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i have really big nipples! all of my friends call my pepperoni nipples. is it normal for a 15 year old to have that big of nipples?

hey..
im at 15 years old too. and i have the same problem! but they all come in different sizes, shapes and colors. i kno it can be embarassing but trust me its not that big of a deal.. and guys dont find it bad either! hope i helped.
dont be afraid to contact me

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my bf wants to eat me out and like im fine with it and all but wat should i do in order to prepare myself? Like shower? or how much should i shave or wat? ok thanks

well when my bf does it i still feel kinda weird that he may be grossed out or somethin but weve been tigether over a year.. i leave the room and go sponge bath myself real quick i say my fones rining or something and i clean up real good down there. and i shave EVERYTHING off. make sure u look in all the areas.

hope i helped

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Hey does anyone know any love songs?
Im going out of town for a few days and
i want to make my boyfriend a cd so he's
not so upset and everything? thanks! =]

always be my baby - mariah carey
angel of mine - monica
god bless the broken road - rascal flatts

hope you like em :)

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I've never heard this,
i found it on a xanga,
with a lot of song lyrics
and quotes.
and so, it says
"i'm not cold, she says, but she's shaking, as she's lying next to me naked."
and then im pretty sure the quote said
"pull her hair back from her face & let her smile warm this place"
or something similar to that.
i found it about 3 months ago on the xanga,
and the owner hadnt logged on since like october 2006
so it had to have come out some time before then,
if its a song does anyone know it?
i searched a lot of different forms of that on google, but nothing helpful came up.

the song is called Still Breathing by Cauterize.
i love that song!!!

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alright well....2 summers ago i started talking to this kid..lets call him. K. not to be mean but he was a real loser. he was mean and didnt have alot of friends but he told me he liked me so i started talking to him to find out hes a really cool person. well by the end of the summer i started to really like him. so the 2nd day of school we went out. at first all of my friends were like EW y. but then they all started to like him.. well we broke up. and a almost 2 years later.. i still love him. the funny thing is.. he became friends with my friends and now hes one of the most popular people in our town. ( its not a small town either ) he always says hed love to go out with me again and stuff but whenever i tell him i like him he always says i dont really like you.... whats the deal? he always tells me im beautiful and that im his bestfriend but idk i just need help! im sorry this is long but i need help!! i cant talk about it to my friends either.. and if this helps.. i have a boyfriend. i know.. some girlfriend i am.

i think he still loves u.. dont worry

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does anyone know any songs similar to big girls dont cry. as in the lyrics. about having to move on with life and still loving someone. thanx. i need a new myspace song ;p

hmm.. try

i will learn to love again by kaci
i hope that works for you!

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I've been with my boyfriend since October 23rd 2005, i'm 15 almost 16 and he turned 18 in March. [ if that helps ]. He started living with me about 6 months after we met. We fight sometimes , but when we do fight he sometimes gets abusive. We got in a fight like a week ago and he grabbed me by the back of my neck forcing my head down in the my bed. My first thought after he did it was " well i don't feel the pain now , but i know in a couple days my neck will hurt ". and so it did.... i really love him alot and i wish he would change. is there anything i can change about myself for him to stop this , because i know in the future if this keeps happening , we won't be together.


thank you so much.

there is nothing at all you should change about yourself. im sure this is hard to hear but you need to get rid of that guy. you may love him but that is unhealthy.. any guy that would hit a girl is sick. he might have some issues but he should never hit you. im sorry to tell you hes most likely not going to change. think of it this way... if you had a daughter would u want her in a realationship with a boy who abuses her? i know it will be hard but u should end that and find a good guy. there are many out there.. and dont worry your still young. your going to meet alot of very good guys.. so dont settle for someone who does that 2 you.. no one deserves that.
good luck! i hope you make the right choice

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Alright, so i have problems opening up. I know my boyfriend gets frusterated sometimes because i'll be upset and not tell him whats wrong for a while. Its like i have a hard time saying whats on my mind while the time is right. I really do try and open up and communicate better but its something thats kind of hard for me, for some reason. Its like when I'm talking to him I dont tell him things that I should and then when I hang up I think of things I should have told him. Does anyone else have this problem or have any advice on how to work on communicating better? Thanks. (18/f)

i have this problem, and many girls out there do. its hard to open up to people easily.. but if you really trust your boyfriend it should be easier. just think to yourself.. i love my boyfriend, and he loves me, he wantes me to be happy and he cares, he'll listen to me and do whatever he can to make me feel better. it is very hard but it works. talking about this over the phone is harder, it might sound crazy but talking in person is so much better. try talking to a parent or someone closer 1st b4 your boyfriend. if your still having trouble.. find my page again and ill help you some mor.e good luck! =)

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Can anyone give me good ideas to do instead of sex? Like foreplay sort of.. I don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend for a long time, and until then I want to fool around. I just don’t want to have intercourse. So, any ideas would be great.

theres alot of things u can do.
you can mutal masterbate, oral sex, erotic massages, making out. anything realy

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15/m
riiight i need a bit of advice, girls your the only people who can help. i love my gf to bits but she keeps like having loads of mood swing i know the period n all that but its not that:S she keeps having loads of mood swings and everything is ok with her family and all that i dunno what it is. so girls do you get like this at times?? and if so why:S its personal yeh but i could realy do with the help. thanks very uch:)

im sure your getting the same answers but girls r VERY emotional. i love my boyfriend so much but im very moody with him too. the stupidist things bother us.. maybe she feels like she doesny look good, or soemthings going on with her friends. We have a lot of thoughts so sometimes we get overwhelmed. be patient with her.. she'll come around. but i wouldnt ask her why.. tell her whenever shes ready to talk about why your ready to listen, cause she might get offended otherwise.

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I've liked this guy, lets call him "ryan" since septemeber, and I thought he liked me too..like he used to flirt with me, and it felt like he was leading me on.. but then he went out with one of my good friends.. which at the time, i was dating her brother, so i couldnt say anything to her because she would have told my boyfriend and you know how that would have turned out, then he goes out with some senior who BTW is REALLY ugly, and very manly..lol then now, hes talking to this girl whos EXTREAMLY ugly and is a total BIOTCH!! and he NEVER notices me!! I feel like that song Tear Drops on my guitar by taylor swift, i cry all the time to that song, because we're friends and i try and give him hints but I feel like he doesnt want anything to do with me..=[ and I REALLY like him!! I cant help but to smile and giggle when hes around, and I felt for a while, that i was falling in love with him.. but I know for a fact he doesnt like me, because he told me, when i made up a story that people were saying that he liked me... just to see what he would say.. so what do i do to get his attention?? I'm a pretty girl, and I'm nice, and a fun outgoing person.. i really just wish he would notice me more than a friend.. and I dont want to be rejected! HELP ME!! how do I get him to notice me?!

Ive had this problem many times before...start by taking an interest in things he likes. Say hes into football.. learn about the game and teams.. when talking to him talk about it. find out his fav bands from one of his friends and start listening to them too. he'll start to think wow this girl is really cool. then start complimenting him.. when he talks about those girls be like i personally think u deserve better and go on from there.. after a while if he still doesnt notice u.. then hes not worth it. i know its hard but itll work eventually. i hope everyhting works out for you

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