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what is going on?
Alright, well I liked this guy, lets call him Bob.
I liked Bob from like September.
He didn't like me at first but he started to, I can tell.
And we've had a thing for a while.
Nothing much, just hanging out like every weekend and stuff.
Well now, like I don't think I like him anymore because it's been like four and a half months and nothing has happened like he hasn't like asked me out yet.
But I think he was going to two weeks ago, when I was at a friends house.
Because he was like "Hey, we should talk about something."
And I said "I have to go to the bathroom, hold on"
And when I got back out, I said "It's getting pretty late, you should probably go so she doesn't get in trouble for having you over so late"
(It was like three in the morning)
And we didn't hang out last weekend.
So like I don't know what to do.
Because like when I'm not with him, I feel like I like him, but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me.
But I don't know if he bugs me because I just want him to ask me, or if he annoys me.
How do I tell if I like him?
Or like what should I do if he does ask me out?
Should I just tell him like exactly what I said here?
I'm to scared to do that though.
I don't know.
If it is needed, 15/f.
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"but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me."
When anyone bugs you, you mostly get annoyed :p That is how it is with many people. And if it has been this long, and he hasn't said anything but he knows you want him to, it's safe.
But if you want to be sure, just close your eyes, yes, do it after you finished reading this, and imagine you two are going out and you two are together, seeing each other, and he is being him and notice all your feelings. Do you feel happy, or annoyed or bugged? If you are annoyed or bugged, I think you may know that it is just a crush or something...
And if he asks you out, just say that you do really like him, but you don't think it will work out. And tell him the truth, that is the greatest thing one can do in this world...^^ and just say whatever your heart feels
Hoped I helped, and good luck!
~Vera
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well what your saying kinda seems like its the fact that you want a boy friend, but not him...
if he annoys you in person but you want him when your not with him then it wouldnt make a good relationship because you will constantily have the thought of breaking up with him in your mind.
just wait a little, the right guy will come around and he'll make you feel good whether your with him or not.
hope i helped
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