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going back to him.
this is kinda long, i suppose =P
okay, well last may i met this boy..he was like everything i could ever ask for. in june we got serious.. i really did love him. it was like a perfect relationship. at the end of july we broke up because his mom was kind of a lunatic and like tried to put him on house arrest. then middle of august we got back together and that was pretty good. then we broke up because it was the school year and we go to different schools and it was hard. then in february he got a girlfriend. they were completely in love. they lasted for like 7-8 months and then he broke up with her because she was a control freak. now, he is trying to get me back. and i mean i did love him and part of me still does.. but he did things before that made me not trust him. like he would always "talk" to other girls and it bugged me. i dont care if he is friends with girls, but he would tell them he likes them and siht. it buggged me. well now he wants me and he like poured his heart out to me. told me he was thinking about what we had and he knows he messed up but really wants to try it again, im thinking about it. and then i didnt know if i could deal with it again. then i decided to message him ex girlfriend and piss her off.. HAHA but she used to message me and like tell me all this stuff aboout their relationship and it bugged me, ha. but i go are you two together she goes no y i go because his friends told me he liked me and stuff, i lied to her by saying his friends bc i didnt knnow if they were talking or whatever..she goes yeah were talking i go like talking talking she goes yes so i texted him and flipped out and he otld me that they arent together and are only friends but she has the impression there like together basiscally. then today he said im the only person he wants to be with, he told her that there is no chance between them. and i dont know what to do. it seems like he really does care for me, but im confused because im afraid of getting hurt again. any advice? (:
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Trying to work issues with someone who you have been with on & off is supper hard........
not only are trust issues going to be hard to deal with BUT also are you willing on settling with someone that doesn't respect you......
Take this advice from someone who went through a very hard relationship and as hard as it was getting out I'm glad I did.........
When you date someone and they date others its hard to go back without doubts in your head, but it's all up to what you are willing on working with.............
Good Luck
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It seems like the relationship you had with him brings out the worst as far as your emotions go. You want to be with someone who brings out the best in you. I know from experience that different people can bring out different emotions and reactions in you. Your chemistry with someone else could make you want to be completely opposite. I would have to say that with the amount of drama that is already attached to this guy, it would be best to start fresh with someone else. You already don't know if you should trust him and your gut doesn't lie so you are probably right. Don't look at the time you spent with him as a reason to be his fool. That time you spent is what is considered "sunk cost" in economics, it means that you have already spent it and you cannot get it back. It cannot be reversed so don't worry about it. Move forward with your life, and then you can find real happiness with a guy and have that confidence in trusting him at the same time.
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If you are confused dont do it. you and him broke up several times over nonsense. why even put yourself back in that position?
the way you wrote this you made it seem like you are his last resor, and why wouls you wanna be that??
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