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theres these two guys who really like me. one lives in a different state and one lives here, where i live. they both asked me out. and the one who lives in the other state is just like me and the one who lives here is nice, but shy. and being shy isnt me. i dont know what to do. ill barely ever get to see the one who lives in a different state. but the other one i dont know to well.
i dont know what to do.
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Well, you have a few choices. You can get to know the guy in your state better, and IF you like him, then go out with him. If you don't go out with the other guy. Or you can say you will go out with the guy you know more, and stay in touch by phone, email, ect. If really depends what YOu want. I think you should go with who you like more. Forget about the distance. There are many ways to stay in touch.
hope I helped!
~Ank
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There is a kid I like and he is 13 going into the 7th grade. The problem is i'm turning 15 in less than a month and i'm starting high school. He is about 6 inches shorter than me and some people might find that kinda weird. So I was wondering if it would be ok to date him? (link)
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If you really like him then go for it. If you don't care about his height, then i think its fine.
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Can people tell me some freeky things that happeened between them and God? It seems really interesting. I have some myself. If you would like to discuss them give me your Aim Sn. (link)
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I haven't really experienced any 'wierd' things, but if you want to talk about yours, my Sn is fearlesssamurai.
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hey im gonna start 8th grade in august, and i still havent gotten my period. is this normal?? (link)
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Yeah, some people get it when they are 18, so don't worry.
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14/f..
ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.
& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"
do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?
should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP. (link)
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Yeah, he likes you. I do agree with your best friend who thinks he like you because he said 'hell no.'
I think you should become friends with him, and then ask him if he likes you. And if you like him, ask him out!
Hope I helped.
~Ank
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idk what category but how do you get rid of sunburn or fix it or whatever? (link)
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Sunburns heal over time. I think there may be some creams for it too.
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ok i went out with this guy like 2 times.well i want him back really bad but he doesnt like me anymore! what can i do to egt him back? we are both 12.im a female and he is a male. (link)
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I hate to put it this way, but yu can't make someone like you. It dosen't work that way.maybe you should try to become friends with him and get close to him. Maybe them he will start to like you again.
~Ank
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welli am julie i am 13 well there is this guy(anthony) I really think he is so hott!!!i just really want to go up to him and kiss him!!! but i want to know if he likes me. he is showing the signs of liking me like when i look at him during class he smiles and looks away!!! and he is constantly staring at me and every time i pass by him in class he always immidiately talks to his friend next to him while staring at me...Or like when i talk to one of his friends he always goes to talk to them right after.But even if he does like me i dont no if he will ask me out!!!he might be to shy.but even if he does ask me out what do i say what do i do kiss him??hug him??? hold his hand???
also when do i make a move?? do i make the first move?? is it holding hands or kissing??cheeks???lips??? i vote lips!!what if he doesnt want to kiss me or hold my hand??? what about in public??? i think that would be great if he is not to shy to kiss or hold my hand at skool~!!!how do i flirt back???i really want to kiss him ??? also can you tell me some more signs of him liking me??? i never felt this way about a guy!!!is it normal. am i horny??? what does horny actually mean?? well thanks alot i give 5's for positive feedback
thanx
julie
p.s. I LOVE ANTHONY!!! (link)
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Ok. He may like you, but you can never be sure. I think you should talk to him, and become friends with him. By knowing him, and him knowing you, he might be more comfortable asking you out if he likes you. If he asks you out, then say YES. As you get to know each other more (While dating) you sort of move into the holding hands, kissing, w/e. good luck
~Ank
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Is it normal to start your period in gr.6? another question. If your start having periods in gr.6 and don't have one till gr.8 is the normal? (link)
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yes, they are both normal. you can get your period any time betwine the ages 10-21. when you get it, say in 6th grade, you dan't have to get it again for a few years. I guess it's because your so young it dosent devolop a pattern yet.
