so im 18/f
i have friends, but its that i commute to college, and i only talk to like two of my friends from high school.
i've been talking to this girl, emily. she use to go out with my cousin. she is in 9th grade though, in high schoool. i'm a freshman collge. the thing is, she gets me. she is the only one who understands whats going on in my life, because she is going through something similar too. i just feel weird hanging out with her though. i dont want people to be like wow she is hanging out with a freshman from high school, you know? but i love the girl, she is like becoming one of my close friends! like i said, i can trust her and i know she wont judge me. thats hard to find. but in my mind, i always feel like people think i dont have friends and i'm a loser for hanging out with a freshman. and i mean i really want to hang out with her, she is a nice girl and so what am i to say? oh i cant hang out with you because your like four years younger than me? NO! i want to hang out with her, but i feel stupid at the same time.
any thoughts, suggestions, comments, ANYTHING!?
its simple.....she's your friend....the age shouldnt matter......i'm in my second year of college and i still hang out with my friends from high school even though i'm 19 and some of them are 17....age dosnt matter.....ya it feels weird when you go out to the bar and that certain friend cant go but most of the time when that hapens you either do things without them sometimes or you just stay home and have a house party to include them.....but you shouldnt feel stupid if your older then her...if she gets you...then she's probably more mature and same level as you intelectually anyways.
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My ex is acting really weird to me since i dumped him he wont even talk to me and didnt want to dump him i was presured in to doing it. I still love him but he wont even talk to me or say hello at least once he is taking it really hard and so am i i wont to be friends or more then friends but he wont talk to me so how can i.
wat can i do to get him back?
sighnd confused-mess
well....not to be harsh but you did dump him for what seems to me as no good reason so you can't expect him to be friendly.....most people shy away from talking to the person who dumped them.....the most i could say is give him time and then talk to him when he's ready
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Our mutual "friends" apparently told her bad things about me, like, how I am "controlling" and yell at any other girl he talks to and other things apparently. I am not okay with this. Is there a way I can approach her about this? Through a letter? In person?
I will see her Wednesday (today is Monday) at a wrestling match. Her son (my boyfriend) is one of the star wrestlers and I am the manager. What can I do? Please help me. We have been dating on and off for the last 4 years. 16/f
alright hun...the first thing you need to know is that most mothers are very protective of their sons and they never think any girl is good enough so all that matters is what he sais about it....does he mind? if he dosnt then i would just let her be and just try being as friendly as you can with her...even if you would like to tell her off....if he sees that your trying to get along with her....the other stuff wont matter
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18/f
i've known my best guy friend for about, 4 years now. I love the kid, i really do like him alot but he has a girlfriend of two years. Anyways, whenever i know i am going to see him, or right before i walk into a room where he is going to be my hands shake like crazy and my heart pounds so fast, it feels like i'm going to faint or something. I cant control it though, its like im nervous to see him? The weird thing is, i'm so comfortable around him. I tell him just about everything and the shaking stops like 5 minutes after i'm with him. I feel like he can always tell that i'm nervous, but i'm really not that nervous? It is confusing but does anyone know why this would happen? Is there any way for me to try and stop this shaking happening?
I'm pretty sure that you love this guy more than you know but i think the fact that u can't tell him scares and frustrates you....i'd say try to just get your focus off of him in that way and if you can't handle that i would be totally honest with him and just lay your feelings out on the table. Its a hard thing to go through and sometimes your mind and your heart will tell you completely diffferent things but you just have to sit down and really think about you actions before you do anything. hope i helped hun
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Alright, to start off...i'm a tomboy. Im in to all those sports, and dress like a guy pretty much. Im friend with a bunch of guys. And i have band with this one guy we can call L. Whenever i have to wear those tight jeans or a dress/skirt for band, is like the only time he is really nice to me. all the rest of the time, he seems really annoyed with me. Like at football games when we play, (i'm wearing tight clothing then [band uniform]) he is like flirting with me the whole time. and sometimes in band, he just like "A, you can't do that so just stop." and gives me this annoyed look. And then a couple of nights ago, we had a band concert, and again i was wearing tight clothing. he kept checking out my butt, and my chest and stuff. Then later, that night [still at the concert] we are talking about this really nerdy freaking idiot kid we can call g. Well then i can't really remember what made him say this, but he was like "but a, your face is like really ugly." and i was like "yeah thanks[in a sarcastic way]"
do you think he was just like joking around, or serious. lots of people have told me that if i dressed girly, i would be soooo much prettier. but i dunno, its really getting at me. Do you think he likes me? hes a jerk so i would NEVER go out with him but whaddyou think?
