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Life is confusing and mistakes are only a part of human nature, no one is perfect and sometimes the right answer isnt always clear...but, when you find knowledge and understanding, its what you do with it that defines your character and who you are as a person.For myself, Ive made a lot of choices in my life, good and bad. Yet, the experiences and the lessons that have come from them have taught me to be who I am today, and without the bad times or wrong choices, I wouldn't be the person I am today or know the things I do. Pain and suffering Is something life gives you because it brings out the strength in your character and shows you what you're made of.
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I'm so tried,I cant take it anymore,Nobody likes me,i'm the girl that no-one wants ! My sister is a snitch, every secret that i've tol her she went 2 my mum and told her,Shes good with my mum so my mum loves her so much. they both beat me today. I swear u should see what my sister done 2 my hand!!! All of them beat me up cause i'm not just like them, I dont care if they dont like me but they do not respect me either.I'm 16 n I'm not allowed 2 do anything,Its not fair! My dad always beleive them he doesnt listen to me cuz he hits me so bad to! I swear to God I'm tried of cryin every night,Home is like hell for me.I never liked my mum shes a stranger to me,they dont answer or talk 2 me ,they just hate me and beat me hard for stupid reasons.My life is so messed up I'm always upset try to ignore them at home but they just make me sick and angry when they say bad stuff about me ...I have no1,when i cry and tell my friends about it they just cant understand me cause they have good relastionships with their mother...
I dont know what to do ,shal i kill myself Or kill them???
help me please
First of all, times can be hard but you can't give up or let anyone (even your family) get you down. People I've known who have had unsupportive or abusive families that they could not lean or rely on took it as their given setback in life (everyone is given setbacks in life in the purpose that it unknowingly teaches you strength and intelligence when you work through life to overcome them) However, even with their own negative families who made attempts to bring them down, although they did not surrender thier happiness to them, they did try to rebuild what was lost in an attempt to mend their family relationships to the best of their ability (so even if the other person(family member) did not respond to their good intentions and efforts to fix critical problems in the relationship - at least they tried) And, thats all YOU can do on your part, is try. However, even if it is unfixable there will be new families known as friends, and other loving relationships with the people who know you, support you, and love you. We are given life friends that are just as dear to us and even though theyre are not biological to us...they are the brothers and sisters we weren't born with but are our family away from home...now I know im getting a little deep so what Im trying to say is: There is more to life and if you could just get through these problems you're having now, youll see that there is more to live for including the possible friends now and the friends you'll have in the future who will need you there and love you so much that they couldn't stand a life if you weren't in it. When I was 15, 16, I was a wild child (sold drugs, stole a car with my friend and crashed it, ran away, moved out, went to juve, etc) and in my opinion my family didnt understand me, my older sister was a honour student never did anything bad in her life (so i couldn't turn to her because she wouldnt understand the life that i lived or she would snitch (like yours) At a point, I thought about killing myself and I even cut my wrists because I was just feeling so much pain and I couldnt find an answer or way to come out of it, but I never went through with it and I held on to the little bit of strength I had and eventually through all the confusion, It turned out to be okay and now I would never consider taking my life. My dad killed himself and what he left behind were those who cared so deeply for him that we suffered from his actions more than anything. Im telling you this because Killing yourself is not the answer and I want you to know that if you're considering it...please dont... and I dont know if you're joking, but killing your family wont work either because that will wreck your life, in the sense, it will put you behind bars for the rest of your life so that youll never even be able to enjoy anything like you want to. It is important to remember no matter how much you are done wrong, you must keep your integrity and be the person you are and not drop down to their level. You have to start loving yourself when love from others is hard to find. Take charge of your life and let no one destroy or undermine the potential you have in this life you were given. I don't know every detail and I can't fully imagine what you're feeling right now because Im not in the exact same situation but, what I think might help is that of 3 options:
1. If you are seriously being physically abused and are scared or feel your life is in danger from what your family does to you and you would feel safer away from home than in home then you should really consider taking yourself out of the situation. There are child service agencies you can call (every place is different) you could be put in foster care BUT where I live, 16 years old is the minimum age you are able to move out on your own legally. There are places and services that can teach you how to live and support yourself rather than being in foster care or the care of an abusive family.
2. Im not sure if you've already tried or not but communication is most important in making relationships work, so, I just have to say, try telling them what their actions is doing to you and how it is impacting your life and affecting you in a negative way. Voice why you wan't to have certain things or do certain things in your life (like going out to a party, etc) and also question their opinions and why they disagree with you or why they won't compromise or come to an agreement that you both can live happilly with. Pretty much, just share everything with them that has been bothering you and making you feel the way you do and get their perspective on it, then try to find an agreement that is livable, workable, and meets the needs of you and your family. Yet, if this still does not work...
3. Seek professional help like a family councellor or mediator that could act as a third party and help you resolve your problems with eachother. Its not as bad as it sounds, I had problems with my sister when I was 16, because we were so different, my mom was being a mom yet I still felt she didn't understand me..SO I was appointed by a judge to see a family councellor. At first, I was like, whatever, at least im not going to juve again..but When I was there at the familiy councellor and got to talk to her (alone and then with my family) it really helped me and the relationship with my family because a person who didn't know my mom, my sister, or me, got to hear our perspective on issues that we had with eachother or were dealing with, we were able to (without fighting) understand eachother's actions and why we were being the way we were. I worried at first, that just because I was the younger one who had been in all the trouble I had been in, the councellor would automatically agree with my mom and my sister, However, that was not the case. The councellor actually stood up for me in the areas that I had a problem with my mom and my sister. She also let me have more of an insight into my own actions and the affects it was having on them. Moreover, it helped us repair and strengthen our family to this day, when really I used to think it would always remain broken.
