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So confusing
Theres this boy I like
and he hates me now.
I had sex with him before he hated me ,yes i know he used me basically.
I still unfortunately like him, as much As I try not to.
He talked to me , not to long ago.
Maybe a week ago , and told me he didnt hate me.
Yet, he told other people he did, but i thought that was a coverup becuase the school knew about the sex situation.
Also he stares at me
not that I should talk becuase I stare at him just as equal.
And I think about the sex thing all the time, do you think he thinks about it too?
[it was both of our first times]
I just dont know what to do becuase I like him so much and I don't want it to be like this forever we used to be very good friends.
15/f/TN
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All you need to do is just talk to him. He's being stubborn like most guys are. Ask him why he hates you. Since it was both of your first times you're going to think about it a lot because you've never done it before. Some guys are the same way, but others could careless. It doesn't seem like the only reason he was being good friends with you was because he wanted to get in your pants. So don't worry about that. Just talk to him & see why he hates you & see if you can change that.
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He still thinks about it, I bet. Espically if he still stares at you too. Maybe he thinks of it as much as you, maybe more... but he does think about it. Maybe you should give it a little time to heal before you go in on an open wound, if you understand what i mean. Sometimes time heals things and you just need to let that be. I would give it a little time, then try and talk to him. Maybe if you catch him looking at you, give him a little smile. Or just tell him how you feel (thats never easy though) and how you'd like to be atleast friends again. I hope this helped
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