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Should I....confess?
Ok,I'm a 14/F and I've liked this boy for already about 8 months now.ever since Setepmber I've noticed that he kept looking at me from far away and staring at me during class.
Ever since January began this girl over heard one of my friends telling one of her friends.((she's my friend too but she did'ent know I liked the guy))
Well when she heard my friend,uh,lets call her Cathy.Well she went over to Cathy and told her that she was gonna do something nice for me.((Which I knew both cathy and the other girl,lets call her Lucy, were gonna try and hook me up with my crush))
Well, last thursday, Lucy asked my crush if he liked me and supposedly said no that he did'ent like me in that sort of way.Cathy did'ent tell me until friday in the morning because thursday I left early because I did'ent feel so good.
And yea, I cried,but I have this feeling that maybe he lied.I mean,some person that you only know his or her name and hardly ever talk to,they come up to you and ask you who do you like?Would you tell them up staright?I mean thats a mistake if you just tell some you hardly know and tell them you like this girl or this guy,you know what I mean?
So yea,I have a feeling he must've lied.Because also on friday during my 2nd period class,A girl,uh,Molly asked me if I liked my crush.I told her straight up no because I don't trust her and her some reason I hate her((I still don't know why))but also because of the same reason I just said.
Anyways,I'm thinking that maybe I should confess to my crush this week just to see if what he told Lucy was the truth cause now i'm really confused,he gave lots of signs saying that 'Yea,I like you too.'So,do you think what I'm doing is good?Or should I just leave things the way they are?Even if I do confess and get rejected I at least want to be his friend because i don't think it's right just to stop talking to him just cause he did'ent like me back.Also, he still keeps staring at me after all this of him supposdly saying no that he dos'ent like me.
Cathy says I should ignore him,but it's soo hard!
I can't ignore him cause he's a really nice guy and a funny friend.
So,should i,or not confess...?I'm really confused of all this((even if there are some people reading this it may not seem confusing))
((I'm sooooo sorry it's long!!!))
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TELL HIM!
i'm pretty sure he lied.
if you get a feeling he likes you, he probably does.
i wouldn't just tell some random person who i like,
and i think thats why he didn't.
take a chance (:
good luck.
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You should deffentely tell him becuase when the person i like friends ask me if i like that person i usually will say no becuase i dont want everbody to know.
I just want that person to know.
So you should just write him a note (even though it might seem cheesy) he will probably think its cute. I know i would.
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long questions = more info and easier to follow. dont worry bout it.
anyways, i think you should so tell him. cause your totally right. i wouldnt tell anyone i liked someone, even if i DID know them! but yeah, and if he doesnt like you, you can still be good friend. i mean, im in love with one of my best guy friends and he knows and we're still hanging out and stuff.
but yeah, hope it all works out. take care. :)
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