This is really all you can do, I know this way costs some money but the worth of your family should be a good enough reason to go. At least this way, someone who has never met your family can tell them that what they're doing is wrong to you, they can also help you find ways to work with your family so that you are not overwhelmed by their actions and help you deal with them in a better manner, in addition, they are someone who acts with your best interests at heart and have the professional ability to map out the change your family needs to be in order for you to feel like your family is a family to you and that your needs will be met just as much as their needs are. No matter what you choose, life will be better for you if you just remember to find your strength in yourself and overcome these obstacles in order to see the other side. Life is what you make of it, If you are unhappy with it, there will always be a choice for you to make that will lead you into a new direction. So don't be afraid to make a change if things aren't right especially in the pursuit of happiness:) I hope this helps you and if i missed anything or you need more help feel free to ask me anytime. Good luck:)
I think my boyfriend is cheatin on me agin,cause he used to have two more girl friends before. He is so naughty , i dont trust him at all and everytime i tell him that, he gets mad at me,I know he doesnt love me but i cant help myself because i really love him i see everythin around me but cant do anythin about it. He does not treat me right and i can not be sweeter than this, Somtimes i feel like i'm a stupid,the way he talks to me is so bad ,he never appreciates the things that i do for him eventhough he doesnt do anything for me.He is so changed now and my problem is i keep puttin stuff inside i cant tell him how do i feel! help me please
Thank U
Im sorry to keep u waiting for an answer especially in your hard time. Before I go any further, its one thing to just not trust your boyfriend with no good reason - in that case - I would say make sure you're not jumping to any conclusions or making assumptions that may not be true. HOWEVER, since you say he's cheating on you AGAIN...you have good reason not to trust him and you SHOULD trust your instincts because if something doesnt seem right or it just doesnt add up...chances are you're most likely right about it and something Is very wrong. Most cases, once they cheat on you, even if you take them back you will never be able to regain full trust over his actions and that usually leads to the destruction of your relationship whether you wanted to make it work with him or not. The combination of him not treating you good and cheating is the worst though, because there is not much more worse he could do to you other than physically abuse you. Because then the question really lingers...what ARE you with him for? That's the most confusing part, Ive asked myself the same question when I was treated poorly and cheated on and I just couldn't find a legit reason. My mind said to leave, but my heart said I think I need him...but I could also do better without him. I know it can be very difficult when you've been with someone for an amount of time, you become accustomed to them and feel comfortable with them. The down side is you also become too attached, where even if youre not happy anymore youre scared to let go and face being alone. We all know that feeling, and its the hardest thing to overcome, but you need to find strength in yourself and regain your confidence. How are you ever going to find mr. right who will treat you like you've always hoped for and be everything you want when youre wasting your precious time on an asshole that doesn't deserve you. You need to ask yourself if its really worth it to be miserable everyday letting him make you feel worthless because hes not there for you in the ways he should be. Ask yourself if you can picture yourself marrying him, if the answer is no (which it sounds like) than youre wasting your time. If youre not happy anymore then what is the point of being in a relationship? Especially, if he's not the man for you. True love isnt worrying about where your man is or who he is with, and its definitely not true love when he makes you feel less than you are. You have to start loving yourself first and start taking your strength back from him, he needs to know that you deserve more and if hes not giving it to you then you're gone. I know that's really scary and also easier said than done. You feel stupid (like we all have) when you know you shouldnt be with someone who treats you this way and deep in your heart you do know that you shouldnt stay and in your head your'e thinking how can I love someone who does this to me...at least thats what I was thinking when I was going through the same stuff. But this is the part where you need to know, you're not going to be alone forever once you leave him. Believe me, you go through the bad ones to find the good ones, BUT the key is, you have to LET GO of the bad ones in order to get the good ones, and each time you leave someone who's not right for you, the next one comes closer to being the man of your dreams or he WILL be the man of your dreams (its not always an easy process since we have to deal with all these painful heartaches when leaving the asses that took our valuable time away from us) but in the end, after you are able to get away from them, you will see that it was definitely the right choice, in fact, you'll be kicking yourself going what the hell was I thinking being with a loser like that...honestly, im not even lying. I guarantee you. The hardest part is finding yourself the strength to do that. Especially when they sucker you back. The best way to go about that though (if this is what you decide) is to distance yourself after you break it off (im not saying dont talk to him for the rest of your life(unless you want it that way which you may find you might) but just for a little while after you break it off until you find strength, That means do not talk to him and make yourself busy doing other things to keep your mind off of him. Time is the cure to any heart break no matter how bad, but its on you to give yourself that time in order to heal yourself and be able to start making smart choices for yourself. It allows you to think clearly and see things for what they really are. Its much harder to do that if you talk to them right away because theyll only make you believe what you want to hear and then youll take him back and hell be good for minimum, a week, and eventually they go back to being the same loser again that you hated in the first place. Thats when you kick yourself even harder because your like, what the hell did I get myself back into? There's only so much you can take and its your choice whether you want to take charge and make your life good again or stay with him till you reach your breaking point and waste more time...either way, you have to face that this relationship probablly isnt going to work out so its better to break it off sooner than later. The pain hurts, but each day it gets a little better, and eventually it doesnt hurt anymore. I was surprised, because I felt exactly how you felt, it took me a while to find my strength, but I left my boyfriend, and at first it hurt, he was my life and now I had to face a new life (one on my own) but I couldnt go on being treated the way he treated me (which was not good) and I knew that I would rather be single and pain free than made to feel worthless by someone who didnt deserve to have me (a girl who treated him good and gave him the world) When I left, i distanced myself from him and just focused on getting my life back, chilling with my friends, doing the things I did before I met him. The first weeks were the hardest, but then the strength in yourself comes out and then it was like a whole new world of possibilities were opened up to me. I thought I would be alone, but then I had so many guys who wanted to be with me, and I looking back on the guy who had me blinded, I will kick myself over and over again for giving myself to someone like that. Now, Ive been with my bf for three and a half years to count and hes way better than all my past bfs. Not only that, I feel stronger in myself because I found courage to take myself out of a bad situation and now since I know I overcame that, I feel I am stronger in myself and can overcome anything. Whats funny is that when I finally found the courage to leave, not only did my bf want me back, he began to feel really bad for what he did and now he lives with the regret that he lost a good girl. I am telling you this because I know it will be the same for you! You just need to get yourself there. You deserve to be loved and get back in return for what you give. Getting through these hard times helps us learn things about us and helps us find out what we're made of. If he doesnt love you , why should you waste your love on him? There's certain criteria's for whether things are fixable with a guy, somethings arn't fixable:
if you know that they're not the type of guy you want...because then you have to face they will never be.
