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why are they so judgemental?
This one girl who sits next to me always says "you wear pink alot." and so I always go, "you wear black alot, but I don't say anything." I don't understand what she makes these comments. I guess shes kinda weird, but I don't say anything mean to her or anything. I'm not annoying, and I'm not always saying oh my god!!! I'm not like that. I'm nice, I smile alot. But, whatever. Anyways, the other day I take out a pink pen to write something. She goes, "I hate the color pink." So I said, "I think I've figured that out by now." So then I decided to ask why, its just a color, why do you care. So, then this boy who shes friends with is like, "You're a typical high school girl." And I go "what?" he rolls his eyes at me and turns around. So then I freaked out and started fighting with them.
I've never hardly ever talked to this girl before. I don't get it, why does she and her friends seem to have a problem with me and other 'typical high school girls' i'm not really bad or anything, or not enough to get around school or for it to be much of a big deal. I or anyone else I know has a problem with her friends, they don't talk about them or anything. Why are these people always feeling bad for themselves? what do they have against me and people who are like me?
I don't get it.
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Seriously girl, don't stoop down to waste your time with those people.
They have such low self esteem and exactly picture you as the cool pretty popular airhead in pink, that's their definition of typical high school girls. They think that your too proud, you think highly of yourself, you see that your better than her and that friend of her. Seriously, didn't you see the movie legally blonde or i don't, Mean Girls, you know all that shit lame kindergarden ideas people have that the school is divided into the popular airheads and people like that girl whose annoying you.
So she sees you that way, and that's her idea and her friend's to stand up for themselves and like mock you and tell you that they are better than you and stuff. And don't you dare waste your time to think how you could prove them wrong, because that's just a serious kindergarden shit.
Girl don't waste your time with them and don't even give her a chance to bother you, let her talk shit on her own, and don't even shoot a come back or look her way.
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Okay, so i think that these people are just bored and look at making fun of people as something to do. Don't care. The reason these people do this, its becuase they can. If your bothered by it it gives them more of a reason to. I think that if you just ignore them everything will turn out to be okay. If she wants to make som smarty comment about pink just reply by saying nicely, "Good for you." Don't waste your time fighting with someone over a color! Your both wrong in this situation. Be the bigger person and well...GROW UP! If they want to act like children let them but let them know that you don't want to be part of that. These people, obviously, are just looking for trouble so don't give it to them. Summer is here and hopefully you won't have them in any of your classes next year!
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Forget about them. It doesn't matter what they think about colors. They where alot of black and people like that don't like the color pink. I wear pink and I also wear black. I honestly don't like the color pink, its seems girly to me but I'm not very girly so that part is obvious. I do wear pink though because I just like wearing it. People have their own opinions. So ignore them and forget about what they say. People like that need to grow up.
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Most people like trying to bother people...so if they keep doing that, just tell them that you like the color pink ^^ Some people like pink, others don't! It is as simple as that.
Tell them that, but if they keep bothering you, I would look at them and go "Yes, I like pink. Do you have an issue with that?" If they keep giving you crap about it, just shrug them off. I'm in love with the color green, some people hate it. And I love black, and people think I'm such a goth girl cause I do.
I know this may upset you when I say this, but you shouldn't let it get to you. Though I can't talk, some things get to me so easily. But if these people aren't your friends, you shouldn't care what they think about colors that you like. Also, if they think you are preppy cause you like pink, it pretty much shows that they really don't know you...people think I'm preppy cause on some days I wear something that preps where. But that people judge way too much...plus, it helps you learn that you shouldn't judge people since you have been judged before! =3
Good luck! Hoped I helped! ^^
~Vera
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its highschool. simple as that.
i wear a lot of black, and i usually dont talk to girls that wear a lot of pink. usually kids that wear black HATE the color pink, so they like to point it out, as if it wasnt obvious enough. and when he called you a typical highschool girl, he means you're a prep..and people like them just hate preps and thats the way they are.
just breathe easy. its not your fault. just ignore them. they obviously still have some growing up to do....i guess i do too. hehe...
take care! :)
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