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hey im jasper im 19 i love to help people and hang out with friends
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i had sex with my girl and sperm entered through the entrance of the vagina but the penis did not penetrate the hymen.can the girl be pregnant? (link)
First what you described was not sex ... Sex is actuall penetration but if sperm entered the vagina then there is a possibility of pregnancy


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when i masterbate i orgasum but then i have to stop and for some reason i cant go any further because my hands start to ache, but i wotn to keep going so that i cum any help ? :) (link)
Listen there is something called a water pick and it chandes the setting of your shower head and gives various pulsations try those out and find out what you like it cleans your body and give you a nut


I am 16 years old,I have been haveing sex for about a year now.But i want to get on birthcontrol.
How can i get on it without my mom finding out.She knows i lost it,But i don't want her to know i am on the pill.Just the way I feel.So how can i get on it? (link)
The best thing you can do is have someone over 18 that you can trust it can be a friend, sister, whoever and ask them to take you to a pland parenthood center and they can help you further.


whats a really cute happy love song? preferably from a band and not country. thank you!!!! just tell me your favorite love songs :) i'll rate ♥ (link)
a really good song is from yellowccard its called
only one


How old were you when you lost your virginity? (link)
well i shouldnt answer this but i am anyway... im 19 and still a vergin... ibut i think id doesnt matter how old you are when you loose it as long as you are mature and responsible,


I met this girl through a mutual friend and we have been communicating online and texting (I don't move to her town until this summer). I know she likes me too. Her ex boyfriend assaulted some dude recently and actually got sentenced to 2 years in jail today. Also today, I see that they got back together. How can they be a relationship if he's going to jail? Would this potentially mean that I still have a shot with her? I'm hoping that maybe she is just freaking out about one of her best friends going to jail and said she'd get back together with him, but nothing will happen once she actually realizes that he'll be gone for 2 years. (link)
ok well like i always say the heart want the heart wants! so you talk to her and you feel for her and she feels for you right? then he ex gets locked up, but she gets back with him,im gonna tell you why, its probably because he is her first love... let me tell you girls will do every thing and anything stupid when it comes to their first love... what you need to do is tell her what you think about it and let her know that you care for her and then she will realize what a goood guy you are. but you have to let her know that you cant wait for her forever because then she uses you as her safty net. and then in the long run you geet screwed. so your best bet is to put yourself out there and hope that she falls in your arms like the perfect love story ...lol if that doesnt happen then im sorry for that but then all you have to do is try to move on. im sure that there are plenty of girls in that town.


I went to watch Gossip Girl on Wednesday, but it was the pilot for it again? Is it being cancelled or something? (link)
i dont know i think the next episode wasn't done yet.


ever since i was 9 yrs old ive masturbated now
im almost 16 and i still masturbate, but instead
of doin it 2 or 3xs o day i now do it over
50xs A DAY!!!! is there somethin wrong with me?
.....
am i the only one? (link)
Wow dude that takes heart! But its fun! No but as long as you don't get caught or start to blow people off cause u wanna beat your (happy toy) then your cool. Have fun be careful and release the troop! Just kidding hope I helped and made you laugh.


I love my bf and I feel like we still have a major connection. We've been going out for about a year and we haven't really done anything. I want him to touch my boobs but I don't want it to go too much farther than that. What should i do? (link)
the thing about that is if you want to go further set a boundary. let him know that you want to go further and experiment but not go all the way.


Hey im a teenager and I need to save up for a big trip like 7000 dollars. Would I look really bad if I got a part=time job for like six or seven months just to save up for the trip? Or would that be too shallow? (link)
no if you need money and no way to get it a job is perfect




will swimming with new peirced ears (like within 5 days of piercing) cause an infection?

thanks in advance! (link)
might


ok, just as the title, i do NOTHING! right when i get home,Bam,on the computer. i only have school friends,and no one wants to hang out with a uninteresting person. omg,no lie,im so boring! i dont even do anything,i just feel like i cant!the only thing i do is on wednesday,musical theater,but thats not even school related. i really need to be more social,and happier. how can i do this?! help?! i need to do something with my life! (link)
what you need to do is loosen up just act like what ever be more spontanious(sp) just go with the flow


I don't usually get pimples, but when I do, it's minor.. just a couple of small ones on the t-zone (usually when I get my period).. but lately I broke out more than usual because of high stress levels (loads of research) and since I'm about to get my period. It didn't help that I popped a couple of them- now tiny ones are popping up. I'd say i have around 5 or 6 pimples (small to medium).

My question is: what's the most effective way of getting rid of Acne? I'm not interested in using proactive or something of that sort since Acne isn't usually a problem for me. I'm more interested in home or herbal remedies that work for occasional breakouts like the one i have now .

Thanks! (link)
ok well this has always worked for me but before you go to sleep put vicks vapor rub on the pimple and when you wake up in the mourning pop it then wash your face i am telling you it works!


ok im dating this girl and we are doing good
but i meet this other girl that im inlove with and i feel like losing my love for my gf
what should i do? (link)
love can make people do crazy things... the question you have to ask your self is are you happy with your girlfriend? if you hesitate to answer that question then you have ti decide who you have the most feelings for and choose from that


Dear Sir:
I'm writing 2 u regarding the crises I see that the masterbution is a dirty activity that I've erver faced yet in my life as I'm 19 years old boy here residing in Pakistan that the problem is I can't avoid masterbution, if u can provide some advice regarding masterbution & how do I can avoid this heck activity that would make me thankfull of u.


Urs sincerely

Ahmad hAqIqAtJoE (link)
well it is something that all guys do an it is something you shouldn't be ashamed of but if you feel that you have to stop you can think of other things. like sports or just let the feeling go away


Where can I get long tube socks
that are white with a stripe color at the top?

I need stores, not online places.

:) Thanks! (link)
foot locker, modells


is it true you can lose wieght from sweating? (link)
yes


okay i have a six inch penis and i am uncircumcised. i feel like am the only peson uncircumsied.is there anyway you could be circumcised at the age of 14.I NEED HELP FAST!!! (link)
just talk to your mom and tell her you want to get it done and go to the doctor and make an appointment





you're on my mind every second,
of every minute, of every hour of every day.

does that make sence? HAHA :D (link)
it totally makes sence


when you have sex is it really necessary to be on the pill and have the guy wear a condom? or is it safe enough to just have a condom (link)
well it is safer for both to be used but a condom is safe enough




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