Its also unfixable if they cheat on you more than once (some girls leave right away, and if you decide against leaving right away, the most one should ever have is one chance only (because if they truly learned from their mistake they will never do it again, if they do it twice...shame on you for staying.)
If he hits you or abuses you (there are no chances, you must leave).
If he treats you bad (in some cases if its done out of ignorance and they are able to learn from their mistake and never do it again, then it may be fixable because they are improving and becoming a better person (but thats only out of cases like they forgot to call you, or they were inconsiderate of you by putting you off to go do other things or not including you...things like that, those are done out of ignorance and can be fixed because they can learn how to be thoughtful.
However, when they treat you bad by being mean to you, taking advantage of you, disrespecting your feelings or unappreciative of your value and the things you give to him...that cant be changed because they dont have the ability to be better because they just arent a good person with a good heart. You can only hope to guide someone to be who you want, but you never can change someone. Most of all, never be with someone out of fear of being alone or lonely, only be with someone if he makes you feel good and you beleive he's the one you've been looking for. You were single before you met him and you were probablly happy too, so dont think you can't be happy again without a man. Thats usually the guidelines of whether or not you should stay with someone. Don't treat yourself like a door-mat, dont let him wipe his feet all over you. There are lots of potential fish in the sea, so throw back the fowl one and get a better one. So, I know this is pretty long but its just that I know what you're going through and how close you could be to happiness if you just found the courage to think and act for yourself with you (not him) as your first priority....Take him off the pedastel you put him up on because that pedastel should be reserved for the guy that deserves your love. You're already living broken hearted so if you leave him you don't have much to lose, but you do have a lot to gain, like self respect and true love. But, you have to be available for when it comes looking. No matter what you decide, I hope its the right choice for you because the only way to be happy is to take the things that are making you unhappy out of your life. You sound like a good girlfriend and guys would be lucky to have you, and a good one would appreciate all that you do for him and wouldnt take you for granted...I hope this helps you and I know its hard, sometimes it takes more than one break-up and make-up to know that it just isnt going to work out or that he really isnt the guy for you. But try to make a move for the better, because staying in the same spot is only going to sink you lower. GOOD LUCK, and if you need anymore help or anything, feel free to talk to me cuz it really is hard keeping it all in :)
P.S. I know I dont have all the details to your relationship so, if you do decide to stay with him then be sure to get all your concerns and problems out in the open with him (make him listen to you because if his actions are affecting you negatively, then he needs to hear it whether he wants to or not) Try to find ways that will resolve these problems between you guys (trust issues, the way he talks to you, etc) Put out ideas of things that would make you feel better if he did, ask him if there is anything you can do for him because your pretty sure youre doing everything you can and whatever he might say, explain to him why you do or dont do those things. This way you will have a better understanding of eachother and why both of you act the way you do in the relationship. Most of all, you need to be able to regain your trust in him if you want to make it work so that means youll have to try to forget everything in the past and start over with him (which is sometimes hard to do) but without trust there is no relationship. If you find that after doing this it still doesnt work, then you should really start looking at finding love with someone else because the love you have for him is nothing compared to the love you could have with someone else (better love out there.) If he wont listen to you or take you seriously then that means that he doesnt respect you at all or care about your feelings and thats the total opposite of what a girl needs in her life. I hope you find happiness:)
Do you know any song lyrics or poems (preferably song lyrics) about loving someone you can't have?
Thanks in advance, xxx
This is one song by: All Saints (Never Ever) Its not new its more old school but its always going to be a classic...
A few questions that I need to know
how you could ever hurt me so
I need to know what I've done wrong
and how long it's been going on
Was it that I never paid enough attention?
Or did I not give enough affection?
Not only will your answers keep me sane
but I'll know never to make the same mistake again
You can tell me to my face or even on the phone
You can write it in a letter, either way, I have to know
Did I never treat you right?
Did I always start the fight?
Either way, I'm going out of my mind
all the answers to my questions
I have to find
My head's spinning
Boy, I'm in a daze
I feel isolated
Don't wanna communicate
I'll take a shower, I will scour
I will rub
To find peace of mind
The happy mind I once owned, yeah
Vexing vocabulary runs right through me
The alphabet runs right from A to Z
Conversations, hesitations in my mind
You got my conscience asking questions that I can't find
I'm not crazy
I'm sure I ain't done nothing wrong, no
I'm just waiting
'Cause I heard this feeling
won't last that long
Never ever have I ever felt so low
When you gonna take me out of this black hole?
Never ever have I ever felt so sad
The way I'm feeling yeah, you got me feeling really bad
Never ever have I had to find
I've had to dig away to find my own peace of mind
I've Never ever had my conscience to fight
The way I'm feeling, yeah, I just don't feel righ
I'll keep searching
Deep within my soul
For all the answers
Don't wanna hurt no more
I need peace, got to feel at ease
Need to be.
Free from pain - going insane
My heart aches, yeah
Sometimes vocabulary runs right through my head
The alphabet runs right from A to Z
Conversations, hesitations in my mind
You got my conscience asking questions that I can't find
I'm not crazy,
I'm sure I ain't done nothing wrong
I'm just waiting
'Cause I heard this feeling won't last that long
Never ever have I ever felt so low
When ya gonna take me out of this black hole?
