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I'm a 21 year old female. I live in Pennsylvania. I met this guy about two weeks ago off of a dating website. He lives in Canada. I know two weeks doesn't seem long, and to fall in love with someone you've never physically met is stupid, but this guy stole my heart. I instantly fell in love with how much of a gentleman he was, how much he cared about me, and how sweet he was. I'd never felt so happy in my entire life. People actually commented me on how happy and alive I seemed. We got into some sort of argument over something, and he told me that he felt as if we were too incompatible. And the distance. I told him I'd move to him and everything. The thing is, I just can't get over this. I cried the hardest i've ever cried before in my life last night. I didn't sleep a wink, I got up for work at 5:30 this morning feeling like a zombie. I sat at work for three hours just staring into space, not doing anything, feeling like I didn't even exist. I haven't had anything to eat since 7:00 last night... the thought of putting food near my mouth just makes me sick to my stomach. I came home from work at 11:00 because the pain was just too much to handle. What should I do? I don't know how to cope with this at all.
Talk to him & tell him what's going on. It may not seem that easy, but just tell him how you feel about him & maybe he can help you get through this break in your life. If he doesn't seem to care, then he wasn't worth it. Cheer up.
Ok. So here's the situation.
I had sex on friday night, and the condom ripped, and I'm not on birth control. But I did take the morning after pill the next day.
My period is always kinda irregular, like i never know what day exactly to expect it. But now my question is that....if you are pregnant, when you miss your period, do you still get cramps and other symptoms, and just no blood, or just no period or symptoms at all?
what are the chances of me being pregnant? i should be getting my period sometime this week, and today i had really bad cramps and my back hurt prtty bad too.
It sounds like you're gonna get your period. But if you were pregnant you wouldn't know this soon. If you took the morning after pill you should be fine. Cause that works most of the time. If you don't get your period by the end of this week or the start of next go buy a pregnancy test. They're not that much & it doesn't always hurt to have one.
Ok so i got my period like..10 days ago and it lasted its usual 5 days..and i still had a little bit of bleeding for the last few days..and now it seems i am getting my period again for some reason..i am on the pill and during this round i had forgotten to take a few of the pills so i think things were thrown off a bit..could i be bleeding becuase of like a hormone imbalance? or is it possible that i am pregnant..even tho my bf never cums in me..[plz help thmx.
I don't think there is a chance of you being pregnant. Pills do that to you. They may cause a little bledding in between your period. Just keep taking the pill & try not to miss anymore days. Everything seems fine. You're probably just a little paranoid just like any other girl who has sex. It's normal.
13/f gothic. my bff is a guy. i love my bff he loves me parents found out now we cant do anything together. he always used to come over but now he cant and i cant go over his or anywhere else. i hate my life im so confused and depressed. im in the gothic group and hes a preppy nerd he hangs out with us my friends hate him but i got them to get over the whole school knows were bffs and that we like eachother. so the only time im with him is at school. if we would date i wouldnt want to loose my bff. hes been gettin mad alot and just desturbed i guess and he wore all black and just smiled at me then he had to leave so then it was the week end then i asked him over the phone he was just like sad and just different i wana know what he ment wearin black and just smileing then leaving i asked him and it was just different.i dont wana just ask himm again so how else could i or what do u think he ment hes been cryin and getting detentions and F's whats wrong im just confused and it has to do with me so last time i asked him what was wrong he was quiet so what should i say to him or do.i dont wana hurt him again. just between me and him nobody else can get in this. i realy need help soon so plz help ~randomgrl777~
I think you need to talk to your parents & just tell them what's going on & how he's your best friend. & that it shouldn't matter if you guys happen to like each other. Some friendships that go into relationships aren't always good, but others are. So it just depends. & to ask him whats been bothering him just come out & tell him you're really sorry & you still wanna be friends with him even if your parents won't let you.
If a guy finger bangs a girl or puts the tip of his penis in her can her hymin break?
Not necessarily. It can be broken by many things. Such as sports, doing an exercise you normally don't do, tampons, etc. It could be though. But mostly it has to be stuck in all the way.
Theres this boy I like
and he hates me now.
I had sex with him before he hated me ,yes i know he used me basically.
I still unfortunately like him, as much As I try not to.
He talked to me , not to long ago.
Maybe a week ago , and told me he didnt hate me.
Yet, he told other people he did, but i thought that was a coverup becuase the school knew about the sex situation.
Also he stares at me
not that I should talk becuase I stare at him just as equal.
And I think about the sex thing all the time, do you think he thinks about it too?
[it was both of our first times]
I just dont know what to do becuase I like him so much and I don't want it to be like this forever we used to be very good friends.
15/f/TN
All you need to do is just talk to him. He's being stubborn like most guys are. Ask him why he hates you. Since it was both of your first times you're going to think about it a lot because you've never done it before. Some guys are the same way, but others could careless. It doesn't seem like the only reason he was being good friends with you was because he wanted to get in your pants. So don't worry about that. Just talk to him & see why he hates you & see if you can change that.
