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How can me and my wife have children?
we've been trying to have children for roughly 4 months now and still no luck. Is there a certain time that its easier to get a woman pregnant? If so, how can me or my wife monitor or find out when this time is?
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You can buy the ovulation kits or just keep on trying the old fashioned way. There is no magical answer that I can give you. It's only been 4 months though so I wouldn't stress out about it too much. My husband and I tried for 10 months before we conceived our second child. Once you've been trying for at least a year to conceive and nothing has happened, then it's time to consult a doctor. Infertility is usually diagnosed after a year and there are options out there if you desperately want a child of your own. Good luck!
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You can buy an ovulation kit at the gorcery or drug store (usually in the feminine hygeine aisle with the pregnancy tests.) This will allow your wife to determine when she is most fertile. In addition, she could speak with her OB-GYN, who could probably help in this area.
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Some women take there temperature daily to help find the correct ovulation time, since the body raises a bit in temperature during ovulation. Try to have sex starting seven days after the first day of her period all the way until the sixteenth day. If she has a regular period of 28 days then this will be easier and she likely ovulates around day 14, and days 10-15 will be your best bet. The male sperm are fast swimmers but the female sperm survive longer, so if you are trying for a particular sex, then have sex a few days prior to ovulation for a girl and closer to actual ovulation for a boy. No guarantees! Wear loose underwear and no bike riding for you, you need to keep your guys cool and loose for maximum sperm production and no smoking or unhealthy living for either of you. Eat healthy and lots of protein! There are fertility drops at health food specialty stores some women swear by! She needs to be relaxed, so help her relieve tension and be unstressed by meeting her needs and helping around the house or whatever. If she orgasms during sex it will help pull your sperm up and she can also put her legs up on the bed and help it get to the right place. It can take up to a year, so be patient, especially if she was on the pill or patch.
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A few days after her period is the time when it's almost impossible to get pregnant. & it's easiest to get pregnant during ovulation. Which is 12-16 days before her period is supposed to start. So between those days are the best time for her to get pregnant.If she can't figure that out. There are ovulation kits & ovulation calendars.
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