Never ever have I ever felt so sad
The way I'm feeling yeah, you got me feeling really bad
Never ever have I had to find
I've had to dig away to find my own peace of mind
I've Never ever had my conscience to fight
The way I'm feeling, yeah, I just don't feel right x4
You can tell me to my face,
You can tell me on the phone,
Uh, You can write it in a letter, babe
'Cause I really need to know
You can tell me to my face
You can tell me on the phone
Uh, You can write it in a letter, bab
'Cause I really need to know
You can write it in a letter, babe
You can write it in a letter, babe
I hope this is your style of music or this helps :)
Heres another one:
Mariah Carey Lyrics
Against All Odds (Take A Look At Me Now) Lyrics
How can I just let you walk away
Just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking
Every breath with you
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
How can you just walk away from me
When all I can do is watch you leave
'Cause we've shared the laughter and the pain
And even shared the tears
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
So take a look at me now
Oh there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
And you coming back to me is against all odds
And that's what I've got to face
I wish I could just make you turn around
Turn around and see me cry
There's so much I need to say to you
So many reasons why
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
So take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
But to wait for you is
All I can do
And that's what I've got to face
Take a good look at me now
'Cause I'll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
That's the chance I've got to take
Take a look at me now
Mariah Carey Lyrics
Against All Odds (Take A Look At Me Now) Lyrics
How can I just let you walk away
Just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking
Every breath with you
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
How can you just walk away from me
When all I can do is watch you leave
'Cause we've shared the laughter and the pain
And even shared the tears
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
So take a look at me now
Oh there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
And you coming back to me is against all odds
And that's what I've got to face
I wish I could just make you turn around
Turn around and see me cry
There's so much I need to say to you
So many reasons why
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
So take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
But to wait for you is
All I can do
And that's what I've got to face
Take a good look at me now
'Cause I'll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
That's the chance I've got to take
Take a look at me now
Mariah Carey Lyrics
Against All Odds (Take A Look At Me Now) Lyrics
How can I just let you walk away
Just let you leave without a trace
When I stand here taking
Every breath with you
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
How can you just walk away from me
When all I can do is watch you leave
'Cause we've shared the laughter and the pain
And even shared the tears
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
So take a look at me now
Oh there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
And you coming back to me is against all odds
And that's what I've got to face
I wish I could just make you turn around
Turn around and see me cry
There's so much I need to say to you
So many reasons why
You're the only one
Who really knew me at all
So take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
And there's nothing left here to remind me
Just the memory of your face
Take a look at me now
'Cause there's just an empty space
But to wait for you is
All I can do
And that's what I've got to face
Take a good look at me now
'Cause I'll still be standing here
And you coming back to me is against all odds
That's the chance I've got to take
Take a look at me now
Mariah Carey Lyrics
i had to get my head shaved bc my barber messed up. is there any ways i can make my hair grow faster without buying any fancy hair growth products?
unfortunately hair grow super slow:( but the trick is to take a vitamin a day (however, you can go to the vitamin store and there are actually specialized vitamins specifically for your hair which gives all the proper nutrients your hair needs to be healthy and grow to its maximum potential) on top of that, hair is made of protein (keratin) so its good to eat a healthy diet with lots of protein (fish, eggs, cheese, yogurt, nuts, soy, and other meats, have protein) Dont wash your everyday, better to wash it everyother day so it is able to utilize the natural oils your hair produces. And 2 times a day give your scalp a message (finger tips on your scalp and message lightly in a circle rotation) will increase the blood flow to your head which helps support the production of your hair. If that gets tiring you can also hang upside down for a few minutes so the blood rushes to your head a little. That is pretty much all you can do so I hope this helps you out:)
So I have these 2 friends. But sometimes, when we hang out I feel kind of like a third wheel. For instance tomorrow, we were gonna go out for ice cream with these guys. Anyways, they were both together hanging out tonight and we were talking on IM. Well one of them said to me..."can you drive tomorrow?" and so I checked with my mom. Well, later today they asked if I could drive, but my mom had told someone I could babysit. Then all they said was, well are you sure? because your our ride." I just kinda felt like crap. What should I do about this? And I am NOT handling this by TELLING THEM HOW I FEEL. So PLEASE dont give me that answer. I am not doing that. %% Thanks &&
Youre right that is rude, what? why wouldnt they be (if they really thought of you as their true friend) oh that sucks we wanted you to come, obviously your presence doesnt mean too much to them because all they seem to be disappointed about is the fact that they won't be able to get around. Dont tell them how you feel but stop being so available to them, or if you have plans with them say yeah you'll go, and then if they assume you're going to have ur ride just say nope sorry, someone else is going to have to drive us. Then pay attention to how they react, if they are kind of pissed off then obviously theyre only using you for a ride In Which case, who needs them? Theyre the one who needs you. Find other people that value you for you and not what you have, believe me, there are lots of other people that have better personalities than they do, and who will cherish your friendship for your presence and personality, not the fact that you can give them things they dont already have, NOW ON THE OTHER HAND, if you say you don't have a ride and then theyre like OH thats okay it doesnt matter lets just find another way to get there (or something along that line) then they really dont care about the ride and you shouldnt feel so bad. BUT, thats ONLY if thats what the case so pay attention to how they respond when you no longer become the person to get them around. If u see theyre only using you then who needs those b!tches anyway, theres lots of other people who will wanna chill with you just to CHILL WITH YOU. So lose them in that case. GOOD LUCK:) AND i hope this helped you.
are there different ways to give head that are more pleasurable to guys? like different techniques or ideas? i want my boyfriend to really like it haha. thanks =)
Its up to you but the key move is to suck on the balls too. From past boyfriends and present, the feedback I got from them was always the best:P Another thing is to put your hands at work too, if your sucking then caress his balls too at the same time (cup them in your hand and kind of message/rub them) The more the better:P Also while your sucking make sure sometimes you kind of play with the top of his penis with your tongue (circle your tongue around the tip of it and then start sucking again) because the top of their penis is very sensitive. Most of all, anything you do is going to make him crazy so develop your own type of rythym, switch it up a little in the pace, and make sure you dont bite down:P and Hell love it and be really thankfull he has a girlfriend like you:) Good luck and dont choke:P
15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice would be very appreciated. =] Sorry for making it so long.
