont feel comfortable with just that i heard the pill can give you cancer so I was woundering what else I could do to be safe. I dont want to tell my mom i know she'll ruin the experiance for me. (link)
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The pill will definetly not give you cancer, if it did, no one would use it. If you dont want your mom to know, then go to any planned parenthood and they will give you birth control. No other forms of birth control are as effective as the pill and the condom, so i suggest you use one or the other, or even better, both. Whoever told you the pill will give you cancer, is wrong. The pill is a very safe and effective form of birthcontrol.
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do ######### hurt. do guys typically cum during a ########. can a girl bit alittle (link)
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I have no idea what the "###" mean whatsoever. Please replace the "#" with what you actually mean and then I would be glad to answer your question.
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ok i know all about like what a girl goes through during puberty & all but what do the guys get if girls get periods??
nothing? (link)
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well the equevelant to periods for guys is "wet dreams" where they basically ejactulate in there sleep sometimes. But other signs of puberty is facial hair, body hair and a deeper voice.
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you know when guys get happy and they (i dont think this is the right word) have a boner or something. well i think you know what i mean. how can someone else tell if a guy has one? (link)
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You will see like a bump in his pants where his crotch is. This is his penis getting hard. You might not be able to see through his pants, but most of the time you can, especailly if hes wearing sweatpants.
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May I still consider myself vegetarian if i do not eat chicken, turkey or beef, but I still eat fish ocasionally? (link)
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I know plenty of people that call themselves vegitarians and still eat fish. I guess your not if people want to be all technical about it, but i think calinig yourself a vegitarian is pretty legit.
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What are the symptoms of having a yeast infection? I think I have one. Nomatter how much I wash it gets a smell, it itches, sometimes itchy bumps come up, after scratching they bleed, and white dandruff looking stuff is in the hair. The discharge is usually white and pretty normal smelling, but sumtimes its a bit yellow and a little smelly. If I have a yeast infection how do I treat it myself? im only 13. (link)
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If it is really itchy, it is probably a yeast infection. Although usually with a yeast infection you get white, thick. gross but "cottage cheese" like discharge. The white "dandruff" stuff is normal. Also, it depends on where it is itchy, if it is near your opening, then it most likely is, but if it is where you pubic hair is, then it is something different. A good treatment for a yeast infection is monostat, you can find it at any drugstore or grocery store usually.
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is it bad to get the hpv vaccine when your already sexually active? (link)
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No, I got the HPV vaccine after I was sexually active and my doctor knew this and said it was okay.
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can you get aids from having sex on your period? (link)
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Well this depends. if the person you are having sex with has aids, then yes. if the person you are having sex with does not have aids, then no. There is always a risk of aids or other stds with unprotected sex, period or not.
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i'm trying to loose weight by not eating. im not going anarexic but im just like eat a LOT less.. how long is it going to take for me to be VISIBLY skinnier? (link)
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Well it all depends on your metabolism and all how fast you will loose weight, but by not eating, your metabolism will slow and you will loose some weight because your not eating, but once you start to eat basically anything, you will pack on the pounds again because your metabolism is so slow. I suggest small, frequent, healthy meals throughout the day. This will boost your metabolism and keep you from feeling like your starving yourself.
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