alright hun....this guy isnt worth your time because you want somebody to like you for what you are....and to bad if people dont like that your a tomboy.....you'll grow out of that at your own time....i dont think what other people think should matter to you...yes i know its hard not to care but i was just like you and when you want to change how you look because of you...then thats fine but dont change for someone else....if you like the way you dress and you like what you do then thats all that should matter....dont worry
hope i helped hun
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only answer this if you like stuff like boys like girls, wtk, powerspace, yellowcard, etc. not top 40 stuff. or rap.
thanks :]
Never Too Late by tree days grace, its not screamo and it might fall under some emo categroies but its cool and powerful
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what are some different songs
that are like emo, screamo, or techno?
kthanxbye.
anything by lamb of god especially red neck, um...system of a down, insane clown possy, some seather etc...
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Hey. I'm 14, and I masturbate once every couple of days. Is this bad? Does this have any effect on my health?
hun its perfectly natural to masturbate, and its not going to affect your health some like to do it and some dont but just because you do does not mean your not doing something thats not naturel
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i was kind of raped. i knew the guy but he came over and we were sitting on my bed. he pulled down my pants and without a condom he starting to like you know what i mean. i tried to stop him but hes bigger than me soo yeah and he pulled out then he came. im worried about being pregnant. i normally get my period from the 9th - 16th todays the 8th. i have been getting cramps like period cramps but no period yet. does it sound like im pregnant ? p.s im only 14! what should i do
hun first of all you have to report this guy to the cops because having sex with you when you didnt want to was wrong and second of all if he came outside of you, you shouldnt get pregnant, plus you said you get your periode on the 9th if it was only the 8th when you wrote this dont worry and if you get your cramps your periode isnt far. hope i helped
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what does it mean when your with someone boyfriend/girlfriend wise and you feel completely safe like nothing can hurt you. you get major butterflys in your stomoch and feel all nervous around them. you think about them alot and when you kiss them it puts the biggest smile on your face. you want to see them all the time and it makes you sad when you cant. what does this mean? does this mean im in love? do i love them? i know i love this feeling but i dont know. is this what in love feels like?
alright well it might not totally mean your head over heels in love with this guy but it sounds like you`ve got some heavy feeling, just dont jump into things, take every day a minute at a time. hope i helped
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ok like now..im not sexually active but when it comes to the time .. i hear that fingering is a good way to get loosened up, so when your bf finger's you..like where do u look? wont it be awkward if you look at him while he's doing it? do you lay down..what?!
alright, i just lay back where ever i may be and just close your eyes or you could also just look right into his, guys like that. but if your not ready to do it it will be awkward.
hope i helped and feel free to ask me more questions.
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Does anyone masturebate with a showerhead? Like on one of those three settings? If so whats the feeling called when you like can't take it anymore. Is that an orgasm? Is there anyway to prevent it? Cause it feels so good when I masturebate I dont want to stop but that feeling makes me and then I feel so wrong after. Like I did something bad
Ok its pretty simple,with woman its not seen as fertile. There is a time in the month where you are most likely to get pregnant though and thats exactly 14 days after your periode, right in the middle of you cicle. hope i helped
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Alright on sunday my boyfriend fingered me, and this was the first time I've ever been fingered. It hurt a lot, and afterwards I bled a little. Now when I pee it burns and hurts a lot...
