I'm Melanie. I'm 18 and I don't know what else to write.
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Location: Baton Rouge, LA
Age: 18
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My upper back has been bothering me for a while now. I'm on cheerleading so tumbling and pulling scorps really bring out the pain. When the pain gets worse I can barley tumble.It hurts more of my upper back.
It usually feels like tense and it always needs to be cracked..sometimes around my left shoulder blade I feel a pull. I've went to my doctor and she didn't know what it was.
I mentioned something to my tumbling instructor how it always feels like it needs to crack in between my shoulder blades, he thought I could have Scoliosis..My right shoulder does feel kind of higher then my left. It's strange, what should i do? do you think a "TruFit black backbrace" could help?? (link)
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I recommend seeing a chiropractor. It sounds like your back in out of wack. A chiro can straighten your back out so that your shoulders are even again, plus if your back is straight..it will help with the pain.
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What is the difference beetween gel nails and acrylic nails? Which one is better *lasts longer, looks prettier, which one is worth my $*
Thanks! (link)
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Gel nails tend to cost more, but they are definitely worth the money. They are stronger and shinier and it's only a few dollars more.
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what is the sexiest thing a girl can wear without looking REALLY slutty? (link)
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From what I hear from my guy friends, the sexiest thing about a girl is her confidence. If you are confident in yourself, they think that's sexy.
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hi i am a 14/f who weighs about 200 i am about 5'5
what should my appropriate weight be for my height?
also what exercises would be good
running isn't the best for me because my neighborhood isn't so safe :)
thank you!!
-keisha lynn (link)
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This is the easiest way to determine ideal weight for your height.
For every 5 feet, you should weigh 100.
For every inch after 5 feet, you should add 5 lbs.
So at 5'5, you should around 125. That would be IDEAL weight, which basically means that you aren't overweight at all.
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If your mother has large breasts,
will you be given large breasts?
Same with small obviously.
Because, i've heard that a lot.
Please help ! (link)
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It's not just your mother's genetics that matter. If the women on your mother's side of the family has large breasts, but the women on your father's side has small breasts, then you can't be positive on what you'll be.
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I DONT UNDERSTAND..!
Im 15, female and a virgin
My last bf dumped me party because i told him that he cant just expect sex from a virgin after a month of seeing each other..
so he saw he wasnt going to get any anytime soon
cept i was thinking about it..like If he had waited i would have, even if it was just a week
And now i fel like Im ready for sex, infact almost desperate for it [?!]
BUT.. I cant think of anyone that I would rather start with than him.. I think about it everynight like 'Oh i could be with him right now' but I think i know that I dont proper LOVE him
And well we were at a beach party together the other week, and after about 5 weeks of not speaking a word to him we were sitting together like old times, BUT i had to go to my friends birthday party at 10pm , soon after i was sat with him, and well i was a bit drunk but he hadnt touched a drop, but we kissed.. I was soo happy i was lik flying, because i never thought it would happen again.
Anyway, the point is that If Id have stayed at the beach party i would probably, definately not be a virgin in the morning, which Im still trying to decide is a good thing or not, because most of my friends are saying that it was just a one-off, and it would have been a one-night stand..which could be true, and also a bit crap for my first time having sex..
But a tiny part of me is saying that we would have made up and would be going out again, and sex was just the fun part of it..
And now i look at every boy as a potential to lose my V with..
I dont understand..why do i feel like this? and him ? and why do i want sex ?
thankyou xx (link)
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You probably feel this way because you are hurt that he dumped you and you might possibly be thinking that having sex with him could save your relationship with him.
My opinion is that you shouldn't do it. If he broke up with you because you wouldn't sleep with him, then that's probably all he wants and you'll end up hurt in the end. You might end up regretting it when you're older because a part of you thinks that you shouldn't do it. You should only have sex when you are 100% sure you want to and that you won't regret it.
