i need to write a poem asap about the sun and what its like to be the sun.it would be good for it to rhyme and not be too cliche. i need suggestions and poetic things i could say about the sun. please help!!
Okay, the one thing that helps me with writing poems is like...get a story of what you want it to be like. Write the story if you want to. That way you can go through it, cross out things you don't want in your poem, and then you will have something
But you can make the poem in 1st person, I believe, just...try to think what it would be like to be the sun, the thing that heats the earth, and gives us light
"Sunrise, sunset
It's time for things to be met
This side to rise and shine
Those sleepy heads will be upset, I bet
But they cannot complain
For for I don't sleep
If I did it would be vain
I have chores that I need to keep"
Wow XD That was probably the lamest poem I have ever wrote...but hey, I like rhyming something...
Anywho, ^^ Sometimes when you aren't even thinking about it, the poem will pop into your head. But don't over think about it, for it will totally screw not just you, but the poem up. Keep some paper with you, that way when you think about something, you can write it down ^^
Good luck, and I hoped I helped! XD Sorry about my lame example...but if it helps, hey!
~Vera
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my boobs look pointy...
i always have to wear a bra or a tight tank top to make them look normal.
they're pointy because i'm a 34 B and i have big, puffy nipples...
and they sag a little and point outward a little..
they're so ugly!.
besides surgery, do you know any way i can fix this problem? is there anything i can take to make my boobs grow? or is there an exercise that can pull them into an adequate position?
Uhm...sweetie, that is just how some girls boobs look. ^^ Some girls go through that while their boobs are still growing. Also, it could be that...well, when a girl gets really cold or turned on, the nipples can go through that.
I saw something on a commercial about this bar thing that can help you change your bra size, but really it is just working the chest area and what not...
If it bugs you that much, ask your mom for more help ^^ Seeing as she has gone through many years with boobs, she might know a secret or two to help you =3
Oh, and since you might be still growing, I wouldn't try to do anything to your chest...cause it might do something later on once you grow a bit more.
Hoped I helped, and good luck! ^^
~Vera
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Does anyone feel emotionally numb?
I can't feel...not happiness, not sadness, not remorse. I don't care about anyone or anything. I am manipulative and i find myself just using people. I need to know if there is anyone else like me.
Yes, there is other people with something similar to that. But, I have to say, you might have depression...that is how I was when I got severe depression. But if you want to figure it out, you might want to go to a therapist...^^ One that can tell you if you do have it or not.
I wish you the best of luck, and I hoped I helped. I really hope you find someone that can help you...cause it isn't fun to not feel happiness.
If you need anything else, feel free to send me a question ^^
~Vera
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I just recieved the best news: I have a Wasp nest in my backyard and it's Just above the back door. Luckily it's jsut getting started. So how do I get rid of it while it's still small?
Go to your local store, hardware or Wal-mart, and buy some wasp killing spray. But here is the thing, you need to be really really careful when you are about to spray it.
If I were you, I would go ask my mom or dad to spray it XD That way you won't get attacked by them
Anywho, if your parents aren't home or something, have your door a little bit open, so that when you spray them, you can get in really fast and the bugs can't get you. Just make sure to follow the directions on the spray to make sure you get a good amount of spray and what not. Just BE CAREFUL! I would wear long sleeves, and jeans and tuck them in...you don't want any wasps to get in your clothes.
Good luck! Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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This one girl who sits next to me always says "you wear pink alot." and so I always go, "you wear black alot, but I don't say anything." I don't understand what she makes these comments. I guess shes kinda weird, but I don't say anything mean to her or anything. I'm not annoying, and I'm not always saying oh my god!!! I'm not like that. I'm nice, I smile alot. But, whatever. Anyways, the other day I take out a pink pen to write something. She goes, "I hate the color pink." So I said, "I think I've figured that out by now." So then I decided to ask why, its just a color, why do you care. So, then this boy who shes friends with is like, "You're a typical high school girl." And I go "what?" he rolls his eyes at me and turns around. So then I freaked out and started fighting with them.
