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I am a 27 year old female from Scotland. I have a lot of life experience and will do my best to answer any questions you have honestly.
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f/14- i go to a school that is from the grades 6th to 12th-well Im an 9th grader and so are my three friend-well friend #1 is dating an 11th grader who is messing around with friend #2's boyfriend who is an 10th grader the girls dont know but I found out cause I caught them making out in the game room at the movies- to make matters worse friend # 2 ( not a virgin) is having sex with friend #3's boyfriend who is an 11th grader in the locker room during practice ( again the only one to know)!well going behind friend #1 back friend #2's boyfriend came to her house after school one day and she told me that they made out in her pool and she gave him head well the school found out about this and getting revenge friend #1 messed around with Friend # 2 and 3's boy friend at a party last week-now to really make manners worse not knowing that friend # 3 was bi she and friend #2 had sex at my house when they thought I was sleep-I heard everything but didnt say anything- well now friend #2 says that she thinks that she is bi and that she want to break up with her boyfriend to get with friend #3-well anyway now friend # 1's boyfriend wants to stop messing around with friend # 1 and friend #2's boy friend and hock up with me he said that he was going to do it tommorow but Im friends with all of them and I dont want to be apart of this party anymore what do I do>>>>>
Turn this guy down!!! He has been with your other friends and may be aiming for the full set. Most importantly, he didn't treat either of your friends very well so it is unlikely that he would be any nicer to you.
As for your friends, tell them to stop trying to get revenge and playing the games that these guys are setting up. At the end of the day everyone needs their friends and they are going the right way about being very lonely.
At the end of the day they need to take a long hard look at their actions and realise that they can have some very very serious consequences (pregnancy and not knowing who the father is, STD's to mention just a few). Not only that but they are harming their reputation and once you earn this kind of reputation it is not an easy one to get rid off.
They are playing a dangerous game with one anothers emotions and if they don't quit it they will all be very very hurt.
As for you, I would be very careful who you call friends because if they can do this to one another there is nothing to stop them doing it to you.
Sorry to be so blunt but it's the way I see it.
ok, every time i shave under my armpits, i get painful bumps that last for at least a week after i shave. and my armpits get itchy and sore. also, now, it hurts when i try to shave. i don't understand why because i lather before i shave.
so how do i stop the bumps?
my razor is pretty old (like..6 months+), might that be the problem?
btw, this only happens on my armpits, not on my legs.
If the razor blade is 6+ months old then I think it is safe to say that you are really lucky that you havn't cut your self to pieces.
First of all, get yourself a nice new blade (don't use it anymore than twice - even if it is not a disposable razor, like bic or something), make sure that your skin is nice and wet and then lather on a shaving gel that is designed for sensitive skin. (Gillete for women do a good range) Lather it up really well and then you are ready to shave.
After shaving always moisturise - even under your arms as not only are you removing the hair you are also removing a couple of layers of skin at the same time.
And, just another little point - if the hair is very long, don't just try to shave it, trim it first as if you go straight in with the razor you will pull a lot of the hairs out (like tweezing) and that will hurt.
Oh, and its not a good idea to use deoderant/anti-perspirant that contains alcohol straight after shaving as it will irritate the skin. Soft & Gentle is a good anti-perspirant which doesn't contain alcohol and won't irritate your skin after shaving although I would still recommend that you leave it an hour or so before putting it on.
Hope this helped.
I'm 15 almost 16 and i just recently graduated early with honors, and got a few full ride scholorships ( I always did summer school to get ahead and online schooling). But the problem is Laila and Kennedy, my 3 month old twins. I love them and they are my pride and joy. But i'm going off to college and i'm going to be living with my older sister in her dorm because we are attending the same school, and i can't take Laila and Kennedy. My boyfriend doesn't want to take in the children because he is going to be a senior this year and just wants to PARTY. My mom loves the children, but i'm afraid she is going to convince my boyfriend to give up all custody and have the children put up for adoption behind my back, because she is like that. She loves them but she doesn't them to screw up my life. And they aren't. They are just a big speed bump.
Any advice on what i can do with Laila and Kennedy?
Like you say, the twins are a speed bump and although you may have been "caught out" so to speak you certainly seem to have taken your responsibility to them seriously by ensuring that you get a good education.
