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my sister is bi
my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my 26 year old siter is bi and i didn't find out until recentally my other 24 year old sister told me and iam under so much shock right now how do i get over the shock of finding out my sister is bi?
How do i help my sister?
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What do you mean by "how do i help my sister?". Do you want to help her come out more or just support her? If thats the case, you just should love her and maybe help her find a girlfriend or boyfriend. Its not a big deal. And I'm sure she just wants to be happy. Theres nothing wrong with her, she just likes girls and guys. So dont be in shock
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Help her by supporting her. Sadly, there are people in this world who will look down their noses at her, and loving support from her sister will mean so much to her.
Like everyone has said- she's the same girl she has always been. Her sexual preferences will never change who she is.
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well its the same way finding out someone is gay, they havnt changed as a person, your perspective of them has changed. you can get over the shock by remembering "hey shes my sister and shes the same person as i knew her before". you really cant help her because she doesnt need help, this was her decision. hope it helps
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Well, when you first find out something like that it's going to be a shock but just keep in mind that nothing has really changed. Your sister is the same person she always was... she just likes girls too. The best thing you can do for her is support her. She is probably scared to tell people because she doesn't want people to look at her differently. If you talk to her about it you might feel better, but don't be too pushy about it... maybe just drop some subtle hints when you are alone like "I just want you to know that I love you and support anything you do with your life." When she's ready, she'll talk to you about it.
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why would you want to help your sister why should it matter whether shes bi or not its not a disease or a sickness its a way of life and its completely natural just cause shes bi doesnt make her anyless than a person it happens you dont have to like it or agree to it but dont not accept it shes still your sister your not bi so dont worry about she lives her life and you live yours so i dont see waht the problem is hope i helped and put some insight in the whole situation
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