i am with a guy that i am completely in love with and he is in love with me.we are going to have sex for the first time and i want to know what to exspect. does it and will it feel good the first time? will i be okay if i use the condom properly?
if it hurts what will make it hurt less.
GilbertMar answered Sunday November 23 2008, 12:01 pm: Condoms are not as effective as people count on them to be, they are suppose to be used along with something else from the female. You should both be on birth control of some type, or be willing to risk pregnancy. You are going into something that could dramatically change your lives. Would it hurt either of you to stop for a moment and learn about what you are going to do, instead of going in blind?
Your first time is what it is, you never know what it will be like, you want it to be something special, take the time to read everything you can get your hands on, both of you. If you are taking the time to plan your first time, plan it all, don't just say, here's the rubber, lets go. [ GilbertMar's advice column | Ask GilbertMar A Question ]
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