Moving on to your Mum, I cannot say with 100% certainty however I do know that in the UK BOTH parents must give up paternal/maternal rights (custody) to a child before they can be put up for adoption. Likewise, should your Mum decide that she was "unable to look after them" and ask Social Services to take them in to care, Social Services (in the UK at least) are bound by law to make every attempt to locate the Mother/Father and ask their permission.
In your circumstances I do not think that Social Services would take the twins away nor would they consider putting them up for adoption.
I would suggest that you visit your nearest Citizens Advice Bureau (I assume that you cannot afford to pay a Lawyer as you are so young). They often have lawyers who will give advice pro-bono or will be able to provide you with the legal information that you need. At least this way your mind will be at ease when you go off to college.
Let me know how you get on and if I can help with anything else.
I need some hair/makeup tips for the begging of school!
Okayy, I have very very light tanned skin, and i have little freckles on my face that aren't that noticable to some people but to me i can see them so well and a few zits. i have brown eyes and dirty blonde hair. my hair is always frizzy any products i can use? and what things could i use on my skin so the zits and everything aren't noticeable, and what eye shadow should a brown-eyed blonde use? Anything helps! i will send feedback!
First of all don't layer on loads of makeup - try to keep your look natural. As for your freckles try to embrace them but if you really really hate them make sure you use a sunscreen (even in winter) as this will help to stop them getting bigger.
I have very naturally curly hair which is prone to frizz and the best products that I have found are Frizz Ease by John Freida and Pantene (either sleek and smooth for straight hair or perfect curls to enhance curls or waves).
Most importantly, I have found that only brushing my hair when i have conditioner in it (once a day) helps to prevent frizz. Just make sure you use a good conditioner and perhaps a weekly intensive conditioner.
There are loads of things on the market that you can use for spots however, I have always found that distilled witchhazel (which you should be able to buy from any pharmacy) is very good. It dries spots out a lot quicker, reducing the redness and size of them. It should only be applied to the spot itself, not the surrounding area otherwise you will end up with dry skin - oh and use a cotton bud, not your fingers. It costs less than £1 here so I don't expect that it will be very expensive. A little word of warning - don't squeeze them - it just irritates them and can leave you with scars.
If you feel the need to cover up your spots choose a concealer which is one tone lighter than your skin colour then apply a small amount to the spot and spread using a cotton bud (try not to use your fingers as this will only introduce more bacteria to the spot). Maybelline do a good concealer called EverFresh Concealer.
On to eye makeup, slate blues, grays and plums (be careful that plum colours aren't too red or you may look like you have sore eyes) help to accentuate brown eyes. If you go on to google and type in "eye make up, brown eyes" you will find loads of sites that will tell you colours that will suit and suggetions of how to apply it.
I hope this helped.
I used a super absorbancy tampon and kept it in for about 6-7 hours and it started leaking a lot. When I tried to take it out, it hurt very badly!! But when I use a regular absorbancy tampon, it leaks after about 2 hours, but doesn't hurt to take out. What gives?
You shouldn't keep a tampon in until it starts to leak. Try changing it more often.
Perhaps you should go back to regular and wear a pantie liner incase you leak.
my boyfriend lives in El paso Texas...i live in washington we've been living in a long distance relationship for about 3 years now with alot of bumps..im 17. he doesnt want to get a job ever, hes addicted to playing a video game called diablo 2, sometimes i think i should just leave him find someone better, who can give me attention that i need. should i leave him? when i go home in september i fear that we'll break up because of all the bull that goes around in long distance alot of tears and heartache on my part. hes really sweet sometimes, and cares alot about me, i can honestly say im Still and always will be in love with this man. the games are too much. a little advice for a fool?
I think that you have already answered your own question. I am not saying that you don't love this guy however, it seems to me that you already know that there isn't really a viable future for you both especially if all he ever wants to do with his life is play computer games.
When you get home, go out with your friends and enjoy yourself. You will soon see what you are missing out on and will notice that although this guy can be sweet he has probably caused you a lot of heart ache which was unnecessary.
It is never a good reason to stay in any relationship just because you have been together for a long time.
It is never easy to end a relationship but is it really fair on either of you to continue in this manner if neither of you are getting what you need from the relationship?
there's a meal that you make from noodles (my ex-friend used spagetti noodles) and SOY SAUCE was the main ingredient i think... and its sposed to have stir fried vegetables in it..we didn't have any though. and i was wondering if anyone knew what it was and/or how to make it so that i can make it tonight. her and I arn't friends or on speaking terms at this point so i can't ask her... can anyone help plz?
