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wat shall i do


Question Posted Monday October 17 2005, 2:48 pm

i like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me should i use the direct approach and aske her out or tell sum1 else 2 do it for me

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chicky_please answered Thursday October 20 2005, 11:55 am:
k a real man works without a net so what do you think.....if you want her that badly go for it yourself cuz i`m a chick and personaly i think it lame when guys ask other ppl to ask me out for them so there

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Eissac answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:06 pm:
Well us girls like to think guys are brave enough to ask us out for themselves...so personally i think if ya really like the girl ask her out
good luck
hope i helped
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pinkskyline answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 4:36 pm:
Hey!
A girl like a guy with confidence, so don't get someone else to do it for you! Maybe some subtle flirting first would do the trick. Tell her you like the clothes she wears, or the way she does her hair..and then tell her that you like her.
Compliments are the way to a girls heart, so flatter her!

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Mackenzie answered Monday October 17 2005, 9:49 pm:
I'd ask her. I've always thought that if there's someone you find yourself having an interest in, the most productive thing to do is approach them directly. Just be bold, and go for it. It's the *ONLY* way to know for sure if she likes you or not; you can *ASSUME* she does/n't all you want... but you'll never know exactly how she feels unless it's coming straight from her lovely lips! [:

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karenR answered Monday October 17 2005, 8:47 pm:
I think the direct approach is the best way.

Go getting friends involved and who knows what they may say to embarrass you. Not to mention she may think they are kidding and say no. :)

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fabulous11 answered Monday October 17 2005, 6:35 pm:
me being a girl would much rather the person asking me out do it themslef....If you have some1 else do it that just shows that you dont have enough confidace to do it yourself and the girl might say no....

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ShortLitLBlondie answered Monday October 17 2005, 5:48 pm:
omigosh dont have someone eles do it for you, it will make it seem to her like you didn't care enough to tell her yourself. I hate it when guys ask me out that way and there's probably a less chance that i'd go out w/ them than if he asked me himself thats jus me but its jus soo much cuter to ask her yourself.

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Teza answered Monday October 17 2005, 5:45 pm:
Girls don't really like when other people ask them out for someone else. It makes us think that you aren't brave enough and that you don't like her that much. You should talk to her first and get to know her better and how she is and then ask her if she likes anyone. If you ask her out before talking to her then she might say no for some reason. Talk to her and then if you feel like you have a good connection ask her out! I'm sure she will say yes.

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duckysgrl1121 answered Monday October 17 2005, 5:33 pm:
jus casually ask her if she likes any1 at the time.... if she says no

then try and hasng out with her more and mayb after a while ask her out once you get 2 no her better




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funkymunky817 answered Monday October 17 2005, 5:00 pm:
I think you should use the direct approach method. That shows her that you are confident, not afraid to talk to her, and is not afraid of rejection (regardless is you are or not). If you get someone else to ask for you and she says no then your friend will know what she said and that could lead to rumors and other things.

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~plez rate

***funkymunky***

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sbloemeke answered Monday October 17 2005, 3:35 pm:
Do it yourself. If you have somebody else do it for you, you look as if you are cowardly. You want to look brave. Also, friends tend to get things wrong a lot. Do it youself, and you will rely on yourself, becoming independent.

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hopelessly_devoted answered Monday October 17 2005, 3:32 pm:
well ifshe likes you shell appreciate your bravery in asking her yourself, but if she doesnt like you im sure shed be happier with someone else telling her, that way she wont have to shut you down on the spot, i hope you figure it all out -kelly<333

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ankeagle14 answered Monday October 17 2005, 3:17 pm:
well if you can gather enough courage to do it yourlesf it might work out better, but if you cant then have one of your friends do it. if i were asked outby someones friend my answer really wouldnt change, but it matters in the girl.hope i hepled
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