If you are that horny, then you should just try masturbation. It's perfectly normal and it will at least give you extra time to consider what you should do. No one can tell you what to do or what you should want to do. Just don't rush into this kind of decision.
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Alright, so my name showed up on my iTunes and my iPod is plugged in, but all of my old songs show up. On the library, I have the old songs plus the new songs that I added but when I click update, my new songs won't update. I think I need to delete something .. can you help one last time? (link)
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Try adding the new songs manually, instead of automatically. I'm not sure if that's how you're doing it or not, but that's the only thing that I can think of. Go to File, Add file to library.
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If I install the newest version of iTunes, will it work with my video iPod since I got it a year and half ago? (link)
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It should. I have the first generation Video Ipod and thew newest version of Itunes works on mine.
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I re-booted my computer and of course my iTunes was gone and all of my songs, but I saved them and put them back onto my library.
Now everytime that I plug my iPod in, nothing happens. It doesn't even say my name and I can't update because it says my iPod isn't connected.
How can I fix this? Thank you so much. (link)
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http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=93716
Try going there and restarting your Ipod service. I had the same problem. My video Ipod was connected to the computer, but it wasn't showing up on Itunes.
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I want to know if i'm a mean girlfriend. Some people tell me I am. But my boyfriend says im not. The other people tell me im mean because I hit my boyfriend all the time. But im only playing around when I do it. Sometimes I will call him a bitch and other names like gay. But like I said im only playing around. I really want to know if Im mean. Because I don't want to lose him. So am I a mean girlfriend? (link)
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Okay. So I do the same thing to my boyfriend, but he knows I'm just playing with him and apparently it's not that big of a deal because we've been together for a year. As long as you don't take it too far and you aren't too rude with calling him names, it should be okay. If he doesn't have a problem with it, then it doesn't matter what other people think.
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my mom is convinced that diet soda is fine to drink but i heard if you're on a diet or trying to loose weight then even diet soda is bad for you. is this true? (link)
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Actually diet soda has salt in it, which can make you retain weight instead of losing it.
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if i made a dildo out of clay(im underage, crafty and horny), so if i made one out of clay would that be safe to use? (link)
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If you put a condom on it, then it might not be that bad...but it's definitely not a good idea to just put a clay dildo in your vagina.
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Ohhhh gosh. I don't know what to do! I've had my iPod Video for the past 1 and a half. And it has been driving me NUTS after like 7 months. It has been running out of battery the day that I charge it. It sometimes froze, and un-froze only like 2 days after. I never dropped it or anything. And now.....the battery runs for like less than 4 hours, after one full charge. I am so serious...And the video part. It wastes my battery RIGHT AWAY! It has a memory of 30 GB and I only used 5 GB!
Would it be an iditotic thing to do...to buy a new iPod? Can anyone give me suggestions of a better mp3 player?
Thanks =]
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I have the first generation Ipod Video and mine works perfectly fine. The problem is you probably charged it too much so it won't hold a charge very well. All electronics are like that.
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Ok so you know how underneath your belly button theres like that fat? Its like a band of fat around the bottom of your stomach? How do you get rid of that? Do you know any exercises to get eliminate that? (link)
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The only thing that will really help that is doing lots of cardio. Start running everyday. It works out that little pooch, but it also helps with other parts of your body. Your stomach is never going to be completely flat. Girls are supposed to have a little extra fat there because it's extra room to support a child, but running will get you close. Also you could try pilates. It really tones your body as well.
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I'm going to buy my daughter a car for her 16th birthday. I want to get her something quick, sporty, newer but used, that is 15,000 or under. What are your suggestions.
[no ford or dodge products] (link)
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I'd say try a Scion TC. It's relatively inexpensive, especially if you get a used one. It's a cute car and it's quick and a very safe car.