Okay so last monday me and some friends were hanging out. And the boy I so happen to have a crush on was there but he has a girlfriend. Okay well we were flirting A LOT. And by the end of the day we ended up kissing. >_< I feel so horrible about this! So basically I made him cheat on his girlfriend. And everyday I feel worse and worse about it. What do I do? Im so confused right now. =(
If you know the girl & how she would react if you told her then either tell her or don't say anything. You shouldn't feel bad because you're not the one dating someone. He is, & he could've stopped himself from kissing you. It takes two people to kiss. So it wasn't all you. Try not to worry about it & if it keeps bothering you just ask him if it meant anything to him & if he feels bad also.
i have been goin out wif this guy for nearly a month now and at the start was great but now its starting to get boring but he started to get on my nerves and i was ready to dump him. I'm lyk best friends with his best m8 so i told him how i felt and he said basically i need to be spontanious and spice up the relationship instead of waiting for him to do it but i don't really no how to im not willing to do anything dirty with him right now but how can i start lyk teasing and flirtin again... i had been advised to lyk wen he kisses me ive to pull away and then kiss him
so reli stuff along those lines
if u hav any advice please
Just basically be playful. If he trys to kiss you, let him. As long as you're confterble with it. Don't let him pressure you into anything. If you're okay with it then kiss him on his neck or on his ear. That kind of gets them. But some guys do get turned on by it. So if you don't want anything to result in it then just keep it to a little touching.
13/f
ok well i was beset friends with this girl last year...we'll call her sally. well over the summer sally and i got in a huge fight where she basicly dumped me as a best friend. i got over it (i mean a best friend who would just dump you isnt that hard to get over) and you know we're still like ok friends. like were in teh same group of friends and we dont hate each other (sometimes). she keeps changing her mind bout me, like one minute she'll be all like "i miss you" and the next she'll be telling everyone she hates me (i kind of do the same). Its been calm between us for like 2 months now though. well yesterday she called me (for the first time in months) and just asked if i wanted to come over (for the first time in six months). I was like um sure. I thought it would be really awkward, but it was kind of like comfortable. i just could walk in her fridge and get a glass of juice. she's been hanging out with these two other girls a lot lately so i guess you could consider those her "best friends" and i have two new "best friends" also, but it was just so random and i dont know what to make of it. it's not like i'd run back to her after what she did, but i didnt hate hanging out with her yesterday. it's so confusing. someone please help me!
thanks!
If you had fun with her the other day then just try to keep hanging out with her like that. So what if you guys both have other best friends. That doesn't mean that you two can't be good friends either. If she starts to be bogus again & talks about you to other girls then try not to trust her again. You shouldn't trust someone who can talk about you one minute then the next call you to hang out with you. It seems cool for right now though.
I had sex with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago, and I've no idea when, but im guessing on withdrawal, the condom slipped up just under half way. It was still on fairly tight only it had slipped up a few centimeters. Shes due to have her period about this time, shes had stomach cramps and sore breasts (but neither very serious) which are both signs of pre-menstruation and pregnancy. Is it possible that she could be pregnant?
She could also be under stress which could cause her period later due. If she doesn't get it within a week get an at home pregnancy test. The cheapest one is like $13. It usually comes with 2. & always think about birth control. It's free at the health clinic. She could be pregnant, but it's slim. Just because the condom slipped down some doesn't mean she's automatically pregnant. Just keep watching out. If she has morning sickness that's another sign. Most likely she's not, but she also could be.
My current boyfriend has just informed me that he will be moving back to Florida [we're currently in Texas] within 3 weeks. This is incredibly sudden news for the both of us, and we really dont know how to react. We've been together for a little over 2 months, but it's not some cheesy relationship. We actually care for each other, and I couldn't imagine things if he left. I need help coping..
because I know we wont stay together, its just that this is such a stupid way to have to lose an amazing guy.
Also,
since I have no idea if he'll be here for Christmas or not, I'd like to give or do something for him extremely special before he leaves..
any ideas?
First of all I don't know why he's leaving. But it sounds like he has to go. If you really can't stop him from leaving just write him a nice long card or letter. Then to go along with it get him something to remember you by. Such as getting a picture frame that can fit 6 or 8 pictures in it. Then just put pictures of you guys in it. If you guys don't stay together just remember all the fun times you had & just keep in touch with him.
what are the symptoms of having a yeast imfection. and how do you treat it?
