omg, so last night was the 8th grade dance, and this not really RANDOM but like, he's friends with one of my guyfriends, he started like grindinggg me and my hand accidentally brushed up on his pants and omg he was so hard... and like last night i couldn't stop thinking about him and i was wondering... should i continue like talking to him? he is in none of my classes & never was, so he was pretty random. like i knew who he was though, always... so, should i smile at him on monday? cause the last day for school for us is wednesday. should i just ignore him? i don't think i have a full-blown crush on him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dunnworryjuzdoit answered Saturday June 16 2007, 4:25 pm: Dont think too much into it. Lots of guys (and its only starting for you) will get hard ons over you. Even when you don't know about it or havn't even done anything to cause it:p Guys get turned on really easy especially when their in the puberty stage (a simple hug, a dance, even if they look at you in your bathing suit, etc). Its just cause your irresistable:p but it doesnt mean you have to be into them or even like them or be compelled to talk to him again (if you don't want to). You cant control their body parts so its not your fault and dont feel like you have to start liking him or anything if you dont. Just continue on like normal, if you did like him then you could maybe pursue something with him but if you dont like him, then dont change a thing or even act wierd around him, just act like it was nothing and if he talks to you at school or smiles at you be polite but dont feel you have to do anything more. Hope this helps:) [ Dunnworryjuzdoit's advice column | Ask Dunnworryjuzdoit A Question ]
happybabe2 answered Saturday June 16 2007, 2:55 pm: well if i were you if the guy doesnt even make eye contact with you when you see him then just i wouldnt really like try to be friends with him. i mean it was a dance its not like you two are now a couple or anything if you like him though maybe you could i-m him online? or just say hi next time you see him if he acknowledges you. dont be too forward cause then guys just think that you took their intentions way overboard, but yea maybe become friends with him for now and see where it goes from there- if you want anything to go from there. but if he approaches you then yea i wouldnt ignore him but really it depends on what he does ya know?
-katie [ happybabe2's advice column | Ask happybabe2 A Question ]
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