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yea she does and she says i'm good...the best she's ever had...so i guess I'm ok there then...but that still doesn't help my problem! I wanna finish sex! I wanna be able to stay hard the entire time! (link)
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shes not lieing then well hoepfully not.why dont u try role play? and while having sex think about really dirty thoughts that you want to do to her.
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yea she does and she says i'm good...the best she's ever had...so i guess I'm ok there then...but that still doesn't help my problem! I wanna finish sex! I wanna be able to stay hard the entire time! (link)
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shes not lieing then hoepfully not.why dont u try role play? and while having sex think about really dirty thoughts that you want to do to her.
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no i was not molested as a child and yes i do worry that i'm not big enough or good enough all the time... i never feel good enough because she's so amazing and good looking...and i'm...not
what should i do? (link)
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well you should feel happy shes with you. If she didnt wanna be w/ you she would hvae left you by now. She sounds like she loves you becuse most gurls are very shalow and are stuck on them selves and would have left the guy if they werent meetin up to there needs. dont be so hard on your self because if yur not happy with yur self then yur gonna think shes not happy either but by the sounds of it shes happy bein with you. and does she want you wen u alone? like does she want to still have sex wit you? and have u had sex with her long enough for her to determine if yur good or not???
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Hey my name is Tyler.
I love my gf a lot and we tried to have sex...I lost my erection in the middle of it. And now every time we try to do it it happens. It doesn't happen when she gives me oral sex. But i get so worried that I'm going to lose my erection when we have sex that i do lose it!
Now to make matters worse my gf keeps arguing w/ me about it! I just need somebody to help me get through it! She doesn't understand how much stress it puts on me! She thinks that I don't want her when i rly do! I don't want to lose her over this...i just wish that she could understand...someone help me! (link)
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hey i was thinking.. are you worried about anything? like if your big enough or good enough? and just talk to ur gf and be supportive of her too. she probably hates to see you like this and probably thinks its her. and you dont have an erection problem if you can be erect durring oral. if you had a problem it would never be hard.
another possibliblity is that were you molested as a child? Sometimes you don't remember only certain parts of you remember.. that can be a cause of not being able to get it erect..
get back to me.
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hey
i like this guy but hese 16 and im 13
i really really like him ive liked him since last year and please dont tell me to tell him because i wont. anyway he liked this other girl last year and now this year he likes some other girl. i am so inlike with him that it hurts so much he gives me mixed signals sometimes he will talk to me and sometimes he wont sometimes he looks at me and sometimes he doesnt i just dont know what to do i dont even think ill ever get over him he has this charm hese with me in skool so i cant really ignore him i dont want to like ignore him becuz even if i don like him i wanna be his friend
please anyone help
thank you
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well honey you gotta remeber he's 16 and he only has one thing on his mind and honestly he may think your two young and just someone good to flirt with so be carefull and if he's throwing you mixed signals it usually means that he just likes to kno that he can get away with it but be careful try to direct your feelings else where i know its eaiser said than done but your'll be the one whos paying for it in the end i hope i helped and remeber old crushes die hard but there are always plenty of fish in the sea
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I've been dating this guy for 6 months, and recently ive started to REALLY like this other guy. We have lunch together and he's always flirting with me. I dont know if he likes me or not because he is sorta a flirty person. but he also gave me his belt..
what do i do!? pursue it or not. (link)
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well maybe you need to re evaulate your feelings for your boyfriend and if this other guys a flirt than dont play any games just flirt a little more until you find his true feelings you know like hypithical question if you have to and if he dont like you at least you didnt break up with ur b/f but are willing to throw away 6 months for a guy that could play you like every other flirt goodluck oh and call me later you know who this is i hoped i helped
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i like to play with myself while i watch a girl eat another girl out but i dont like girls i like guys what do i do please help me (link)
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its totally normal for you to like to watch gurl on gurl action it dosent mean your gay or bi i have a lot of gurlfriends who watch it and there not bi and even if you were whats wrong with keeping you opiotions open im not gay or bi but i love to watch gurl on gurl it gets me going more than just regular so dont worry hope i helped sorry it took so long to write bac
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what do you think about sweet-talkers? do you think its cute? i think its cute as long as you can play along with it do you think so? and does anyone know a "line"? you heard it from someone? (link)
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to me every body sweet talks but some are better at it than others and sure its cute sometimes but some pple really get hurt from sweet talkers because use vulanbility to there own advantage but if the person wants to play along thats there choice some lines are your looking hot others are i lost my number can i have yours there are plenty of lines it dependends who the talker is i hope i helped
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my 26 year old siter is bi and i didn't find out until recentally my other 24 year old sister told me and iam under so much shock right now how do i get over the shock of finding out my sister is bi?
