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Moving.


Question Posted Friday December 1 2006, 12:22 am

My current boyfriend has just informed me that he will be moving back to Florida [we're currently in Texas] within 3 weeks. This is incredibly sudden news for the both of us, and we really dont know how to react. We've been together for a little over 2 months, but it's not some cheesy relationship. We actually care for each other, and I couldn't imagine things if he left. I need help coping..
because I know we wont stay together, its just that this is such a stupid way to have to lose an amazing guy.
Also,
since I have no idea if he'll be here for Christmas or not, I'd like to give or do something for him extremely special before he leaves..
any ideas?


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BitsandPieces answered Friday December 1 2006, 1:17 pm:
How about a great date together and a picture of the two of you having a great time to remember you by. Don't let his last memory be of you crying your eyes out or whining. Tell him you want to keep in touch at least as friends and that you will never forget him. You two may very well have a good chance of getting together later if you part on the friendliest of terms and don't put pressure on him to keep a long distance commitment that will NOT work anyway. Time and memories are the best gifts, so incorporate both into your own creative style of giving.

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XoRoxy answered Friday December 1 2006, 9:55 am:
First of all I don't know why he's leaving. But it sounds like he has to go. If you really can't stop him from leaving just write him a nice long card or letter. Then to go along with it get him something to remember you by. Such as getting a picture frame that can fit 6 or 8 pictures in it. Then just put pictures of you guys in it. If you guys don't stay together just remember all the fun times you had & just keep in touch with him.

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