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Q: I started my second package of TriNessa birth control the other night (the white pills) and woke up around 4 am feeling nauseous and the same thing happened this morning as well. (which was my second night taking it)

Is this normal? Is it from the birth control?

This is normal. This is one of the side effects and its probably from the estrogen. But if you don't like the feeling go get switched to a different pill.

Q: ok, i/m turning 14 in like a few weeks.. and my mom wont let me go out w/ this guy i like alot... i liked him 4 like 4 months n now he stared to like ask me to go to the mall n stuff.... n then when i asked my mom she said yes.. and then me and my best friend n i got in a fight... n when me n my bff went to the mall w. a bunch of pple.. shes like.. u'r gunna get raped.. n i didnt get touched!!(only followed) but then shes like.. i would rather you and anthony(the guy) go together.. i trust him more then maddy (my best friend) soo yesterday he asked me to go bowling w/ him.. n i asked today.. n shes like.."sure you can, but i need to talk to his dad so i know that he's going too..." ITS SO EMBARISING!!! PLeaSe help..

I guess I missed the part where it was embarrassing....have you been watching the News? Girls have been gettin abducted a lot. She is scared for you. You should be happy that she cares for you like she does. All you have to do is ask his dad is he going, you were just wondering. It won't be emvarrassing to him. Trust me.

Q: I've been getting along with my parents. Well, at least before i started to have my own ideas and plans. We think differently;we have different points of view, priorities, which often leads to disappointments and argumenments. On the other hand, my older sister is a goodie goodie that never has a problem with my moms plans. I know that my mom favours her more and I think I know why, but yet I really want to change the relationship for the better. Its getting tough to talk to her now, and lately, shes been losing trust in me too. I mean, I am only 13. How can I live with that for the rest of my life if this stays like this?

Well it isn't going to stay like this. I went through the same thing ten years ago. Your first problem is that you think your mom is playing favorites. It may seem that way but it isn't. Try writing your mom letters, or going along with her plans some times. I know your 13 and you have your own life but you have many years to come. She is just trying to keep you out of harms way.

Q:

My boyfriend's penis size is around a 6.5, we use regular trojans.. I guess an average size, but they haven't been the best. Last time we had sex, he went to take it off and he had a dark ring around the bottom of his shaft.

I'm thinking we need to upgrade, but I'm not sure which type would be the best, not a condom as big as magnums, but bigger than average I guess.

Any suggestions? thank youu.

your gonna just have to try different kinds. everyone's penis is different so no one can really tell you what brand or type to get.

Q: i am with a guy that i am completely in love with and he is in love with me.we are going to have sex for the first time and i want to know what to exspect. does it and will it feel good the first time? will i be okay if i use the condom properly?
if it hurts what will make it hurt less.

everyone's first time is different. So there really isnt anything to tell you to expect. Yes you will be ok if the condom is used properly. Oh and also if it does hurt just relax.

Q: 15/f
throughout the day i discharge a relatively large amount, but i'm not really sure if it's a lot cause i don't know about other girls.

but what does discharge really do, and is too much bad?

discharge is your body keeping yout organd down there hydrated. That needs hydration just like the rest of your body too!!

Q: sometimes when we're making out he'll pick me up off the couch and put me on his lap and i was just kinda wondering is he getting hard? do all guys get boners? how will i know if hes getting one? thanks

most likely he is, yes all guys do, and you will most likely feel it. BUT IF YOU DONT KNOW THEN YOU REALLY AINT GOT ANY BUSINESS TRYING TO FIND OUT. sorry...

Q: when im having sex, should i moan? and whats a good way to have good fingering? and when giving oral should i suck and lick?

if you want to. whatever makes you feel better. And as far as the other part, do what you think feels right, or ask your partner what they like.

Q: Is it wrong to do sexual things with someone you are dating, but aren't going out with? Is that slutty? We've been dating for about a month and a half now. He is the only guy I'm seeing and I'm the only girl he's seeing.

And also if you're dating, are you considered to be in a relationship, or are you defined as single?

Thank you =)

it depends on your morals. If you dont think its slutty, then why care what anyone else thinks? your not sleeping with anyone else just him. As far as your relationship status, its whatever you and that guy consider it to be. If h wants to declare his self as single and you still want to see him and no one else just tell them your seeing some one.

Q: i'm 14, and i have this boyfriend, that is extremely rich. and christmas is coming up. and he is going to be getting me all these expensive things my friend told me, and i'm not at all rich. my single mom makes an average pay. so, whatever i get him i'm scared he's going to be like "oh, thanks." like as in a way like 'oh-i-could-buy-this-anytime-i-want' kind of way. so what should i get him, that would be nice. even if they are separate things. i just really don't know what to do. so if you any suggestions, ill be fully considered to them. thanks.

im pretty sure your botfriend knew you werent rich before you started dating him, and if he didnt then he knows now. He knows you cant get him anything like what he can get you. So just get him something you think he will like. he should love it just because you got it for him.