How do i help my sister? (link)
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why would you want to help your sister why should it matter whether shes bi or not its not a disease or a sickness its a way of life and its completely natural just cause shes bi doesnt make her anyless than a person it happens you dont have to like it or agree to it but dont not accept it shes still your sister your not bi so dont worry about she lives her life and you live yours so i dont see waht the problem is hope i helped and put some insight in the whole situation
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This is kind of embarrassing and gross. Ok. So, I think I have lice. No, scratch that. I KNOW I have lice, because my head is itching, and the real clincher is finding stuff in my hair. So you're probably thinking, okay, so just get the shampoo, comb it out, and be done! Not so easy. First of all, I have suspected it for quite some time now. A lice outbreak occurred in my school at the end of April. I was checked and found clean then, but a couple weeks after started finding stuff in my hair. I was totally in denial and told my self it was dandruff, and I was itching because I kept thinking about it. I've decided not to be so naive about it now, and realize that I have it. So, the second issue I have is that I'm on vacation right now. That makes it even more inconvenient to have such a gross problem. I have another example of my naivete in the fact that I actually thought that the ocean water would clean the lice right out, but I've decided not to entertain that thought any longer. So, my question is how do I deal with all of this? I've probably spread it to so much now, like the airplane, the hotel room, all the people I've been around. I've been checking everywhere that I have been lately to see if I see any nits or anything that I left behind, and I haven't seen anything, but that doesn't mean it isn't there. Plus, it would be SO inconvenient and unfair to have to deal with lice on our vacation, especially since after Sunday we don't get to see my sister for 9 weeks. What do I do? I'm so confused, and so don't want to deal with it, but at the same time, I just want it to be gone, you know? So, if you have any ideas on what to do, like when to tell my mom, or how to tell her (I know she will freak; I would) that would be helpful. I'm really embarrassed, becuase I know my mom probably hasn't even thought about the lice outbreak lately, and was so sure that we were safe from it. I'm so sorry that this is so long; I just needed to make sure I got everything down. Thanks for any advice you can give. (link)
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ok first of all lice will always be spead but they have this thing not lindane but a clear glass bottle that you put on your hair when its dry it smells but it gets rid of them for good and if you cant find than do the easy way i know this is gonna sound gross but i did it when i had lice put manaize on your hair and compact it in a plastic bad so now lice or air can get in or out and leave it on over night and wash it out in the morning and beleive it works and surprisinly manaize is very healthy for your hair your hair will not only be lice free but healthy looking and have a clean shine and volume goodluck i hope i helped and p.s every body gets lice
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i have had two sexual partners and i have not enjoyed sex with either of them! if it goes for too long i end up becoming unlubricated and we cant continue its really embarassing! although i can bring myself to orgasm, i dont know whats going on and i dont want my boyfriend to think its him when it actually happens with all guys (link)
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you only had 2 people so its not with all guys maybe they really dont know what there doing and they need to learn and another thing do you masterbate its a known study that some women who dont masterbate never orgasm i kid you not how can someone please you when you never pleased your self i hope i helped and if its neither than try new ways you know maybe do more four play hope i helped
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I had a friend who i've been friends with for a few years. Suddenly out of nowhere, he told me he liked me & things went downhill from there. We remained friends & had a good time talking/joking around. A few months later, he changed. Randomly he began getting mean & just an unlikeable person. He was saying every argument we gotten into was my fault, how I wasn't trying hard enough to be his friend, wouldn't give him the time of day, didn't seem like I wanted to be his friend anymore etc. I do not even know to this day where he came up with all of that but he did. Then he would say lets not be friends anymore & I tried talking to him a few times & he would appologize, say how much he cares, & just be friendly again. Then randomly, he would go back into lets not be friends. One time he did that & he was completely serious about it & blocked me. We do not live near each other or whatever so I just let him go. He unblocked me & I asked him why we couldn't fix things & he said he was not a forgiving person or whatever and that he wanted nothing to do with me. This was all completely random & out of nowhere. I left him on my buddylist, but I knew we would not talk anymore. Recently, he's signed on & i am not blocked anymore & neither are my friends [he blocked them as well]. I'm not sure why he did this & were randomly unblocked. Does that mean anything? I obviously should not be friends with someone who treats other people badly, but why would someone go from totally caring about a friend, to not caring at all in a matter of days? Any opinions/ideas? Thanks! (link)
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because thats how some pple are hes being immature and he feels better when he feels like hes not the only person thats hurting it seems like he doesnt want to be freinds anymore so just let it go i know eaiser said than done but hes obviously acting werid hes being a hypocrite you know or a sico frendic it happens its a condition so i would just end it once and for all goodluck i hope i helped because you cant help pple who dont want to helped he made choice now make yours
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one of my students just found out that the guy that she likes is not interested on her,,,she is sad and disspointed. I have told her that she is pretty and she will find someone that will love her.