I've never hardly ever talked to this girl before. I don't get it, why does she and her friends seem to have a problem with me and other 'typical high school girls' i'm not really bad or anything, or not enough to get around school or for it to be much of a big deal. I or anyone else I know has a problem with her friends, they don't talk about them or anything. Why are these people always feeling bad for themselves? what do they have against me and people who are like me?
I don't get it.
Most people like trying to bother people...so if they keep doing that, just tell them that you like the color pink ^^ Some people like pink, others don't! It is as simple as that.
Tell them that, but if they keep bothering you, I would look at them and go "Yes, I like pink. Do you have an issue with that?" If they keep giving you crap about it, just shrug them off. I'm in love with the color green, some people hate it. And I love black, and people think I'm such a goth girl cause I do.
I know this may upset you when I say this, but you shouldn't let it get to you. Though I can't talk, some things get to me so easily. But if these people aren't your friends, you shouldn't care what they think about colors that you like. Also, if they think you are preppy cause you like pink, it pretty much shows that they really don't know you...people think I'm preppy cause on some days I wear something that preps where. But that people judge way too much...plus, it helps you learn that you shouldn't judge people since you have been judged before! =3
Good luck! Hoped I helped! ^^
~Vera
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okay. i am going for an 18 hour drive.
so i decided to rent for movies for my ipod touch.
now the movies won't go on my ipod!!
i neeed to do thid tonight because i'm leaving first thing in the morning!!. please help me!!!
i just need the movies from my itunes to my ipod!
^^ Hello there! I have an Ipod video, and like...I couldn't watch stuff music videos, but you need to go to the settings, and change them =3 like...*goes to get her Ipod, to see if she has them right*
Like on mine, I have to have it like...
TV Out: Off
TV signal: PAL
Widescreen: Off
^^ Try messing with your settings, to make it work, cause with my TV out thing, I can't have it plugged on a stero thing for it to work =3
Now, with the movies not going to your Ipod, it might be because your Ipod touch might not have enough room for it, or because your Ipod touch won't allow it on there for reasons like...uhm...crap...hmm...maybe you should check to see if your Ipod touch put them under videos or something XD That might help...or make sure that your Itunes actually downloaded them correctly ^^
If that doesn't help, you should call Itunes to see if it helps.
Good luck! And I hoped I helped! Have a nice trip!!
~Vera
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I use a tanning product
like lotion for my legs its from the brand Loreal..
and it is called Sub Lime Bronze.. self tanning lotion , Tone Light medium ect.
o.. im wondering.. I use it on my legs only, sometimes it gets on my arms and I used it on my face once.. anyways I was wondering if there could be a way I could get cancer from this tanning lotion? My mom said sometime in the last few hours she hopes it doesn't have cancer causing stuff it in it ! NOW im worried ! Help!
^^ Tanning lotion doesn't have anything to cause cancer...really, most things don't XD
I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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15/f
Sophmore
So everyone in my science class knows my background (ethnicity).I'm proud of who and what I am. Although, people are sort of starting to make fun of me. For example, this boy named Fabian asks me questions from time to time about what language i speak and where the country is located etc. And so I tell him. But now it's getting out of control. He knows this boy that has the same ethnicity as me and he tried to hook us up! LIKE NO, YOU DON'T DO THAT!!! I never asked for a boyfriend and i don't want one. And now he's asking everyone about my ethnicity.It's sort of hard to explain but he's doing it in a way so that i look bad. And then later on today he came up to me and said that my background's people made cookies from dirt and water. AND IT'S JUST LIKE I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!! PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO HANDLE THIS SITUATION CORRECTLY!!!! ALL ANSWERS GREATLY APPRECIATED
***ASAP***
Hell yes, you should be proud of who you are. That boy really needs to just chill with all he is doing...in a way, I think he is pretty interested with you, but...Oo it's so weird that he is doing that. I suggest you do a couple of things...
1. Pull him over to the side one day so that you can talk to him alone. Tell him everything that you are feeling when he does that, and everything. And get the point across that he NEEDS to stop. If he tries to ignore what you are saying, and what not, say in a stren voice "Listen, this is really important" then just say everything you told us in your question but make sure you are cool, calm, and collected ^^
2. Okay, let's say that he said he would quit but he hasn't, go over to him again and ask "Dude, I thought you said you would stop, why haven't you yet?" or something along those lines. Sometimes when people get used to saying stuff and doing stuff, they need a...reminder that they said they would stop.
