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girl with a broken heart??
one of my students just found out that the guy that she likes is not interested on her,,,she is sad and disspointed. I have told her that she is pretty and she will find someone that will love her.
What can I do to make her feel special?
Also I am afraid that she ends up with a jerk...
you know nice girls most of the times end up with jerks....
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Be a professional. Grow up. You are in serious danger of losing your job because your question is a sign of serious emotional retardation.
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One of your students means you are the teacher.
Standard teacher response is, if you value your job stay out of your students social lives.
She will recover, she has people to be there for her, you dont need to jeopardize your job by getting involved. Think before you act.
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Just tell her that he wasn't the right one obviously and before she knows it, some amazing guy will start liking her. And HER fairytale will have a happy ending, no doubt about it :)
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Life is learnt best through experience. Life would be so much easier if there was a sign that read potential asshole alert on their forehead, but there's not. Being with jerks are all part of finding whats important to you and the type of guy you want in your life. In order to get the good you have to weed out the bad. Dealing with a few bad boyfriends sucks but is actually very empowering to yourself because you are able to learn what you're made of and how much you respect yourself. If you choose to stay with a guy that treats you wrong, then you are obviosly going to learn an important lesson, its not worth it and that being happy and loving yourself is way more important than being stuck with someone who makes you feel like shit. Once a girl comes to the point where she does leave and she learns that loving herself and putting her needs first was the best choice, then shell start making wiser decisions when it comes to future boyfriends. Its all part of a process that we all go through, the best thing to do is just what you did, be supportive of her and let her know that she's worth something and that the right one is out there and that's all you can do.
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honestly in my opion theres really nothing you can do you remeber when you were younger right you live and you learn but sometimes you never learn from your mistakes and of course she falls for jerks nice guys finish last hardly anybody i know wants a nice guy we want assholes who will treat us bad and sweet we want to know that were wanted we want adventure just stick by and give your advice i know this because i always end with the jerks two and its my choice and i hate sometimes but its also her choice we cant help who were attracted to it just happens and its usaually the pple we cant have or the assholes we have them but we really dont have them you know i hope i helped goodluck to you and her
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For the short term, there's not a lot you'll be able to do. Kids need validation from their peers as well as the adults in their lives to feel "special". Certainly, you are helping over the long term by being supportive and kind to her (and that's more important than a quick fix anyway) but for right now, there's not much you can practically do. It's not like you'll be able to set her up on a date, or something; that's a little outside a teacher's job description.
You've given reassurance and a listening ear; that may be the limit of what you can do. And, it may be enough.
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Hi.
As you said, she will find someone else, all you need to dois just reassure her of this. Go out and do fun stuff, help get her mind off of this guy and more importantly just give her time. She will get over it eventually with time, it's a great healer. It's like you said, she will find someone else. There's a lot of guys out there and there's always someone better out there.
Ending up with a jerk... I'm not sure what to say there other than all she can do is be careful and get to know whoever she ends up with to ensure the guy isn't a jerk. It's all anyone can do really - it's all a part of relationships. They work or they don't; the guys a jerk or he's not (or is sometimes).
"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
-Alexander Graham Bell
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