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okay the whole having him lay down and me get on him, it doesn't work because my legs are too short. the only length i have in my body is my torso. i'm 5'2" and my boyfriend is taller but he's got a 7 1/2" penis, and since my legs are itty bitty, i can't seem to get up and down fast enough. he gets either bored watching me try to do something impossible for my size, or he starts to get turned off. and both are not good. :[ we do this thing where i am turned away from him and he wraps his legs around my hips and it seems to work better, but not much. ahh its bugging me. i'm leaving in 8 days for five months, and i want to leave him wanting a lot more.... :[[
help?
thank you to the people that answered the last one, but i need a little more. (link)
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Instead of having your weight on your knees while you are on top, try having your feet flat on the bed. It may make it easier for you to manuever and it might give you a little extra height.
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I was thinking today about how amazing it would be to be a ballerina..i've always admired how graceful and hardworking they are..i'm a very clumsy person but I know it's possible to become graceful and I'm passionate about music and dancing freely and feeling the music but I've never been enrolled in dance classes or anything like that before and my question is..what exactly is it like being a ballerina? is ballet worth all the time and effort? basically I just wanna know about it from anyone who has done it or knows somebody who has done it. thank you! (link)
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To be absolutely honest, 15 is a little late to start ballet if it's something that you want to do professionally. Most ballerinas start really early. I did ballet for over 15 years and I started at the age of 3. If it's just something that you want to try for fun then I say go for it. It's fun and it's an amazing workout.
It's very time consuming and it does take a lot of effort. I mean you'd be spending hours upon hours repeating the same steps,leaps,turns, positions, pointing your toes, turning out...until you finally get your technique perfect. It can be very hard and demanding on your body.
By the time I was 15, I was already dancing on pointe. My feet would bleed and blister. I had broken several toes. The length of a ballerina's career is very short and you'd be spending most of your dancing prime just learning things that many girls learned by the time they were 8.
I don't mean to be brutally honest, but that's how it is. It's an amazing art and if you are interested in it as a hobby, then you should definitely pursue it. It probably wouldn't happen as a career.
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A long time ago, I took these diet pills. I can't remember the name of them, but, they really helped supress my appetite. Then, they took the main ingredient out of all the pills known as "hoodia." Can anyone recommend some good diet pills that makes you not hungry? Thanks. (link)
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I'm not sure about diet pills, but I know a few other ways that might help. I have a horrible habit of snacking when I don't have anything else to do, so I eat ice chips. No calories and it makes you feel full for a while. Also, if you start feeling a little hungry...brush your teeth. It sounds weird, I know but it does help..plus your teeth will get nice and white. =] Green tea also helps speed up your metabolism.
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For my first car i want a fast car but it has to be automatic... I don't want it to be too expensive cuz ya know I'm not made out of money unfortunately =[... Got any idea's? I was thinking like a Mazda 6 obviously used but even that sounds a little pricey. None the less got any ideas? (link)
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The guy under me gave a great answer and I definitely recommend the 240sx. It's a nice car and it's fast. The only one I wouldn't really recommend is the RX-7. It's a nice car, but it has rotaries and they tend to require a lot of work, so it helps if you are mechanically inclined, and I didn't see you mention that. You can get a nice 240sx for relatively cheap, especially if you just want a stock model. There are a lot of online forums dedicated to 240's, so you should check to see if your city has one and you can check up on it there. It's much easier to find one. Let me know if you have any questions concerning the 240sx, if that's what you are interested in.
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I believe it's possible for me to get a right & left leg split by the end of summer (note my exlusion of the straddle split..hahaha) So..um..how should I go about it? I know I have to practice..but like..how often should I do it/do I hold or bounce/etcetc..
(ps gymnastics tryouts are on august 31!)ty in advance (link)
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I just wanted to let you know that bouncing is not a good idea. You can pull a muscle or otherwise hurt yourself. What the people underneath me said is good advice. Also, when you go to do a split, always remember to turn out and point your toes. It really will help. Also sitting in a straddle position and then reaching towards one foot and stretching and doing the same on the other leg will help as well.
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