What can I do to make her feel special?
Also I am afraid that she ends up with a jerk...
you know nice girls most of the times end up with jerks.... (link)
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honestly in my opion theres really nothing you can do you remeber when you were younger right you live and you learn but sometimes you never learn from your mistakes and of course she falls for jerks nice guys finish last hardly anybody i know wants a nice guy we want assholes who will treat us bad and sweet we want to know that were wanted we want adventure just stick by and give your advice i know this because i always end with the jerks two and its my choice and i hate sometimes but its also her choice we cant help who were attracted to it just happens and its usaually the pple we cant have or the assholes we have them but we really dont have them you know i hope i helped goodluck to you and her
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So yeah its interesting to read the lil convos you were having with my bf on your column..and how on the phone you were telling him your fantasies.Just stay away from him..dont cause any shit alright? (link)
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like we talked about on the phone the other night i dont want you boyfriend i never did and when we three wayed him we found out what really happend sorry you thought i was going on your terrritory i dont go for pple who are already taken and he never mentioned you sorry honey but remeber you can find better than him as we found out last night when we three wayed him all guys are assholes.
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My boyfriend and I have been debating about whether or not sperm is still active when it hits air. Recently we've had sex (we use a condom) sperm will be on me or him and we have been really really worried (paranoid) that it will travel into my vagina and make me pregnant. I've recently heard that once sperm hits the air it's dead. True? (cant stop thinking that i could be pregnant!)
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yes thought the same thing but it doesnt die when it hits air sperm stays alive for 48hrs so no its not true sperm does not die when it hits the air i hope i helped
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Is it appropriate to like the guy who's your mom's boyfriend's daughter's fiancee's cousin? Becasue I really do like him but I'm not sure if that's too close in the family or anything...your thoughts on this would be appreciated! :D (link)
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in my oppoion no hes your moms boyfriends daughters fiancee's cousin theres no blood relation at all at all so if i were you i would go for it because theres no blood relation shit you guys couldnt even be called cousins or anything just aquitances and i would hopp on that like a gurl and fat cake
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Just this year I gain alot of weight over the winter, and now I am starting to get my body back in shape. The only probably is the stretch marks on my boobs. I mean I don't go showing my boobs to people but I would like to feel comfortable in a swim suit. Now is there anyway to get my boobs back to normal faster? I lotion about once a day, and thats about it? Thanks! (link)
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you can go to a drug store and they have a formula that can be used to get rid of stretch marks and they have equitment to but your breast in shape you can also use coco butter witch is a known fact to help the disapperance of stretch marks your not gonna get ride of all of them but hey its natural i have stretch marks it happens almost every gurl with breast had them i hop i helped goodluck
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ok, i'm having a hard time understanding the whole "friends with benefits" thing. i mean, if you're attracted to someone, and that close to them, why wouldn't you want to just be boyfriend/girlfriend? and i know this sounds sexist, but... i can understand why a guy would like this arrangement ("woo-hoo, i can mess around with any girl i want!"), but as for the girls... don't you feel used and cheap? or are there really that many girls who just want sex and nothing else? i'm really not trying be judgemental, i just want to understand it! (link)
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yes people ask this question a lot most guys want friends with benifits because they dont want a relationship only to mess around and have sex but the gurls do feel cheap and used but yet there still freinds with benifits we the women mostly do this although sometimes but rarley its the other way around but we do this because we like them and its the only way we can have them but basically friends with benifits fucking and screwing around like boyfriend and gurlfriend do but without the committment and your free to do who ever you want and your not cheating i know its stupid but yet it happens i hope i helped
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lately i`ve been annoyed by my boyfriend.. because he does it on purpose.. and i get tired of it, makes me wanna yell like crazy and he ends up laughin` after he KNOWS that i`m annoyed by it... what am i?? i`m not his dog or his slave.. iM HiS GiRLFRiEND. and when i say that i am is girlfriend.. he starts laughing.. he seems to play around alot that gets me annoyed.. he seems to be very nosey also.. >.< our anniversary is coming up....... and ughhh idkk what to do... help me please!!!! (link)
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tell him that if he wants you to stay his girlfriend than he better grow the fuck up honey you dont need to put up with his immature crap tell him how you feel tell him he better stop beiging such an asshole if you dont put your foot down he'll walk all over you hope i helped
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Okay..me and my boyfriend have been having sex over 1 year now..and he's been wanting to cum in me..i use birth control...and i was wanting to be extra careful with the vaginal contraceptive films..if you know what they are..they are like girl condoms..ive never used one. and i was wondering what the chances are if i use those and birthcontrol...and what do i do? (link)
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well it seems to mean that you are being extra careful and if you have a womans condoms and birthcontrol well its better than just having one or the other or nothing at all but just remeber no method is 100% effective but hey your doing what you can better safe than sorry
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