Is it normal for it to hurt or bleed the first time? And if he scratched me could it get infected?
Thanks
Alright hun.....i'm thinking you bled because he might have poped your cherry, and it does hurt the first time because the skin inside of you is fairly tight so his big manly finger mght have stretched you out so i wouldnt worry about it
hope i helped hun and if you have anymore question feel free to ask.
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Well me ant this guy are in love yeah!
but...
what do they really truthelly mean when they say
they
dont want a girlfriend because evry relationship he goes through goes wrong!
(and to me thats life)
but i do love him i know its not some kind of crush i love him he ses he love me but he uses that exuse does he really mean what hes sayin? thanx hope u can help xxxx
ok hun
he might love you and he might not its hard to know with guys but if he sais he loves you but he's scared to be in a relashionship because of his past ones.....just make sure he knows that with you it will be different......i know that the realshionship i'm in right now had the same problem but i just told him that he should trust me and he did and we've bin together for almost 3 months and we are still going strong.....so just tell him to trust that it will work and if he really loves you he will.
hope i helped chow 4 now hun xox
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My friend Nicole likes the same kid I like. We are all the same age. In school she flirts with him and he flirts back, but he flirts with me and I flirt back too. Nicole is one of my good friends. But I really like this guy..what do I do :-/
well its either fight for him and risk losing a good friend or forget about the loser and both of you move on because trust me.....i have bin in that same position at your age and all i have to say is......guys come and go but friends last forever....think about it hun.....hope i helped
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i like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me should i use the direct approach and aske her out or tell sum1 else 2 do it for me
k a real man works without a net so what do you think.....if you want her that badly go for it yourself cuz i`m a chick and personaly i think it lame when guys ask other ppl to ask me out for them so there
hope i helped
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i really wanna lose some weight cuz i dunno i want 2 hehe but i dont really have alot of time please help me....maybe some diet type tips or some kind of workout please im desparate
luv fatso lmao
ok if you want to lose weight fast......your shit outa luck unless you strav yourself and if you would even consider that i`d have to slap you silly cuz thats a stupid thin to do so just take your time and walk alot......i find that helps to keep you in shape.
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I met a guy over the summer and he's really nice. Unfortunatly i never met him face to face until school started and i began to see him around the school. I was so shocked when i saw him but i found out that he was suicidal and gets depressed really easily so i was nice to him. Apparently hes getting the wrong idea about me and he likes me! I try to be nice but when he says stuff like 'i love u' i get scared and say 'i love u 2!' back.
He thinks i like him but i dont! He's soo not my type and wears girls pants!
HELP!
ok.....saying i love you 2 is just wrong....cuz he's gonna be sader when you tell him you dont actually love him.......just explain to him that although he loves you......you love him as a friend and you wouldnt wat to ruin that friendship with a relahionship
hope i helped
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WHat is "friends with benifits?"
its when you get to fool around and do everything with a guy or girl and not go out with them
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okay well this guy and me have been "together" fo about 4 months... hes never really offically asked me out, but i guess you could say were dating. im a really jealous person and i was looking at his myspace, and he added 12 new people (all girls, and all very pretty) he said he doesnt talk to them, and that i look better than them, but im still very jealous... should i be mad/jealous about this?? and also... since he hasnt asked me out (officially), do you think theres a chance he might ask me to homecoming? hes not talked/been with any other girl except for me, since june, so is there a chance he might ask me? also, what are soem hints i could give him to let him know that i want to go with him? thanks a buncH!!
ok well if you want him to ask you.....stop being so jelouse....who cares there only pretty girls if he sais your better looking chill out.....and if you really want to go to homecoming with him just ask him......its not uncomen that girls ask guys....its not that he dosnt want to go with you its just that some guys are slower when it comes to that....but i`m sure everything is going to work out fine for you
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