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How important is sex in a relationship?
I come from a small town with not to much to do. Everytime I come home I spend a few days with my girlfriend and for these few days all we do is watch movies and have sex. There must be more to a relationship than that but i dont know what else we can do. If anyone has any suggestions on other things a couple can do I would greatly appreciate it.
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in my opinion your relationship is so much better off without sex.
having sex all the time, takes away your true feeings for this person.
try talking to her about her interest, play around, and start avoiding sex.
then later on, when you do have sex again, it'll be very romantic & so much better
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Sex isn't important in a relationship at all. A lot of the best couple don't have sex at all, and have wonderful relationships. Try not having sex for a week. You can do other sexual things if that's what you mean.
-Mutual/Regular masturbation on either partner.
-Oral sex on either partner.
-Making out.
-ETC.
Try just enjoying each other's company. Goof off, and treat her like you would do with any of your friends. Your in a slump, and all relationships hit one eventually. Don't let this get to you, just work at it because no relationship is a piece of cake. =]
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If you don't see her that much, it is normal to have sex a lot when you do. If she's okay with it, then I don't see any problems there. There are other parts to a good relationship though. To simplify them all, you need to be best friends. Do things together that friends would do. Go out to a movie or for dinner. Go to a game or play soccer in the backyard...it is harder since you live in a small town, but I'm sure there are a lot of things you have done with your friends there. Good luck. :)
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theres lots of things you can do other then sex you know..
-take a walk in the park.. a nice one even in the winter time its nice too.. jus make sure to be bundled up..
-if its winter && soon to be snowing playin in the snow is fun no matter what the age is..promise..
-take her out to dinner or make her dinner sometime.
-take her to make a bear like at build a bear..
-when christmas is closer && people have lights up go for a walk at night && look at the lights..
-if its warm take her to a pool // lake to spend time.
-water balloon fight is alot of fun too..
[[lots of my things might sound rather kiddish but its always fun && cute for most females.. && the guys like it because they`re spending time with the girl && making her laugh]]
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It depends if it's hot or cold where you live right now. Cause I know that during the summer my boyfriend would take me to different parks. Not just little kid parks, but the ones with trees, lakes, other people. I always liked it. Also try just getting her something simple like 1 rose. He would do that for me & it means the world. You guys can also watch movies & stuff. Play board games. It sounds cheesy, but it seriously is fun. & just for a heads up it's better to get your sexual things done before you do anything else. That way you're not sitting there all horny while you're trying to have fun. It'll ruin things.
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