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The girl I like just got in a really weird relationship
I met this girl through a mutual friend and we have been communicating online and texting (I don't move to her town until this summer). I know she likes me too. Her ex boyfriend assaulted some dude recently and actually got sentenced to 2 years in jail today. Also today, I see that they got back together. How can they be a relationship if he's going to jail? Would this potentially mean that I still have a shot with her? I'm hoping that maybe she is just freaking out about one of her best friends going to jail and said she'd get back together with him, but nothing will happen once she actually realizes that he'll be gone for 2 years.
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ok well like i always say the heart want the heart wants! so you talk to her and you feel for her and she feels for you right? then he ex gets locked up, but she gets back with him,im gonna tell you why, its probably because he is her first love... let me tell you girls will do every thing and anything stupid when it comes to their first love... what you need to do is tell her what you think about it and let her know that you care for her and then she will realize what a goood guy you are. but you have to let her know that you cant wait for her forever because then she uses you as her safty net. and then in the long run you geet screwed. so your best bet is to put yourself out there and hope that she falls in your arms like the perfect love story ...lol if that doesnt happen then im sorry for that but then all you have to do is try to move on. im sure that there are plenty of girls in that town.
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O-kay... Look, I don't know what's going on with this girl... And if you don't either, it's probably best just to ask.
But, but, but... If she really is back with this dude, for any other reason excluding temporary insanity, me-thinks this may not be the right girlie for you.
My thoughts are this... (By the way, I remember some of your previous questions. I have an upgraded account so I can do that... But don't freak out or anything because you're still 100% anonymous.) Anyway... You mentioned before that this girl (I'm assuming it's the same one) has been in a lot of awful relationships. Are you noticing a pattern here? Because I think I'm noticing a pattern. What I'm getting at is... Dude, she might have some emotional/relationship issues that she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship. Until she does, I don't really think you should... Um... Pursue her.
I think I answered one of your questions before... And I said 'go for it' or something to that affect. I was hoping that she'd come to her senses... Giving her the benefit of the doubt, what have you... But now... I'm just not so sure. I mean, DUDE, he's going to prison.
I could be wrong... But it's a thought. So... Think about it. I'm pretty sure that's not what you wanted to hear... Sorry. But I'm beginning to get a wee-bit concerned.
Best wishes!
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WOW! I bet that was a shocker.
If you are communicating with her ask her what is up. You may find out she is feeling obligated to 'be there' for him. Or maybe she likes being part of his drama ... if so, that will pass soon.
Also - if you are going by her myspace or facebook as 'back together', don't believe it until you talk with her.
Yes definitely ... If he is gone 2 years, you have a shot. Even if he wasn't gone, it looks like you have a shot.
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well one of the reasons shes back with him is because she may think its attractive..she may like the bad boy look and brag to her friends that her bf is a bad ass and is in prison for beating someone up she may feel safe that way...if shes young like under 18 or 19 then im sure thats the reason but im sure shes not going to b good and stay faithful to him..i mean hes in prison how can that work out?but do you wnat to get involved with that?if you go after her he may go after you is she worth it?just think about that and hope it helped
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