~Ank
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I have taken tests that show I suffer from moderate depression, moderate anxiety, and am most likely suffering from OCD, it is recommended that I get therapy and treatment. I don't know how to tell my parents how I feel depressed, I would rather tell someone (like a therapist) who has never been involved in my life about my problems. The reason I am afraid of who to tell, is because I don't have many options. If I screw up, that'll be my chance, down the drain. My parents divorced when I was four, I was very poor living with my mother growing up, I could live comfortably with my dad. He got married a few months after they got divorced. The day they got divorced they fought in court over me until I was about 10 or 11. I have three siblings, I feel like the older two don't even care about me. Let's say my name is "stacie". Everyone calls me stacierella, like cinderella. Everyone says I'm like a little mommy to my siblings, I do more than their mother does for them. I am in the grade I am supposed to be in, I am homeschooled, and it's a VERY BIG burden to get everything that I need to done. When I tell my friends that sometimes I want to kill myself, they say, "Stacie, don't kill yourself." and that's it. I am constantly asked at my dad's house if I have an attitude-which makes me EXTREMEMLY annoyed. My stepmother is nice sometimes, but I feel more like a servant to her than a step daughter. (I am writing another question about her.) I am not allowed to show my anger, like everyone else does. Just every week I am more about to kill myself than think about killing myself. I feel like nobody would even care if I died. I don't have an absolutely terrible life, I've got friends, I look good, well...I got an iPod for my 13th birthday. Does that count? Basically, I have four families (I got two from my stepparents), Each family either doesn't know or eachother, or only about one or two get along with anyone out of my four families. I have 45 people in my family, and I don't like about 25 of them. The people I trust to tell are : My dad, who will think those tests were not accurate, and defend everyone who I am mad at, or upset with, he will definitely (I am 100% sure) defend just about everyone, I don't really feel like I should tell him (or, he will try to talk to me himself, or just say he will get help, and I don't get it for a looooooooonnnnnggg time). My mom, who is VERY religious and will probably just say everything will get better OR make a humongous deal about it and get upset if my dad doesn't cooperate, and she will probably show me some scriptures and stuff. My friends, I have four new friends I barely know, I have a best friend (I just talked to her, I ended the friendship, but we might be able to work out our differncec, she has been such a good friend, for five years, I might see her this weekend) who I need to talk to and try to explain my life to so she can understand why certain things were going on (by the way I haven't seen her in two months, and her dad is wants us to see eachother and thinks I am being raised wrong), and my two other friends who are two years younger than me. The rest live far away and I don't see them much. WHO DO I TELL????!!!! (sorry this was so long, just need everyone to understand how difficult this is for me :( (link)
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Ok well don't apologise for it being long, it would be worse if you didn't tell everything.
Well, like your friends, I will say this. Don't kill yourself. It isn't a good way to get out of things and you will be causeing many other peple pain. I think you should tell the person you trust the most. I would say to talk to a school counculor, but you are homeschooled. But one thing, if whoever you tell makes a big deal out of it, don't get mad, it is knod of a big deal. So i'm guessing you want to talk to a professional, right? Well, I don't know if you could pull it off, but talk to oune of your friends parents, and see if they can get you to someone. good luck, and things will work out.
~Ank
If you want to talk, PM me or email me, I'm ALWAYS open to talk.
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I got into a fight with a girl in my neighbor hood. Now i don't like to fight but when it comes down to if i have to fight im going to do my best. So when i did fight the girl i beat her up, but i don't like to brag. i'm not that kind of person. So in school i hang out with my cousin and 2 of my friends. One day i was getting out of school and i heard someone yell " you got f***ed up. When i looked i saw a boy who is friends with the girl i fought, so i figured he said it but i didn't jump to conclusions. I just kept walking. Then in school my friend came and told me that the boy is going around school telling people that i got beat up. But again i ignored it. So then the other day i checked my email and the boy sent me an email saying you got f***ed up and then he was laughing. What shoud I do about him??? I told my mother and she said we should make a police report but then i keep thinking about wat the boy would do. (link)
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Well if you don't want to file a poliece report, at least tell a teacher. one you trust. or you can talk to one of the guidance counclers...though sometimes they get wierd...