This sounds like Chow Mein to me.
Follow this link to a recipe for vegetarin Chow Mein. You can also add meat to this dish if you aren't vegetarian, chicken is very good.
http://chinesefood.about.com/od/vegetablesrecipes/r/chowmein.htm
Okay, so I was wondering where I could get a home peircing kit. Any ideas? I dont want to get it off the internet either.
Hmmmm......not sure that home piercing is a good idea. There is a higher risk of infection and if you do get an infection you have no come back!
Sorry, its probably not what you wanted to hear but nevertheless my advice would be to get any piercing done professionally. They usually turn out a bit better anyway.
If you really really want to get a piercing kit then I suggest that you go to a shop that does piercings and ask them to recommend a reputable retailer for them.
15/f. Pardon me if this is long. But it's ruining my life.
Last year I was a really lonely and pathetic teenager. At 14, I had no friends I could trust, and all that revolved around my mind, was school and homework. And then I stumbled upon an online forum. There, I made lots of friends and became so much happier. I had gotten more social through the ways of the internet chatroom. The people there all shared my interests and were so nice and sweet to me. It was almost like a dream. I actually thought I was fitting in somewhere. Ever since, to this day, it has become an addiction. Particularly because of one guy. Let's call him "Vibrator". Vibrator is 3 and a half years older than me. That makes him...(well, you do the math, if I'm 15 1/2) And he lives in North America (as I do) He shares my music interests, hobbies and other things such as this. When he talks to me (and we have been talking online on MSN and AIM for a course of one year) he is always so sweet and sugary and amazing. I feel like I've known Vibrator forever. He always compliments me and tells me I'm pretty. It makes me feel amazing. But, I'm a bit paranoid, because I've only seen like ONE picture of him! And I'm always sending him pictures o.o And everything we discuss....personally..is always about me. So I feel as if...he wants to know about me, but never tells me about himself. Is he hiding something? I don't know what to do ! I'm so emotionally attached to him. And he flirts with other girls too, and then tells me later that he has no "sexual" feelings for me. He tells me that we should meet and he tells me he wants to. He manipulates and plays with my feelings. He really is ruining my life. I hate him, but at the same time I like him a lot. I don't know what to do. I really want to meet him. But I'm so unsure. It's becoming an obsession talking to him. And he gets mad very frequently...when he does, I cry. He upsets me a lot. But then he apologizes and plays with me...like that. I cry over him. I can't tell this to anyone. Not even my best friend, because I'm too embarrassed to admit that I like someone online.
What should I do? Please. :( Any piece of advice would be helpful.
You need to stop talking to this guy immediately! I don't mean to scare you hunny but this guys is in all likliness not who he says he is.
I know what it is like when you are a teenager and you feel that you don't fit in but now that you have acquired all these new social skills online you should be putting them to good use in the outside world.
As for this guy - if you don't feel that you can actually tell your parents about him then call his bluff. You say that he gets angry a lot and upsets you so why give him the time of day????
If I were you, I would tell him that you really like him and want to meet up so badly that you have told your parents about him and they have agreed to come with you to meet him. If he reacts angrily you can bet your bottom dollar that he is not the person that he is portraying himself to be. In the unlikely event that he agrees then be sure to tell your parents or adult and get them to go with you to meet him. NEVER EVER meet someone that you have met online without an adult with you. And under no circumstances let him talk you into meeting without an adult there. If he is genuine and cares about you he will want you to feel safe and secure when you go to meet him.
I know that you are emotionally attached to this guy and that it will hurt not to talk to him anymore however if he has been lying to you all this time then it is better to hurt now and save yourself a whole lot of agony and the possibility of a very nasty situation in the future.
At least then you can move on, put your new found social skills to excellent use and have lots of fun getting to new people and trying new things with them. There is probably some lovely guy out there just waiting to meet you.
Hope this helps and feel free to email me any other questions.
