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best friend help
13/f gothic. my bff is a guy. i love my bff he loves me parents found out now we cant do anything together. he always used to come over but now he cant and i cant go over his or anywhere else. i hate my life im so confused and depressed. im in the gothic group and hes a preppy nerd he hangs out with us my friends hate him but i got them to get over the whole school knows were bffs and that we like eachother. so the only time im with him is at school. if we would date i wouldnt want to loose my bff. hes been gettin mad alot and just desturbed i guess and he wore all black and just smiled at me then he had to leave so then it was the week end then i asked him over the phone he was just like sad and just different i wana know what he ment wearin black and just smileing then leaving i asked him and it was just different.i dont wana just ask himm again so how else could i or what do u think he ment hes been cryin and getting detentions and F's whats wrong im just confused and it has to do with me so last time i asked him what was wrong he was quiet so what should i say to him or do.i dont wana hurt him again. just between me and him nobody else can get in this. i realy need help soon so plz help ~randomgrl777~
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I think he's depressed. When your parents don't allow you to see your friends/someone you like for good, it kinda depresses you. I mean, you'll see them at school, but that's it. And you're in the part of life where your friends mean more to you than anyone else, even your parents/siblings & family. Talk to him & let him know you're there for him, and also..talk to your parents. They're the only ones who can fix this because they're the ones who did it.
Also, when he gets quiet when you ask him what's wrong, tell him you're sorry, things will get better, you love him, & you'll always be there for him. And that you'll try to make things work w. your parents.
I hate parents sometimes. They think they know what's best, and sometimes they do, but when it comes to who you love, they don't.
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I think you need to talk to your parents & just tell them what's going on & how he's your best friend. & that it shouldn't matter if you guys happen to like each other. Some friendships that go into relationships aren't always good, but others are. So it just depends. & to ask him whats been bothering him just come out & tell him you're really sorry & you still wanna be friends with him even if your parents won't let you.
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