Question Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:21 am
ok like now..im not sexually active but when it comes to the time .. i hear that fingering is a good way to get loosened up, so when your bf finger's you..like where do u look? wont it be awkward if you look at him while he's doing it? do you lay down..what?!
Melody answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 4:22 pm: It is a great way to lossen up.
there are many different ways to go about fingering. most likely, he'll be on top of you & you'll be kissing. if you get into the whole thing, your eyes will most likely be shut- & it really won't matter where you look. you probably just won't care when the time comes. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
Madalyn772 answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 3:36 pm: Every girl likes to do it differently, as does every guy. You can lie down, or sit, or even stand.
As to where to look, it depends. Most of the time, fingering progresses from kissing, so just keep your eyes closed and kiss your boyfriend. If not, you can look at him, it won't be weird. He'll probably be looking at you as well. Connect eyes, or just revele in the feelings together. Although he's pleasuring you, he's getting some stimulation as well.
Don't worry about it being awkward, it's a first feeling and will soon be replaced by pleasure. Chances are he's feeling a little strange as well.
MissxJacky answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:29 pm: Haha um..
I've never really thought about that when it happened to me.
I guess you can look at him and lay your head down on the pilow..
Or you can just look at the ceiling or something.
It's not a big deal where you look or lay your head.
But that's usually how it goes.
EmoKitty69 answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 11:16 am: Yes, lay down.
And if you don't want to look at him because you think it's akward...then make ut with him, that way you can close your eyes. [ EmoKitty69's advice column | Ask EmoKitty69 A Question ]
chicky_please answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 11:07 am: alright, i just lay back where ever i may be and just close your eyes or you could also just look right into his, guys like that. but if your not ready to do it it will be awkward.
hope i helped and feel free to ask me more questions. [ chicky_please's advice column | Ask chicky_please A Question ]
XoRoxy answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 8:47 am: You can either lay down or sit up. Mostly lay down. & when he's doing it he's not gonna look at you. He might glance at you & if he does it won't be weird if you're looking at him. Just kind of look up, or look forward. It just kind of comes to you when it happens. [ XoRoxy's advice column | Ask XoRoxy A Question ]
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