If you don't want to bring any more adults into it fine, but don't not because you are scared of what he will do. IF you filed a poliece report, and he did somthing after that, he would be in even more trouble. but if you don't, just eignore him. delete his emails, and pretent not to hear those idiotic insults. if you dont already know, leard some martial arts. ummm www.gosokempo.com is a good site, but it warns you to BE CAREFUL some of the attacks are deadly...
And by the way. If your a guy fighting a girl, and not treating her like she is lower GOOD. i really hate how people pu us (girls) in a position where we can't fight because we are too weak. if you are a girl, just eignore the top part^^.
~Ank
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i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared. (link)
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inbetwine the age you get it and about 20 your period can have a pattern, then just stop, then go, back and forth. dont worry about it. you might not have your period of a while, then all of a sudden get it. it dosent follow a pattern until you get older.
~Ank
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Is there a way to get videos from your computer onto your ipod (other than using itunes to buy videos)?
Someone told me about a video converter and I downloaded it and it worked .. but if you didn't pay for it, it had a watermark over the screen through the whole video. So I was wondering if anyone knew of any other programs that are free and don't do the watermark thing.
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umm limewire is free. it dosent have viruses or anything either. if you download it and look up songs, see if you can download mp4 programs. they dont have to be configured.
by the way, what converter did you use?
~Ank
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you said : it is illegal, but you dont get caught if you have less that 100 items that your sharing. you candownloade more than 100, you just have to move the folder. it is a big program too.
how do you kno if you are sharing b.c i have downloaded over 300 songs. HELPPP (link)
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ok dont freak out. i have been told alot that they go after people over 100 songs/downloads/whatever. the way i figure, is you can download as much as you want, BUT change the folder so you arent shareing all of the songs. that way you shouldnt get caught. ok, here is what you do. you know how many songs your shareing because if you open the program up, and look at the start button on the toolbar (not in limewire the one thats always there) then look up. you should see green bars. that is you connection speed. next you see a round globe thing. then you see this green bubble with a number in it. that is how many songs your shareing.
to move the songs, go to your library, and click on Explore in the middle of the screen copy all the songs you want to move, and move them into a different folder. then go back and Delete the ones you copied. there is also another way to do this:
go to tools, then options then click on shareing. at the top it will say "shared folders" in bold letters. look down and you will see a wite box with the addresses of folders in it. delete those addresses. then go down to the bottom of that screen and un-click the 'download sharing' box. then click OK at the bottom. DO NOT X OUT!!
good luck
~Ank
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I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say? (link)
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try talking to your parents. if they wont ease up, here is the thing. im 13 too. im not alowed to date. i peronally think 18 is too old. if you think you can be caefull about all that 'stuff' then ask him out. go for it. sometimes parent want to protect, sometimes they cant let go...
~Ank
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im f/15 (almost 16). i weigh about 120. my height is 5'4". is this average for my age? please dont try to be nice, just tell me the truth. im trying to lose 10 pounds, any tips on doing this? (link)
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no you are ok. go to googe and type in "am i overweight?" and you should get a calculator to calculat it.
~Ank
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can you guys tell me anything you can about limewire. past expierences, problems, things you liked, things you didnt like, do you think its worth it to DL it.
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verry worth it. its not a 'bratty' program or nucance, and easy to download. you can choose if you want it to run on startup or not and costomize alot of other stuff. it has movies and songs, and just to let you know, 'avi' is just noise... so yeah.
on the negitave side, it is illegal, but you dont get caught if you have less that 100 items that your sharing. you candownloade more than 100, you just have to move the folder. it is a big program too.
overall, it a great program. i just dont like it being illegal. all my friends use it though. its up to you.
~Ank
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ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks (link)
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yes you are underweight. for a 12 year old that is under weight. try to eat a little more and talk to our doctor.
~Ank
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how do u make ur eyes go blurry? (link)
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ummmm....i dont know. if you can, well you just can. try to focus on somting, and narrow your eyes and stuff. sorry, its hard to explain.
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how do delete the items on the address bar so that people cant see where you have been?
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tools > clear history
but be careful. if someone in your family is a computer wiz, they can go into our cookies.
~Ank
drop a message if you want me to explain it.
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