DONT YOU WORRY:) ITs definitely not too late and 15 is young still believe it or not, you got lots of time. Some of my girlfriends are beautifull girls WITH good personality too and they never found boyfriends till they were 17 / 18. Even if you didn't find a boyfriend by then, there is still tons of time and guaranteed, one will come. I was barely lucky to snag an actual boyfriend when I was 15 too. Although I had many guys who liked me, or I liked them, and many guy friends, nothing ever came to result to an actual boyfriend boyfriend and I began to wonder too. But, now I can say Ive had millions (well not millions) but enough that I cant even remember that well going out with a few of them (probablly why Im not with them anymore) Anywho, my point is, be patient and they will come, and once one breaks the single streak its like the rest keep coming from there. SO DONT WORRY OR BE SAD OR FEEL DOWN ON YOURSELF. Sometimes I found too, especially when I saw people (girls who had bf's) and I was like well why cant I get one? She doesnt have anything different from what I have. BUt the truth is, sometimes guys can actually be intimidated by you because youre so pretty and they believe that because of this, you're either a snob or already have a boyfriend therefore, they don't even try. Meanwhile, your wondering whats wrong with you when really, theyre just scared of being turned down or rejected by you when really, that's not the case at ALL. But, like I said, it will all come in time so enjoy single life right now because that can be just as fun in a whole different way and GUARANTEED, you wont always be single, its just a matter of time. Also, you have to be able to put yourself in a place where you can meet guys and an environment where they can approach you, because your not going to meet anyone if your sitting at home. SO, get out there and meet real friends (i know you're saying easier said than done, but thats not true, if you're a good person and believe your fun to be around then true friends will find you) so that way you have someone that you can go and have some fun with and be in places where guys can see you actually exist and that they want to get to know you. BUT LIKE I SAID, BE PATIENT, and no matter what you do, you'll eventually find a boyfriend:)
So I like this guy named Kevin right? He hangs out with my friends every once and a while and is really cute and sweet. But he invited me to his summer house with a few of our friends for the night. Now he knows I am not going to be a hoe all of a sudden and jump on him but at the same time I want to make a good impression. What are little things that guys like when girls do while like kissing and cuddling and what not?
Well, if you're not going to be a slut, then theres nothing more you should do other than kissing and cuddling. That's enough in the beginning to let him know you like him and are into him. The rest is all the good stuff he should wait for, its the extra benefit that makes him want to work for it and be with you. It also gives him a little challenge, which guys like. Also, just being yourself with a sweet personality, along with a little cuddling and kisses will go a long way with him. BY doing that you wont give him the wrong impression at all and at the same time he still knows you're into him. In addition however, Sometimes even the smallest of a touch will send tingles up his spine. For ex) if you were to be sitting together (hes cuddling you) a nicely placed hand on his higher (but not too high:p) thigh will make him go crazy. Especially, if you have your hand placed there and then you slowly with just your fingers kind of caress his thigh (rub) but with your pom of hand still flat on his thigh(guaranteed all he'll be thinking in his head is, omg her hand is on my thigh, and just like a guy, anything close to their stuff (without it being on their stuff - thats what keeps you a good girl till you guys are more serious and ready to take it to a different level) will make them insane and totally turned on. It will definitely send butterflies in their stomach and tingles up their back. If hes already into you, then even the littlest things will send his heart racing. Good luck and have fun and dont get too naughty:p Hope this helpd a little bit:)
what is a goodplace to have your car get a paint job and about how much would it cost to a volvo station wagon painted
I can't tell you where to go because im not quite sure where you're located but I can tell you to get a paint job (a good one at least) it will cost you a pretty penny. For a good paint job, your looking at anywhere from 2000 to 4000. YOu can get a not so great one for less, but that will only lead you to chips and your paint peeling off in the not so distant future. Im in the same spot as you, the last paint job my car had done wasnt a very good one and now Im going to have to shell out the money If I want my car painted and with quality. So save up:) when I heard that I was like OUCH:o. Hope this helps:)
My boyfriend is black, and i am white. he wants to hang out over the summer, but my parents are extremely racist and would NEVER let me go anywhere with him. i have told him that but i am afraid that he will break up with me if we dont see eachother all summer. ahh help me please !!!
Your parents need to get with it and stop being so judgmental, times have changed and colour means nothing. Im in a inter ratial relationship, so are many other people. You need to not let your parents lead your heart away from where it is or who you love. They need to see that and be shown that their ideas and beliefs are absolutely false and when they see that you really care for him and he cares for you and that your serious about your feelings about him then slowly they will hopefully see the light and be not so hateful. Were all just people despite our racial or ethnic differences. Dont become like your parents and give in to something that is wrong if its not what YOU WANT. I know you don't want to jeapordize your relationship with your family but they should accept whoever it is you love or care about and just because they have their issues doesnt mean you have to suffer. Over the history we have come a long way to fight for equality and understanding among us all and I think you need to fight for your boyfriends sake and continue to be his girl despite what your family say and if they love you they wont stop loving you for who you choose to be with. They may be upset at first but that will fade when they see that he is truly a nice guy that treats you good. Although they wont let you go anywhere with him (which you should go anywhere you want with him) would they let you invite him to their house so they could see first hand that he is a nice guy and that theyre wrong for judging him to be something he is not. If they wont, then it still doesnt change my answer, racism is not right and you need to show your parents that and continue following your heart to WHOEVER it will take you to...and if that is your boyfriend, than stick with him and dont give up on him. You wouldnt like it if he stopped seeing you because his parents had issues with the fact you were white and it wouldnt make you feel loved or cared about if thats why he wont see you, because of your skin colour, so dont do that to him. Stand up for what you see is right and eventually they will come to accept it whether they like it or not, or they will learn that they were entirely wrong about passing judgment based on superficial reasons. Good luck and I hope you stick to your man and follow your heart in the right direction:)Good luck!
i had no idea on which category this should be on but here it goes.
on my arms and thighs, i have these strange bumps..they feel rough (lol) and like it looks like mini pimples! it can't be because my skin is dry, because i use eucerin, and lotion.
any advice?
i went to my doctor he said to use eucerin, and to scrub hard. NOT WORKING.
also. on my neck it is black..trust me i take forever in teh shower and i scrub hard. what could it be?
how can i get rid of it.
again my doctor said to scrub
thanks so much!
-bev.
hmmm, I dont know if this is going to help or not but the bumps, if they are hard to see and very tiny but when your rub your skin you can feel them they are usually in response to your environment. I wouldnt call it allergies but it is a reaction to season change or other changes in the environment. In Hawaii, I never had them and then when I moved to Edmonton, Ab in Canada for a little bit I got those bumps on my arms too. A lot of people have them especially on their arms and thighs, but it is hard to desribe what they are or even get rid of them. Sometimes it seems they go away on their own and other times they come back (season change). Im not quite sure about the black on you neck, maybe you havent been scrubbing with eucerin long enough:p SO, keep scrubbin and I hope I helped in some way:)
This is really long, But Im desprette So please listen.