3. If he still hasn't stopped, I would tell a teacher and explain everything in a calm and mature manner. Sometimes no matter what you do, an adult needs to handle it...
I hoped I helped! ^^ I wish you the best of luck as well!
~Vera
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I know someone who said that they don't really "cut" but they use anything they find that's kind of sharp and scratch their skin until it's just kind of raw... but they don't make themselves bleed, they get to the point right before they would bleed. They said they feel depressed but don't tell people that because they want to make everyone happy... and they just like having the marks on them and keeping it a secret.
Yes, that is cutting...but I guess it just depends on people's opinion on what really "cutting themselves" is. I knew a girl who would do that too, just so that she can get it out of her system, but it wouldn't leave scars in the long run. That way they won't get in trouble or something.
But sense they are doing that to themselves, you really need to tell a trusted adult...like your parents or someone cause they really need help. If you need anymore advice on what to do, feel free to leave me your email address on the comment thingy
I wish you the best of luck and I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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Sorry for the length, but thanks in advance to anyone who answers.
Here's some background info: This year, they spilt up the districts for the school that I go to. They sent half of them, which includes three of my best frineds since first grade, to the new school & the other half, which includes me & my other best friend (Nicole) since fifth grade. & at the new school, my best friend since fifth grade's boyfriend, Kyle, is also there. They've been going out for a year & for some reason think they're going to get married. & this whole week, Nicole's been acting sad & refused to tell me why.
So, I came home yesterday & Nicole called me saying that she needed to talk to me. I was all prepared for her to say her & Kyle broke up, & I was ready to go drive over to her house to comfort her. But then she says, "My parents transferred me." I started crying as soon as I realized what she was talking about. The thing is, when one of my friends asked her if it was her decision, she said yes. Then she told me it was all her parents decision. I haven't yelled at her or anything that most people would do. I've just cried. First of all, I don't enjoy knowing that my best friend doesn't give a crap about me & just flat out ditched me without caring. She keeps bragging about how much fun the other school's going to be also. Second, she lied to me for a whole entire week & won't take the responsibility for anything. Third, she went & complained to one of my other "best friends" that she thought I was mad at her. Then, to make a long story short, the girl who she complained to calls me & yells at me for no reason. I guess it's cause she thought I was mad? Anyways, everytime I'd try to stick up for myself, she told me to shut up. So eventually, I just stopped talking. That's what shut up means, right? So then she starts telling me what a horrible friend I am for being upset & that Nicole is the only one who has the right to be upset. THEN, she tells me that I'm stupid for not talking. & that was after she had just told me to shut up. I'm pretty sure it's just because she wants another friend at her school & doesn't care if I get ditched. I have't stuck up for myself at all while the two of my friends have been telling me all of this crap & how horrible I am. On the other hand, one of my best friends is actually on my side, & trying to help me through everything. I just keep telling Nicole I'm not mad because I don't want to upset her, but I've been crying for about two days now.
My question is, well, what in the world is wrong with my "best friends?" Am I handling this the right way? Do I have a right to be upset?
Uhmm, sweetie, you aren't the one being a bad friend here, she is. A true friend doesn't do that to someone they care about, including a "best friend", you do have a right to be upset. But seeing as you had tried to talk to her, my advice is to just stop hanging out with her, and be the the best friend that has helped you and has taken your side. Of course, that doesn't mean just hang out with her, hang out with all the girls, just not Nicole.
If she comes up to you, or lies again, just explain calmly that she has been a bad friend, and if she tells you to shut up, don't take it. Sometimes you can't do anything about someone when they are hurting you that bad and they don't seem to care. I've been having similar happen to my best friend.
What Nicole is doing, it may hurt, but just keep telling yourself this. It isn't your fault, and you aren't being a bad friend. She is the one being a bad friend. I don't know what is wrong with her, except that maybe she is upset about moving. You could ask her this, but just don't let her push you around, that is just wrong of her.