Q: this is kinda long, i suppose =P
okay, well last may i met this boy..he was like everything i could ever ask for. in june we got serious.. i really did love him. it was like a perfect relationship. at the end of july we broke up because his mom was kind of a lunatic and like tried to put him on house arrest. then middle of august we got back together and that was pretty good. then we broke up because it was the school year and we go to different schools and it was hard. then in february he got a girlfriend. they were completely in love. they lasted for like 7-8 months and then he broke up with her because she was a control freak. now, he is trying to get me back. and i mean i did love him and part of me still does.. but he did things before that made me not trust him. like he would always "talk" to other girls and it bugged me. i dont care if he is friends with girls, but he would tell them he likes them and siht. it buggged me. well now he wants me and he like poured his heart out to me. told me he was thinking about what we had and he knows he messed up but really wants to try it again, im thinking about it. and then i didnt know if i could deal with it again. then i decided to message him ex girlfriend and piss her off.. HAHA but she used to message me and like tell me all this stuff aboout their relationship and it bugged me, ha. but i go are you two together she goes no y i go because his friends told me he liked me and stuff, i lied to her by saying his friends bc i didnt knnow if they were talking or whatever..she goes yeah were talking i go like talking talking she goes yes so i texted him and flipped out and he otld me that they arent together and are only friends but she has the impression there like together basiscally. then today he said im the only person he wants to be with, he told her that there is no chance between them. and i dont know what to do. it seems like he really does care for me, but im confused because im afraid of getting hurt again. any advice? (:

If you are confused dont do it. you and him broke up several times over nonsense. why even put yourself back in that position?
the way you wrote this you made it seem like you are his last resor, and why wouls you wanna be that??

Q: ok so i'm planning to have sex on wednesday (3 days from now) but im way late on getting my birth control shot (depo-provera) and i plan to get my shot either tomorrow or on tuesday. I've heard that it's effective within 24 hours but does anyone know the details on that?... like does it matter when your period is or if its 23 hours instead of 24
Basically what im asking is if its ok for me to get the shot on tuesday after school and then have sex wednesday after school (but wednesday is a half day so it wouldnt be quite 24 hours) also im spotting right now if that makes a difference.

It is effective, but it is a slight chance that you could still get pregnant. Birth control isnt %100 percent if it isnt taken correctly. that means it must stay constant. you arent likely to get pregnant if you have sex the next day if you get the shot on tuesday if you have had the shot before because it actaully takes the shot 3 to 12 months to get completely out of your system. But it doesnt hurt to be safe and use a condom.

Q: i have this friend who is 2 years younger than me (i'm a senior in high school, she is a sophomore) and we constantly fight.. sometimes we'll go 2 weeks without it but other times it's every other day. she made a huge mistake in the past and she knows it and we haven't been the same since.. and now we try so hard to keep this relationship together. but so many times we question whether it's worth it. we try to take breaks or say we aren't friends but it never works because neither one of us can last without the other. but now she has admitted to knowing she's an awful friend to me and always has to confess to something. i'm so tired of being hurt by her and having to forgive her... and i really just want to say we shouldn't be friends and stick to it, but i know i can't stay strong to that. but how do i deal with this? how can i get her to finally realize what she is doing to me and to stop? thank you for any help

be her friend but do it at a distance. Dont try to be her best friend, just be her aquaintance.

Q: 16-female
turning 17 soon and wanting to throw a party for myself with only like 5 people and 2 of them being guys one my boyfriend and one my best friend the others are girls my age we are all about 16 years old & there isnt much to do we have gaming systems at my house lik 2xbox360s an xbox and a ps2 but one of the girls doesnt like video games cuz they are nerdy and what not so i dont know exactly what we can do besides go hottubbing in my hottub....its going to be sometime in december hopefully when its snowy.

Please helpout with ideas i dont really want to go out and do things i need indoor ideas!

thanks =D

Why dont you have a nice dinner? Then maybe play the video games? You cant always please everyone all the time. What about a bowling party?

Q: My doctor told me i have a slight yeast infection but she didnt tell me to treat it, and there is no pain or itching, will it go away on its own?
or should i just treat it just in case?

Answers are greatly appriciated. =]] thx

as long as you dont do anything to affect it it will. Sex or tight clothes, anything of that nature.

Q: 17/f

so 2 weekends ago i was at a party with my best friend "bob" and his close friend "joe." i had liked joe for a really long time but we were never really friends.. we had a few drinks and then hooked up that night but after a while he said that we had to stop because bob, our mutual friend was "in love with me." i didnt believe him at the time but then bob walked in on us and got really upset and mad.

i still hang out with bob, and bob and joe are still friends, but joe hasnt talked to me since. if i see him in the hallway he says "hi" but i think he either feels guilty for hooking up with me, or just regrets it because he was drunk and really doesnt like me.

i really want to talk to him and either be friends or more, but what should i say? it has been almost 2 weeks. he is pretty shy.

just give him time to get over it. He is probably guilty because he knew the other guy likes you. Give him another week and then try to start a conversation with him. Let him know its ok, and there is no need to be awkward.

Q: Does anyone know where i can watch (like on youtube or something) an interview either with current child beauty pageant contestants, thier parents, or ex- beauty pageant contestants (but only kids).

try youtube. they have links to everything else im pretty sure they have that!

Q: i used to be proud of my size down there as it was above 5.5 inches and i had read that was average.but my gf says its skinny (its 4 inches around) and doesnt get her off.she told me months ago and i have not slept since.help!

sorry it took so long to write back. leave her! what one girl isnt happy with another one will be.

Q: 16 f

I have stretch marks on my stomach and on my arms and on the back of my leggs the reason is because I once use to be overweight...its really uncomfortable to wear tank tops or skirts/ shorts because my stretch marks are noticible =/ does anyone know of any cream to remove stretch marks? Any home remedes? Sorry if I spelled the word wrong

cocoa butter supposedly works. they actually have some kind of product for stretch marks, and i think it is inexpensive.

Q: my boyfriend pointed out that one of my nipple is bigger then the other one...is that okay?

thanks for letting me know!

everyone has that problem, but no one never really notice it. one of your breast is naturally bigger than the other.

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Its A brand new year!! And I havent really been giving advice lately so now IM BACK!! If you have something to ask dont hesitate to ask. DONT BE SHY!! I've been there! Or I know someone who has!

I am a black albino female whose been through alot!!! I have a lot advice to give. Im a very knowledgeable person, and i look at things from many different views. Im very blunt, so if you dont want to hear it straight dont ask me!! any thing else you wanna know get at me!

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