So one night I had my two friends Sleepover danielle and Carly. Things were going great until i brought up my Crush Me and Jenna went to the same school and Danielle went to a different one. I showed Danielle pictures of him and everything. I never actually talked to my crush ( James ) but i Knew carly was really good friends with him so I asked her to introduce us online. So things were going amazing we were talking and really getting along. Then Danielle says she is going to talk to him on my other computer when we are all ready to go to bed she tells me she is in love with him. And i start getting pretty mad.
So days go on and She starts really getting To Know james, They are constantly texting and On the phone with eachother while i am trying to get closer to James.
So the other day i was like Danielle, We are both in love with James so lets just make a promise not to tell him how we feel or anything, Lets all just be best friends and nothing more and we will never tell him how we feel.
So then Like a day after that Danielle Goes and tells him she likes him. And he says he wants to get to know her first so i get pretty mad.
But today, I am talking to Carly when she goes I gg James and Danielle are coming over. And i was like so pissed off because Carly was nice all through my tough time she knew how much i LOVED James and how mean Danielle was acting and Yet she does this to me. I try talking to her about it but she got so mad at me She was like I would have you over too but i forgot and I got upset So the more Upset i got the More mad she got. ANd then she sends this to Danielle adn Danielle is flipping out on me and they are all ganging up on me.
I cant help it i m gettin so jelouse and i told them Now James is gonna get to know Danielle and He is gonna like her. And I am so upset I have been crying over this all day.
I just really need help. Sry its so long
Thats pretty harsh. Your friend just cut your grass like that and then your other supposed friend knows this but still supports this even though its wrong. There are unwritten rules about friendship and that is to not steal the guy your friend is in love with or has a crush on. There are so many guys out there, why did she have to take your guy? Thats what you call a scandolous b!tch and ufortunately a lot of girls can be like that ( two faced when it comes to guys) that is why you have to be careful with who your friends are because true friends wouldn't do that to you. Ive been through those times too, where someone you thought you could trust as your friend, backstabs you just to get with your guy. The truth is they're not your friend ( a girl in the past who I thought was my bestfriend fell in love with my boyfriend and then locked me out of the room when he was super drunk and didnt know what was going on and she F#Ckd him well, I should say raped :P) Neadless to say I quickly ditched her as my friend knowing that i could never trust her again and I also got rid of the boyfriend of course - no question about it, Now I have awesome girls who have my back no matter what and the best boyfriend) Anywho, you need to find friends who got your back no matter what and believe me they do exist. Dont waste your time being hurt by the ones who are supposed to be close to you. It can be very hard when skanks like that act as if they're your friend and do that to you, its not easy to deal with but you dont need them anyway. And for them to be mad and gang up on you? They're hurting and deperate. They're scandolous and normal girls like us hate those type of b!tches. SO, don't cry anymore and focus your attention on finding better friends, ones that you can trust and wont turn their back on you the moment a guy walks in. True girlfriends stick together and If your interested or going out with a guy, rules are, friends shouldn't even mess with him or flirt or talk to him if they had your best intentions at heart and if they don't, that's how you know theyre not your real friends. Theyre not following the rules of a good friend and in the end theyre not going to have any friends because their poor judgement will have betrayed everyone. Dont worry, their will be more James's out there, even better ones and all though it hurts, you'll find an even better guy in no time. Anyway, he probablly wont even like her after he gets to know her because hell realize that her personality sucks and shes nothing but a whore. SO, feel better and wipe those tears away because you dont need people like that in your life.
So I've had a problem my whole life with going poop. I guess I never really realized it was a problem until recently. I only poop every week and a half or so. It doesn't bother my stomach at all, but I know it can't be that healthy. When I finally do go, it takes like 20 minutes and I go very little.
I drink at least 8 glasses of water a day. I eat lots of fiber and I take fiber pills. I've even tried taking laxatives and nothing helps. Is it healthy and if not, what's wrong and what should I do?
Nope, its not healthy at all, Depending on the person, average is to go 2-3 times a day to 2-3 times a week but if you are not to go for at least a week then you can develop serious health problems.It is unhealthy to not poop. If there is a blockage preventing the poop from going out the normal route, then there is a good chance that you could experience abdominal cramping, bloating, perforation of the bowel and fecal vomiting in the near future. There is more room out than in, and poop is destined to come out eventually. The fact that you already eat a lot of fiber and drink water even take laxative is also a concern because thats all you can do to poop naturally and if its still not coming then you definitely should see a doctor to determine the cause and get you freely pooping again:)
poop is all the toxic waste that your body doesnt want or need and if your body is unable to get rid of it then it only builds up inside you body and puts pressure on all your organs and stuff. If you were older, this situation could be deathly putting you at risk of a heart attack or other serious problems. SOmetimes, I know its kind of gross, but for people who have trouble with taking a shit they put a tube up your bum and suck it out. You should really see a doctor about this because you dont want to jeapordize your health and although it may seem embarrassing Im sure theyve dealt with numerous cases like that before so dont be afraid to get yourself healthy and pooping at a good rate:):P Hope this helps.
ok, whenever i try to shave my crotch, when im done, it itches or burns. what am i doing wrong. it only burns where i shaved. plz help!