I wish you the best of luck, and if you need anymore help, just tell me your email in the comment thing, and I'll be glad to help you some more. I hoped I helped! =D
~Vera
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Alright, well I liked this guy, lets call him Bob.
I liked Bob from like September.
He didn't like me at first but he started to, I can tell.
And we've had a thing for a while.
Nothing much, just hanging out like every weekend and stuff.
Well now, like I don't think I like him anymore because it's been like four and a half months and nothing has happened like he hasn't like asked me out yet.
But I think he was going to two weeks ago, when I was at a friends house.
Because he was like "Hey, we should talk about something."
And I said "I have to go to the bathroom, hold on"
And when I got back out, I said "It's getting pretty late, you should probably go so she doesn't get in trouble for having you over so late"
(It was like three in the morning)
And we didn't hang out last weekend.
So like I don't know what to do.
Because like when I'm not with him, I feel like I like him, but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me.
But I don't know if he bugs me because I just want him to ask me, or if he annoys me.
How do I tell if I like him?
Or like what should I do if he does ask me out?
Should I just tell him like exactly what I said here?
I'm to scared to do that though.
I don't know.
If it is needed, 15/f.
"but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me."
When anyone bugs you, you mostly get annoyed :p That is how it is with many people. And if it has been this long, and he hasn't said anything but he knows you want him to, it's safe.
But if you want to be sure, just close your eyes, yes, do it after you finished reading this, and imagine you two are going out and you two are together, seeing each other, and he is being him and notice all your feelings. Do you feel happy, or annoyed or bugged? If you are annoyed or bugged, I think you may know that it is just a crush or something...
And if he asks you out, just say that you do really like him, but you don't think it will work out. And tell him the truth, that is the greatest thing one can do in this world...^^ and just say whatever your heart feels
Hoped I helped, and good luck!
~Vera
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13/f
i have to wear panty liners EVERYDAY.
and its so annoying...
is there anyway to stop discharge..?
besides going to the gyno?
and with out parents help?
No, there isn't anyway ^^ that's the bad news. Good news is, I do too XD Don't worry. But you shouldn't wear them every single day, cause that is bad you, least give yourself a day without one, or don't sleep without underwear ^^
Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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13/f
well ive only half wayed finger myself
im scared im going to cut my uterus if i do
and also..
im not thinkin about sex
im just asking...
when the guy pops your cherry...
does blood come out right away?
or later?
^^ It depends on if a girl bleeds or not, because the uterus can be broken easily. Like if you play sports, it can be broken that way. So it depends on if you bleed or not. I guess it all depends on when and what not...
Hoped I helped ^^
~Vera
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Well basically...
In the last 2 maybe 3 weeks Ive been suffering with various aches and pains, such as
-Headache,
Nausea,
Dizziness and
Chest Pains...
Also other little aches & pains like across the top of my eyes.
But worst of all, Im ALWAYS dehydrated. And often feel sick after eating, and I dont eat more than I should, I eat just under what I should eat, as I can only eat a small amount until Im full up.
I cant figure out what it could be, and it usually only occurs towards night time, however the sickness and dehydration is constant.
I get plenty of sleep so it cant be sleep related.
So Im really stuck for what it could be.
Someone suggested I get tested for Diabetes, but noone in my family has ever suffered it, and I would expect my pains to be more severe for something like this...
So basically, does anyone know what all these symptoms could be tied too? I dont want diagnosing as such, I just want possibilities. Thank You!
Yeah, go see a doctor...but that same thing happened to me, and I can connect some things, so that you can talk to your doctor about it..and all
Headache could be from not eatting, and so can the dizziness, because the body needs energy and when it doesn't have any...it just does that...
What I had when that happened was I ended up having a gallbladder issue...which means you could need your gallbladder out...but it is a possibility...another one is a illness but I can't rememeber the name, but it is about how your body disgests and you can't eat certain foods...
Hoped I helped! Good luck!
