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sex hurt factor 1 - 10!!!
Hey, im 16/f. Can someone tell me possibly from their personal experience how much it hurts the first time you have sex?? You can say on a scale from 1 to 10 or maybe a description would be good. And do girls always bleed the first time or do some not??? Thanks heaps.
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There's a lot of factors that calculate your pain level. A lot of it depends on how gentle and patient the guy is. The careful he is, the less it will hurt. I didn't bleed the first time because I was really active as a child so my hymen was already partially broken. The pain was about a 4 or a 5 for me, but I also have a high tolerance for pain. Just make sure you really want this. If you have any second thoughts, you probably shouldn't. I lost my virginity about a year ago, when I was 17 and I really do regret it now. The guy I lost my virginity with was only around for 4 months. Just make sure you really want this and be careful to protect yourself.
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girls bleed the first time and it hurts about a 8
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Everyone is different in the amount of blood, and some girls not at all, because the hymen was probably broken easily through sports activity of some kind. Usually there is not more than one spot of blood and usually it does hurt, but pain is subjective. I am going to guess about an 8. Make sure you are really really ready to give up your virginity, because most women I know grew to regret there early sex experiences and wish to god they had waited at least a couple years longer. You can't get it back once it is lost and boyfriends at your age usually last a few months at the most. You could end up very unhappy with your decision so be careful. Also, do not even think about having unprotected sex with anyone, even if they say they are virgins, too. Anyone could have a disease they are unaware of, that they could have gotten through oral sex or even kissing (herpes) and you need to be protected against pregnancy. Let me know if you need anything else.
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