Your skin is really sensitive down there and probablly isnt used to it just yet. I know it can suck because when you first start to shave your puss (for everyone) it seriously does itch when it grows back and it can burn because you get razer burn because your skin IS sensitive. Also, you could be irritating it by using a shaving cream too. Anywho, it will only itch and all that for a little bit. I found though that the more you shave it, the better your skin will be accustomed to it and eventually it doesnt itch or burn at all. It just really sucks the first few times. Also, Dont shave your puss everytime there is a little stubble coming back because like I said, your skin is really sensitive in that area and it will only cause you to have razer burn, after you shave down there, you have to wait a bit till theres more than just stubble to shave again or else the results wont be pretty. Many times in the beginning and even sometimes after its common to get little red bumps, even when youve been shaving a while. They dont hurt or burn though, but they do have really good bikini lotions to rid you of that problem. Another alternative you could try is sally hansen for the bikini area (make sure its for the bikini area or else youll have even bigger problems) But that is a lotion you put on and leave for whatever amount of time it says, then when you rinse it off all the hair comes out as well, that might be a better alternative than shaving, but, Every girl or guy seems to have the same problem when they shave down there for the first few times but its just a matter of toughening up your skin so it can take it better. In other words, you just have to keep trying until your skin becomes used to it. Shaving however, is actually cleaner and more pleasant for guys and yourself. When you have a bush, (not like this is likely to happen but...) you could get crabs or whatever but you cant with out any hair down there because that's the only place they live...on hair. Just a little tidbit to know even though most people dont have crabs (that I know of:P) Hope this helps:)
15/f
People-
I am not such an openminded girl. But ive been living with this cruel load on my shoulder for the past 10 years. That load would be my father. Hes amazing person and i love him but hes not th e best father and husband. he never hurt me GOSH NO! but hes never home, never drives me anywhere never does the father stuff and my parnets rarley talk. my mom tries to get my dad to go out to dinner he wont. this has been going on for a really long time. like i wont care to speak back to my mom but to my dad im petrified! i dont know why! i do everythign with my mom and i feel really bad for her. until i found out recently that my mom finally did somehting about it. she started (without telling any of her 5 kids, well she told my 19 year old sister) fialing. i, not being stupid, realaized. so once i asked my mom and she was liek acting dumb she slike whta do u think i should do so she told my sister that i asked and my sister told me the truth. then the other day she was drving me somewhere and she yelled in the phone so i said MOM YOU YELLED--OWW!!!. and she went phyco. yelling at me fo rbeng direcpectble (which is undertsandable-- i was) but hten came the break down. she brought up all about my father and crazy things about money and thing i should nto know about! i really got scard. once hs eused the quote "im sorry this happned to our family" i knw it was bad. but sh ewasnt telling me she was YELING and making it as if it was my foult. i ried and had a breakdown as well. then the rest fo the ride she apoligized and i ignored and wtvr. the next day she called me evry second. i ignored all calls. fiannly my cousin made me answer it and i was very emoitonless. i answered everything I DONT KNOW. she asked me if i purposly didnt asnwer the phone i said yes. she apoligized admitted to crying the night, when she has no idea whta i went torugh the ngiht she yelled at me!! i called my friend histerical crying !! omg my firne never saw me like that. but aanyways she feels really bad and i want to forgive her but for somereason i cant. i just cant. liek my body wont let me on th ephone say anyting. liek i just dotn understand this.
-C
but that car ride was serously hell. i thought i was in a movie. she was screamimgn at me like crazy things that i shouldnt not be worrying about that right now i am. MONEY-CAMP-LOVE- etc.
please anyone?
ITs seriously the hardest thing to do is go through a break up with anyone, let alone, a man that you love and have 5 kids with especially when its not because of anything you did (your mom) to make him leave, its because he is leaving and giving up on you and the relationship itself. That can be a hard thing to deal with emotionally, especially when you're trying to stay strong for your kids. But you have to remember, no one can be a super mom (or parent) and we're all still humans trying to make it through this life happy and in one piece. Many times our emotions get the best of us and we have a hard time controlling it because for so long were trying to hold it in and then it becomes harder to contain it inside, so when your mom broke down or even upset you, it was a little misplaced anger from everthing else she's dealing with and it makes it a lot harder on her if you're being disrespectful or mean to her because shes under so much stress and pain. I know its also difficult to go through the seperation of your parents and you are probablly feeling stress as well, so imagine what she feels being that was her husband who she made a life with and now he's neglecting the life he made with her. She probablly feels rejected as it is, She needs support from you and your understanding that she is going through a hard time and needs you to be there for her, not against her. Don't add to the pain by making her life even more difficult because she DOES LOVE YOU, you should cut her a break and forgive her because she didn't mean it (especially when she already said sorry and tried to call you a million times) Your mom truly cares for you and loves you and just needs you to understand that her life isnt that easy at the moment. Think of when you have gone through a hard time or had a bad day and the next person who contributed (even a little) to the bad day would get more back (yelling or whatever) than what they contributed. Thats probablly what you got back but it wasnt what you contributed, but she definitely loves you and doesnt blame you for anything. The reason why she told the oldest of you guys (19 year old) is probablly because they understand the situation and what's going on a little bit better and could help her out with you guys while she tries to find her strength in herself to continue on with being a loving and caring mother to you guys and protecting you from the fact that they're getting divorced until she is ready to break the news. But in order to do that, she needed to get in control of her emotions so she can make the best decision regarding you guys and your father. So dont be upset that she didn't tell you because it probablly wasnt out of spite. Nonetheless, I know this is a difficult time for you and you're probablly really upset because this is a big change and a hard thing to go through, but, just know that no matter what happens between your mom and father and the relationship between them, you still have a loving mother, and a loving father, and loving siblings, and that doesn't change. It might even be a little better because maybe when they are seperated they will be happier (including your father) because sometimes relationships just don't work and if theyre not working it can make both of their lives very hard (probablly why your dad is not around as much) But it will never change the fact that they love you guys. Its better to have them happy, which will make your lives happier, than them living in pain together for the sake of you guys, because that will really only make you guys unhappy as well to see them in pain. SO, the important thing is that you guys are all happy. Im sorry for the pain that you are going through but in this time more than ever, you must be there for eachother and show eachother that no matter what happens you can always count on eachother to be there. I hope everything will get better in time and I wish you the very best of luck:)
on 3 things...
1. giving hand jobs
2. kissing
3. on sex (the first time). Like does it hurt?
ok thanks.