~Vera
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I'm in high school, 15/f, a freshmen and it seems like everyone in my school besides me drinks and does drugs. I will NEVER drink or do drugs because it ruins your life...but at lunch one day, my friends were all talking about how they went to one of my friends house, let's call her A, and how A's mom was home and they still got away with drinking vodlka and beer and getting crunk together. Only one of my friends had a sip of vodkla and nothing else at the party but all of the sudden I was sooo mad. The day before the party, my friend who only had a sip of vodlka [lets call her F] was like, to A, "yeah, I'll have a drink, and I'll get close to drunk." and A was like, "F! I am sooooo proud of you! You don't know how proud I am of you that you are going to get drunkk!" and I got sooo mad at that I just bursted out and said to A, "Why is that something to be proud of?!" and A was like, "Because F swore off everything remotley related to drinking and drugs, so I am sooo proud of her that she even said that right now." and I was like, "well, I'm not going to drink and I'm not doing drugs." and everyone at the lunch table just looked at me except for my other friend, lets call her S, agreed with me. Then I didn't go to A's party and Monday I heard some pretty bad stories like of the people getting drunk and how they got it all on video...it like made me mad.
I'm mad, and I thought higher of my friends and now they all think I'm a loser, except for F and S, because I don't want to drink and do drugs. What should I do? any comments will be greatly appreciated and thanks ot all of you who read all of that because I know it was confusing and long.
Hell yes! Go you! XD Stood up to the peeps! I'm so proud as well ^-^ You deserve a cookie!! No!! 3 cookies *hands them over* Don't you dare give in! This is one battle you can't loose, trust me. Let your "friends" (Lovely friends...
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Okay well I'm 13/f and I want to get the kind of contact lenses that can change my eye colour and all that stuff.
1.How much would they be ?
2.Am I old enough to use them ?
3.Are there any long/short term effects to wearing them ?
Aloha!! =D
Well, I'm 15 and I wear contacts lenses and let me tell you, I'm quite madly in love with them. And it depends on where you live and who your eye doctor is and how much he charges for the price ^^
2. ^^ Yes, you are old enough XD but it depends with some people with age...I got mine when I was 11 or 12...I think
3. Not really...that I know of...I know that if you where contacts I think your pupil changes shape...but that I'm not quite sure of...anyway, at first, you might see that you might get a bit sick (like stomache) because you are used to glasses and what not. And you would need to not sleep in them that much, unless you get the contacts that you can sleep in...
Which reminds me I need to take my right contact out...XD That was random
Good luck!!! Hoped I helped ;)
~Vera
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im thinking alot about getting a nose job, does it hurt??? please just answer if you've been through it , i'd rather people who are very likely to feel pain with simple things as vaccines or piercings to answer please hahah cause im really scared i know tha through the proccess you might not feel pain but thats because of the anesthesia, but after your done with the surgery??? does it hurt??? please i need to know cause of course you ask someone personally and they said of course it doesnt hurt:P but sometimes they just do it cause they're ashamed of telling that it did hurt hjahahahaha please answer
Ok, so, I do feel pain...and I know for a fact that my brother had to get something done on his nose (only cause he broke it so many and they had to go and re break it and stuff like that) Yeah, it hurts...any major surgery (that involves anesthesia, or any sleeping thing) will give you pain after surgery. But it depends...some people who have a high tolerence for pain might feel little pain or non at all, while others who feel pain very easy might feel like they were hit with a frying pan in the nose over and over and over etc etc.
Most surgery, you will have after math pain. How much though depends on the surgery...I had my gallbladder removed, and I was in pain for longer than a week...but that's because it was my stomach...
Anyway, I remember reading about a girl who got a nose job and she said that her nose was really swollen and it hurt really bad, and she ate pudding and things like that through a straw...but I can't remember everything it said, but I do remember it saying she was in pain. But she was glad she did it because her nose gave her problems, self esteem, and health issues with breathing and everything...
Hope I helped, and good luck. Remember...getting a nose job for wrong reasons, won't help you all the time...there will always be something wrong with something with your body. And some of your flaws, might be the thing that makes you beautiful.