13/f
My printer wasn't working so I tried to fix it. My mom told me to just to rube some stuff on the ink things. Well, I didn't get what my mom was talking so I aksed her to repeat it. She said, "God, bella, your just the dumbest girl ever!" And my dad said, "Yea, no matter how many times I slapped her, she's still a stupid idiot." I feel really bad now. VERY. I'm crying cuz he hurt me so much. He's been saying things like this every since I was little. I've counted how many times he's said "I hate you." I feel really bad, espcially after what he did when Iwas little. He threw me outside and forgot me. I was outside, IN THE SNOW, until 1:00 a.m. My dad is always saying, I love you, your my baby girl, but i have this feeling that he doesn't mean it. I keep hoping my mom deviorces him. it's never gonna happen. I hate my dad now. He hurt me too many times. I want to know what to do. Plz, somebody give me advice ASAP. :'(
Sometimes people say things in anger that really hurt. I think that you should tell your parents how much it hurts you when they call you names and things. It may help clear the air.
If you don't feel that you can do this then please please talk to someone. Maybe a teacher at school??? If you feel that you don't want to take this step you can call Child Help USA - they have counsellors who are available 24 hours a day 365 days of the year who are willing to listen. You do not have to tell them who you are and if you call from a landline or payphone the call is free and will not show up on the phone bill. The number is 1-800-422-4453. If you call from a mobile phone then you may be charged for the call and it may show on the phone bill.
I really hope this helped and if you would like to ask me anything else at all please email me privately.
15/f
Ok I'm not fat at all(15 and weigh 80lbs & NOT annorexic or belimic)
I want to know how to gain weight by being healthy which I thought toning my body out would work. (any other suggestions??)
I don't have weights to lift and don't want my parents to know so I don't wanna go out running.
Oh and every school year I get put down by people calling me annorexic or belimic and I don't know how to deal. Sometimes its my own friends.(but not my super close ones who know how much I eat).
I hate how I look in a swim suit because I think you can see my ribs so I don't like wearing one in front of a bunch of people, they always look at me!! (suggestions??)
PLEASE HELP!!!!
It is tough when you are young and your body is changing to feel confident about it however just try to be safe in the knowledge that you will grow into your body.
You do not mention what height you are however, if you are taller than 4'7 then you are underweight and quite rightly should be looking to put on weight. At 4'7 your BMI would be 18.6 which only just makes it into the normal wieght category.
I would suggest that if you would like to do this healthily and add lean body mass (lean muscle) then you should ask your parents to take you to a dietician. I know you said that you don't want your parents to know that you are exercising etc however a dietician will be able to advise you of the right types of food for you to eat to gain lean body mass and what to avoid to stop you gaining to much weight too quickly as well as advise of exercise regimes etc to keep you healthy.
As for being confident about your body, this comes from loving the person you are on the inside and not giving two hoots about what other people think of your outside appearance. Remember this always - If you love yourself, others will soon follow suit.
I hope this helped and if you have any other questions, please email me.
i've recently had sex with my boyfriend. i'm only 15, but it seemed like the right time. since then we've done it three more times, and on the third time, the condem broke, but it was before we'd finished that he noticed. it was only a few days ago, two or three. i don't know if it's too soon to get a pregnancy test, but it's scaring the hell out of both of us.
It is great that you have used contraception in the first place however, even though you hadn't finished there is still a risk that there was some pre-ejaculative liquid which can contain sperm.
There is only one pregnancy test in the UK (I am not sure about the US) that can tell you 2 days before your period is due whether or not you are pregnant so even if you took a test now, if it is too long before your period is due then the results may not be accurate.
I would suggest that you go straight to your doctor or family planning clinic and tell them what has happened. Again, I am unsure of how this works in the US however, here in the UK if an accident like this happens you can be given what we call "the morning after pill". Now don't be deceived by it's name, it can actually be taken up to 72 hours after the accident however, in your case, if it has already been 3 days, they may not be able to give it to you.
I must stress however that this is not akin to having an abortion or anything of that sort. This pill simply inhibits the egg from implanting into the lining of your womb before a pregnancy can occur.
I must stress to your also that time is of the essence and you must act quickly.
I hope this helps!