Its kind of a mystery when we all first start out, but the key is just to really play around and see whats turning him on more. But, at least if you're to give a guy a hand job, don't just use one hand, put both of them to work:p You can stroke his shaft up and down (dont squeeze on it too hard or hold it too loosely, but have a nice grip on it and do different things like switch up the pace of it, or go up and down and then guys are really sensitive at the top of their penis so use your thumb at times and lightly skim over the top (stroke the top with your thumb while the rest of your hand is still holding his stuff (i dont like the word penis or dick that much it sounds so ugly:P) At the same time use your hand, and guys REALLY like it if you rub their balls at the same time, Kissing, is something you just do, you develop your own style but it will come naturally so don't put too much thought into it. The whole idea of french kissing is to message the others tongue and usually if hes kissing you (its like dancing lol, hell take the lead and you just respond to his moves with your tongue until you see how its done and start whipping out your own moves:P) Sex, yes for the first time it does hurt, for the first couple times actually and depending on his size of stuff and also yourself (some girls hurt more than other girls) Try to ease yourself into it with foreplay (like he fingers you and kind of gets your puss ready for the big show:) Make sure you use protection though because you don't want a baby anytime soon especially for the first time and make sure its the right time and person that you want to have sex with (not just anyone because you dont want to hook up with a random guy that probablly hooks up with other random girls and is carrying an std) So, use a condom and if he is your boyfriend of a while you could get birthcontrol (they dont protect against std but the will most likely keep you from having babies and its not such an inconvenience each time you have to stop in between the hott passionate love making:p and put a condom on) But, the best way to be totally protected is to use both (condom and pill) Anywho, enough about that, I dont want to scare you I just want you to be safe and enjoy your first time with no regrets, so have fun with your lucky man and Im sure hell be happy with anything you do to him. Good luck:)
im 16/f. im a little bit underweight. my ex bf moved 3 years ago and we were in love. but weve been drifting. he would never ask me to do something i wouldnt want to do. but as im trying to find someone else, i find that guys are using me for sex. im a pastors daughter, and im not willing to drop my dignity at someones feet. if i lose it to anyone at this moment, it will be to my ex of 3 years. but that cant happen.
seems like my ex is the only guy who respected me. is it because i keep comparing what he and i had to the guys now? how can i find a REAL guy who wont use me for sex?
Guys are idiots at that age and a lot of them are so immature that all they think they want is to get laid because their raging hormones arent thinking rationally. However, there are guys who will like you and want to be with you for who you are. There are more guys (like your ex) out there but you just have to be patient and keep you guard up against the dirty ones that want one thing. In the end, those guys end up lonely because no girl wants to be with a player or a horn dog, or they end up with stds from all the skanks that give it up to anyone. SO, unfortunately it seems like for every good guy theres 20 horndogs...which sucks. It also sucks that guys at your age are much more immature than girls are and their weiners lead their lives for them in that stage. But dont lose your hopes, because, a good guy and the right guy will come eventually (they always do) its just a matter of being patient and strong against the ones who want to use you. Most of all though, is the good guys like the girls who have respect for themselves and dont just give themselves away to anyone who asks. The ultimate way of being sexy is having dignity and class, and just like you have to be patient for the right guys to find you, meanwhile, the right guys have to be patient too because they keep getting hurt by sluts who cheat on them. You see, it works both ways and its a shame that more than often, a good guy is being wasted on a girl who doesnt appreciate him, or, a good girl is being wasted on a guy who is only using her for sex. So, dont do what you dont want to do and save it for someone you find who deserves it and wont take it in vein. SOmeone who is going to want you (for your personality) and then the extras are all the added benefits of being with you. SO, watch out for the guys that appear to be the one just to get in your pants, and In order to find the one who does REALLY WANT YOU FOR YOU...make sure you get to know him on a friendship basis first, that way you can feel out his intentions with you (you have the upper hand) and at the same time he comes to learn who you are as a person first, rather than a sex object. Dont lose hope though, youll find him and when you do you'll be happy that you waited for someone like him who truly cares for you and not just what you can do for him. Good luck!
me and my bf are hanging out later today and i know he's going to be doing that but im not the skinniest person around..i've got mad belly fat lol.
so will he still like, enjoy it?
It doesnt matter if your skinny, big bonned :), short, tall, guys have different preferences and if he likes you and is in to you than he likes you for who you already are, he probablly doesnt care about a little chub because what attracted him to you in the first place was you yourself and the way you are now. Besides, we all go through our skinnier and chubbier phases:P Unless, you want to lose a little weight for yourself and yourself only, dont change anything about yourself for anyone else because there are always going to be guys who will love you for you and just the way you are, not superficial reasons, and if that is how they are, then theyre too superficial themself and arent seeing the true beauty of your personality. Not just what you have to show, if that's the case, you can find much better. Guys don't always like really skinny girls, and they also don't like really hott girls with no personality (no personality only makes you ugly even if you are good looking) So, value yourself and the awesome qualities you already have (like personality) And remember, a little belly fat never killed anyone and its much softer to hold and hug:) Dont be self conscious and love yourself for what you are not what others want you to be, So have fun with your baby tonight and don't worry about a thing!:)
My penis came into contact with my girlfriends vagina. I did not stick in my penis but it did touch the outer walls of the vagina. Precum might have been present but i'm not sure. is there chances of her being pregnant?
I would say a very, very slim chance. One, you didnt actually cum in her with you in her, you just touched the outside and your not for sure if there was even any precum. Precum, if you had your penis in her would MAYBE get her pregnant but the fact that you're not even sure if you precummed (so it obviously wasnt much) and you only touched the outside (which doesn't mean you shot it straight up there) then she probablly wont get pregnant. Im not saying its not possible but it is very unlikely. Hope this helped and If you're concerned about getting her pregnant then maybe you should play it a little safer or wear a condom because once she is pregnant, she's pregnant, so if you're not ready to have a baby you should take preventative measures if you're becoming sexually active (condom / birthcontrol) Just in case!:)
omg, so last night was the 8th grade dance, and this not really RANDOM but like, he's friends with one of my guyfriends, he started like grindinggg me and my hand accidentally brushed up on his pants and omg he was so hard... and like last night i couldn't stop thinking about him and i was wondering... should i continue like talking to him? he is in none of my classes & never was, so he was pretty random. like i knew who he was though, always... so, should i smile at him on monday? cause the last day for school for us is wednesday. should i just ignore him? i don't think i have a full-blown crush on him.
Dont think too much into it. Lots of guys (and its only starting for you) will get hard ons over you. Even when you don't know about it or havn't even done anything to cause it:p Guys get turned on really easy especially when their in the puberty stage (a simple hug, a dance, even if they look at you in your bathing suit, etc). Its just cause your irresistable:p but it doesnt mean you have to be into them or even like them or be compelled to talk to him again (if you don't want to). You cant control their body parts so its not your fault and dont feel like you have to start liking him or anything if you dont. Just continue on like normal, if you did like him then you could maybe pursue something with him but if you dont like him, then dont change a thing or even act wierd around him, just act like it was nothing and if he talks to you at school or smiles at you be polite but dont feel you have to do anything more. Hope this helps:)