It itches like crazy & you can't really stand having it there. To treat it you need to go to your doctor. If you think you have a yeast infection & you get medications for it, it can mess with you if you really don't have one. So just make sure you see a doctor.
okay 15/m, i really like this girl, and i asked her out but she rejected me, ever since at school i think shees been flirting with me, anyway she goes to this school band practice thing(i play the guitar but im not that good so i didnt bother joining, her on the other hand is brilliant) anyway, i get this paranoid feeling she likes him, theres no reason for this, but i just figure she does, it maakes me feel weird, yes i feel a little jelous but theres some other weird feeling i have, and its not a nice one, anyone knw what im seelin and how to make it stop(just thought id let u know i relli relli like her)
Most people when they see the one they like talking with someone else of the opposite sex their first intention is that they like them. Even if there is no way they could, it's just what you think. You just have to keep telling yourself that she doesn't like him. It's not gonna make you feel better over night, but over time. Just keep being friends with her & try not to let you asking her out get in the way of your guys friendship. You need to keep talking to her & don't show any of your liking feelings towards her so that way she doesn't think that you're just trying to get her to like you.
how do i take my bestfriend back into my life again.. :( i told sombody who she likes and my bestfriend dosen't want to tell any body but me, but i ending up telling someone... the hardest is I'AM FALLING FOR MY BESTFRIEND!!! pls... give me advice to what to do.. :(
You need to tell them that you're sorry for telling someone else. & tell them how you feel about them. It's always nice for them to know. If they don't understand & act awkward just tell them that you're sorry for messing things up. & you don't want it to ruin your guys friendship.
the first time I met him I was quiet and hardly said anything and neither did he but I still didn't him to think i have no personality or anything cause i do.I just get all nervous and stuff and don't know what to say especially on first impressions.later on her told me he was also nervous and sorry not to say a word and said i love you. but like I kinda regreted it after like i should have been myself.
Help?
If you guys were both shy don't regret it. Life isn't about regrets. Just tell him you're also sorry & if you love him, tell him that too.
I love this boy.
He used to be my good friend until something happened (ANOTHER STORY)
and now he hates me.
He wont talk to me but he'll like look at me.
I do the same thing, but Its driving me crazy.
And I know he doesnt LIKE LIKE me, but Im wondering if he still deeply likes me as a friend.
Im going crazy becuase hes been in my dreams everynight and all his old favorite songs are like randomly coming into my head and I cant stop thinking !
I need help!
and no , im not a physco or anything seriously
thanks
:D
You just need to talk to him. Ask him if he still cares for you as a friend or if what happened ruined everything. Tell him that you still want to be good friends with him, because you miss all the good times you used to have together.
16/f.
i have known this kid lets call him ethan for a very long time. like almost 10 years. and well me and him were really good friends for a while. Well we used to be at least. We were closest freshman year. and now we barely even talk. and it feels so awful because he was like my best guy friend. and he used to care and like now it just doesnt feel like he cares anymore. I mean our friendship was so great and now its like nothing. I just dont know if there is anything i can do to like make the friendship the way it used to be. any ideas on what to do? and i really still care about him, but i feel like he wouldnt even notice if i was gone. thanks in advance. =)
Just call him or go up to him & just be like, hey we haven't talked in a while. What's going on? & just try to make things better. If he just blows you off, just try some more & tell him that you still want to be really good friends with him.
I'm in a bit of an awkward possition. My girlfriend and I have recently been doing some exploration with our bodies and have stopped using condoms all together. A few days ago I found out that she wants to have children and that she doesnt want to wait till we're out of high school. I've also heard rumors from my friends that she's planning something. I want to know if, well, its alright to have children at a young age.
It all depends on the parents to decide if they want to have kids or not. If you have a child at a young age then it is more likely for the baby to turn out mentally retarded. If you guys are only freshman, sophmores, or juniors I would say wait. If you're a senior you need to concentrate on your work. & remember that if you don't want to have a kid you need to tell her. She might get mad, but at least you told her what you felt.
we've been trying to have children for roughly 4 months now and still no luck. Is there a certain time that its easier to get a woman pregnant? If so, how can me or my wife monitor or find out when this time is?
A few days after her period is the time when it's almost impossible to get pregnant. & it's easiest to get pregnant during ovulation. Which is 12-16 days before her period is supposed to start. So between those days are the best time for her to get pregnant.If she can't figure that out. There are ovulation kits & ovulation calendars.
I come from a small town with not to much to do. Everytime I come home I spend a few days with my girlfriend and for these few days all we do is watch movies and have sex. There must be more to a relationship than that but i dont know what else we can do. If anyone has any suggestions on other things a couple can do I would greatly appreciate it.
It depends if it's hot or cold where you live right now. Cause I know that during the summer my boyfriend would take me to different parks. Not just little kid parks, but the ones with trees, lakes, other people. I always liked it. Also try just getting her something simple like 1 rose. He would do that for me & it means the world. You guys can also watch movies & stuff. Play board games. It sounds cheesy, but it seriously is fun. & just for a heads up it's better to get your sexual things done before you do anything else. That way you're not sitting there all horny while you're trying to have fun. It'll ruin things.