I recently saw a question here....it kind of resembles mine. about online relationships. I'm a 15 year old girl and my best friend (who is also a girl) is 18. I don't know WHAT THE HELL is going on in her mind. She's always depressed, and upset. Over and over. So what does she do? She gets herself an online boyfriend. They start talking. Sending e-mails on and off. And listening to each other talk through MSN voice clips. (This has been going on for a year). Whenever I question her about the reason for this..she always tells me "how can you say that? I love him!" In my mind, I'm thinking (how do you love him? you don't even KNOW him!) That doesn't worry me so much though. Because we live in a different country than him. What DOES worry me...is that she has seen only 2 pictures of him! And the pictures that she has seen, were blurry, and of really bad quality. I'm trying to knock some frikkin' sense into her. She's sending him all of these pictures of herself because he, very nicely, asks for them (I've talked to him before, he's a total FAKE nutcase). I can't stop her. She has plans to move in with him. how can you move in with a stranger ...of whom you only saw...2 horrible-quality pictures of? Maybe that's not even him! And she still has so much trust for him. I tried to sit down and talk to her. She won't listen. What should I do? I don't want her to ruin her life! Could this be a wanting of attention? Is she desperate? :(
It seems to me that she is perhaps depressed and maybe this guy is giving her attention that she feels that she cannot get face to face. Maybe she has been hurt in the past.
I would suggest that you compliment her and encourage her to try new things and meet new people.
It is unfair to say that people cannot fall in love in this way however, it appears that this guy is indeed a fake and that you are right to be concerned.
From what you have said I would presume that her parents are unaware of the situation - I know that "telling" on a friend is not something any of us ever want to do however, if this guy is a fake then you could be saving her a lot of agony and hurt in the future so perhaps you should consider it.
There is absolutely no reason that this guy should only have sent her two very poor quality photos and received a lot more in return. You are right to be a worried by this. There are people out there who collect photos of young girls for very bad reasons and I am concerned that you friend is getting herself into hot water, particularly if she is sharing details such as where she lives with this guy. He may say that he is in another country however, how does she actually know that he is telling the truth.
Maybe she should call his bluff??? Tell him that she has spoken with her parents about him and that they would like to meet him and that way she will be able to tell from his reaction whether he is actually genuine or not.
I hope this helps.
So today i cheated on my diet today and i ate way way waaay more calories then usual but its to late to go to the gym and i want to know of some really great calorie burners that i can do at home.. preferbly fast ones too. i just feel so guilty and i'll never let myself live it down.
Feeling guilty about "ruining" a diet plan is the No.1 reason that people give up and are unsuccessful with diets.
You have to understand that if you are limiting yourself too much that your body will crave more things and that you will eat. Maybe you should look at you diet again with your parents or doctor or whoever and adjust it so that you are still going to be losing weight however, over a slightly longer period of time. Also, work in some treats to the diet so that you will not have to feel guilty about having them. Everything in moderation remember!!!!
DO NOT feel guilty about having eaten more today. Put it down to what it was - a little blip. Do the exercise that you would normally have done today and most importantly, start again tomorrow with a clear conscience. There is absolutely no point in beating yourself up about this otherwise you will just think "oh well, I have ruined it now - I might as well have another chocolate bar".
Good luck!!!
how come every time i take a shower i loose soooo much hair...its gross it jus keeps coming out
It is important for you to know that losing hair is a natural process with anything from 100 to 300 hairs randomly shed each day.
I think that it is safe to say that what you are experiencing is normal, if you notice any patches in your hair then visit your doctor who will be able to put your mind at rest.
Sometimes, when you are under stress (exam time etc) you will lose slightly more hair and sometimes have small patches however it is rarely something to worry about and will grow back.
Hope this helped.
14/f
Is God real? I'm a raised catholic, but I for about 2 years now I've felt atheist/agnostic.
How do you know it's YOUR god that's real? What if there are many gods? what if there's a goddess?
just give me some proof.
because a lot of times i feel guilty for not being religious and i feel like i should be religious. But I don't want to save myself for marriage and I masturbate which makes me think that I shouldn't be a christian! Can i still be a christian even in spite of those 2 things?
please just give me advice.
I am not a Christian however I can answer at least part of your question. I know that you have been raised a Catholic and that you will believe that there should only be one true God as many religions believe. This statement has caused a lot of fighting between religions which I do not believe that any higher being would want.
My opinion on this matter is that no matter what religion you belong to, you believe in the same higher being, whether you call him God, Allah, Buddah or whatever. So try not to worry about that so much!
As for masturbating I don't think that you shouldn't be a christian for doing this - you are young and exploring your own body.
