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in love with best friend...
Im in love with my best friend Danny. But the thing is...hes gay and he obviously doesnt like me, but hes so sweet and I really love him with all my heart. And i asked my friend Dylana to talk about it with him. he said he is uncomfortable with the fact that hes gay, and im his best BEST friend and we have known each other for years.But i cant help it. he knows i like him and hes avoiding me latly. Hes home schooled but i will call him and he says hes too busy to talk, but when dylana talks to him, he is never busy. please help me. I want danny to talk to me again!
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Hi ya rachel! You should ask friends to hang out with you and Danny. Oh and Danny isn't busy this one weekend so you can come over here since he lives across my street! but it has to be Next month before summer school starts! LOVE YA! BYE!!!!!! DOGS RULE!!!!!!!!!
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You need to watch a whole lot of Will and Grace and learn how to be a good friend without getting emotionally attached. Life goes on, you will find many other guys out there with many of Danny's good qualities, and Danny will be there giving you advice on the guys perspective. Look towards the future rather than being stuck on what is not going to happen in the present.
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u need to really sort this out it is driving me crazy he is just uncomfertable because he knows u like him and he's gay and i hate that i dont know what to tell u (yes this is dylana)
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I think it scares him that you like him.. and that may be the reason why he's avoiding you. He probably doesn't want to hurt you because the feelings aren't mutual. What is it that you like in him? I think you need to come to realization that it would never work. It's not like he chose to be gay, he can't just turn his feelings off. I know it's probably hard for you, too. But, you know that if he ever decided to do anything with you, he's still going to be gay. Talk this over with him and he can tell you how it makes him feel. Maybe then this situation will be less tense and you can get past these feelings.
:] I hope I helped..
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*sigh* You're going to have to burry(sp) your feelings for him, and tell him you don't love him anymore...or maybe just say you were in love, like love as a brother...or something. Or just tell him everything...and just spill your guts, and then say you're better because you needed to say all that, and say 'I hope this doesn't affect our friendship...I love you too much, as a brother, for us to start acting weird.' Or call him and if he says he is busy, ask 'Why is it you're busy when I call, but when Dylana calls you, you're not busy?' Good luck chica...
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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