~Vera
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I've always had this thing for this guy, we'll call him Q. q was my BEST friend in 5th grade, but after that he didn't really give a shit about me in 6th and barely in 7th. And in 5th grade, he asked me out and he really liked me as did I but I don't know, I never really answered, and I wish I had said yes. I'm in 8th now, and he's in all my core classes, and I really feel like I'm falling hard. I feel sad now that it's break for me and I won't get to see him for a while, and I'm not allowed to hang with guys (or go out with them) but for him I'd definitely sneak a relationship because I'm liking him more than I've ever liked him before. But there's a problem.
I CANNOT ask him out, forget about it.
You see, Q is a total conformist, always with his friends, who are always obsessed with this girl, we'll call her D. D just recently left this group of used to be popular, slut/bitches, and joined my group of friends, and me and her are like absolutely tight. She's in all my classes too, and Q is always grabbing her and stuff, and she experiences this alot because
a) she's an idiot
b) shes done things with a 9th grader who takes advantage of her
c) shes so skinny and pretty and has awesome hair
Whenever Q obsesses over her, I get really jealous because she's so like, popular, and I really like Q and it makes me sad to think about it because he's chatted up a lot of girls online which makes him a total operator, except I really feel like he might like me, and he hasn't had a girlfriend since 6th grade, so I don't think he would take advantage of me because every guy knows I'm not an idiot. But what can I do to get him to notice me? I guess I have an okay body, but I'm trying to lose weight. What makes guys notice girls? Most people think I'm funny, I have a lot of friends, I'm outgoing, I'm relaxed, I don't get mad easily, I know how to have fun, I have a lot of friends, I'm tall, and have brown eyes and brown hair. I don't know what else to do because I always feel like we both know we like each other but he's probably too much of a conformist to ask me out. Everyone says I have a great personality that's hard to find in my town and I just don't know what to do! Should I work harder on getting a better body? I'm not the crazy flirting type. But what will catch his eye?
Ok,...this may sound rude of me, but hey, that's me. Why in the world do you want to go out with a man hoe? I know he may be amazing and whatnot, but a guy like that doesn't seem like someone people want to go out with.
Some guys (and I know this because I have many guy friends...and they tell me things like this, for some odd reason...XD) just don't like certain girls, and sometimes they don't like it when a girl tries too hard...but hey.
What you can do to get his eye (though I wouldn't try...sometimes that helps XD) is just say hey to him during your classes that you have together, and ask how his break was and what not. Just be cool, you know? Be yourself, if he doesn't like you, then screw him...
If you want to lose weight...to be healthy, then just drink a lot of water, eat healthy, eat fruits and veggies and maybe run 20 mins a day...oh! Pick up a 17 and Cosmo Girl! mag =D I can't remember which one, but one of them has a really good work out thing...and you can just turn on your music one day and just dance around, get your heart beat up. All that
Hope I helped, and I wish you luck! Remember, if a guy can't see how cool you are, then he just isn't worth it...
~Vera
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I heard a song on the radio today and I really liked it, but I searched on Google and everything and I can't find what it is.
The singer sounds like Nickelback, but I guess it's not because I looked at all their lyrics and it doesn't have it.
The song says "Ayo" a lot, and it's somewhat up beat, but still rock.
Does anyone know what song I'm talking about? Thank you.
Hello XD I don't know what song you are talking about, sadly...though I think I heard a song like that...that doesn't help you. Anyway!!
^^ If you remember what radio station it was, and around what time, you could go to their website...some radio sites will tell you what songs they had played and stuff...
Other than that...that is all I have...^^; I know it ain't much...but hey, it's better than nothing
Hope I helped, and I wish you luck figuring out what song it was! =D
~Vera
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i rly love this site but when there aren't any new posts i get impatient. Are there any other advice sites like this that I can go on whenever I'm waiting for new posts?
Well, you need to remember that the people on this site that give you post on your questions, are real people and have a life...or school could be it.
To answer your other question, I haven't been able to find any other sites sorta like this...it's why I became a member here, cause the advice was really good and I got a reply atleast by the next day...
...but I did find this link things that said the top teen advice sites http://www.toptenlinks.com/cat.php/Family:Teens:Advice
But remember...teens might be the only people giving advice...while here, you can have people of any age answer, which is good...^^
Hoped I helped
~Vera
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