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I want to know if I'm...
I want to know if i'm a mean girlfriend. Some people tell me I am. But my boyfriend says im not. The other people tell me im mean because I hit my boyfriend all the time. But im only playing around when I do it. Sometimes I will call him a bitch and other names like gay. But like I said im only playing around. I really want to know if Im mean. Because I don't want to lose him. So am I a mean girlfriend?
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If its your boyfriend you a worried about.
And he said your not being mean then whats the problem.
My experince,
I hit my boyfriends and i call them sluts it is our way of flirting well mine and yours it seems like and i have no problem with keeping my boyfriend.
Nothing to worrie about.
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Without seeing you two together it is kind of hard to say however, I am pretty certain that if the roles were reversed and he hit you and called you names all the time you would get pretty sick of it.
If you hit him in a playful way (without actually hurting him - this is often done as a way of showing affection) then he may not see this as a problem however if, when you hit him you do hurt him then it is safe to say that he will get fed up.
I suggest that you try to find other ways of showing your affection and let's be honest, the only way to find out if it bothers him is to ask him! That way when people see fit to pass judgement on your relationship you can tell them where to get off if he really isn't bothered by it.
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Okay. So I do the same thing to my boyfriend, but he knows I'm just playing with him and apparently it's not that big of a deal because we've been together for a year. As long as you don't take it too far and you aren't too rude with calling him names, it should be okay. If he doesn't have a problem with it, then it doesn't matter what other people think.
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not at all. but sometimes ur a bit rude. it's kind of sweet to hit a guy out of affection but too much hitting can make unpleasant impressions.. Never put a title to a person neither call him/her names. Think of it if he's the one who calls u bitch or whatever. Be gentle and you'll see a difference.
glad to help!
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That kind of stuff will run a guy away. Even though your just playing, he will probably get fed up with it. What if he did the same to you? Hit you, and called you a bitch? Even if he was just playing?
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