As for the whole saving yourself for marriage - I think it is very very important to wait until you are in a longterm, loving, secure relationship before taking this next step and if that means you wait until you are married then so be it however, you will know when the time is right for you and if it's before marriage then as per your religion ask God for forgiveness.
I hope this helps.
i'm a 15 year old girl and i've recently had sex. i still care about the boy i did it with. in fact i think i love him. he's still there for me, all sex has done is make us closer than ever, but it's driving me nuts cause i can;t tell my mom. i want to, we used to be really close, and this is a huge thing, but she would be furious, and i don't think i'd ever see my boyfriend again and i couldn't live with that. what do i do?
That is a tough situation honey!
It is great that you want to share things with your Mum at this age - most teenagers want to hide everything. Looks to me like you are streets ahead in realising that your Mum is in fact "a best friend".
Anyway, the thing to remember here is that although her initial reaction may be anger you have to understand that this is (1) her reaction to realising that her little girl is growing up; and (2) the maternal instinct kicking in - she only wants to protect you from getting hurt.
If you have never spoken with her about sex then I would suggest sounding her out by asking a few simple questions about sex. That way you can gauge her reaction.
In all honesty, if it is upsetting you so much then you should probably just tell her and see what happens. There may be a firework show however she will calm down and ultimately, no matter what, she will still love you!!!
Once she calms down then you will be able to talk to her more openly and tell her that you felt that you were ready and wanted to tell her so that there were no secrets between you.
I would like to stress however that it is extremely important that you use contraception whenever you have sex, be it penetrative or oral. Perhaps this is something that your Mum could help you out with? At least that way she will know that you are safe!
Hope this helps.
i like clothes and fashion but is working in a clothing store at the mall going to be boring? i dunno what kind of jobs there are, but im guessing like cashiers or people who put clothes back on the racks
I guess it depends on the store!!
Try to find a store that encourages you to embrace your own sense of style (by that I mean they don't want to stick you in a boring unifrom). Secondly, look out for stores who offer a "Personal Shopper" or a similar service. That way you can be sure that they wouldn't be unhappy with you giving style advice to customers and you would be able to work towards becoming a personal shopper yourself.
Good luck!
okay, so i've been dating this guy named alex for about a month and a half now. as soon as he broke up with his girlfriend shannon, he got with me, so shannon told EVERYONE that he cheated on her, which wasn't even true.
when they broke up, his best friend mitch got close to shannon. so ever since the beginning of mine & alex's relationship mitch hasn't approved. he tells people that he wants to spit in my face & kick my ass. i know he wouldn't. but the fact alex won't tell him to stop bugs me.
i mean, i don't want him to choose me over his best friend. but it annoys me when they hang out because alex never talks about me i just feel like he's ashamed of me.
i've told alex how i feel and that he needs to tell mitch to stop being so mean to me, but he just won't. what else can i do?
thank you.
17.female!
Here is what I suggest............
You need to make Alex understand that being in a relationship means that you defend one anothers itegrity and honour now, Alex cannot make Mitch like you however, Alex should tell Mitch that, as his best friend, he should be able to be happy for him even if he doesn't entirly agree.
Also Alex should tell Mitch that he is entitled to his own opinion (given time, when Mitch sees that you and Alex are serious about one another his opinion will probably change) however, Alex should stress to him in no uncertain terms that when he and Mitch are together that if he has nothing nice to say about you that he should say nothing at all. This way, Mitch gets the idea that Alex doesn't like him bad mouthing you and Alex does not need to choose between you and his best friend which would be an unfair position for anyone to be in.
I hope this helped.
I weigh 105 pounds and im 5'2.
Thats not fat rightt???
NO it is not fat.
Here is something for you to consider........... at 5'2 (the same as me), a healthy weight range is between 105 pounds (7st 7) and 133 ponds (9st 7). A normal weight Body Mass Index is 18.6 - 24.9. You have a BMI of 19.2.
This should clearly show you that you are very slim and already at the lowest end of the healthy weight range as well as at the lower end of the normal weight BMI.
In essence - you probably have the perfect figure so enjoy it. However, I would not advise losing any weight as if you lose too much you may experience some or all of the side effects of being underweight. Not pleasant.
I hope this was helpful but if you need me to explain a little more by all means leave me an email.