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ok soo im a girl and im on my period and im getting sick of it because im allergic to a lot of stuff in medicines so i really cant take anything for bloating or cramps. so as far as cramps go i try to use the heating pad and sometimes that helps but like when im at school i cant. and as far as bloating? i have no idea any ideas? (link)
bananas are good for cramps.
And don't drink a lot of caffiene, it makes cramps worse.


ok like now..im not sexually active but when it comes to the time .. i hear that fingering is a good way to get loosened up, so when your bf finger's you..like where do u look? wont it be awkward if you look at him while he's doing it? do you lay down..what?! (link)
Yes, lay down.
And if you don't want to look at him because you think it's akward...then make ut with him, that way you can close your eyes.


I know a girl who hasn't done drugs, had sex or drank. She's never been kissed, or even had a serious boyfriend, and she's 21. Her uncle recently died, and her family, most of whom are drunks and stoners, are fighting about what to do with her uncle's inheritance, and she's caught in the middle.

I've also got a major crush on this girl, and it's mutual. To add to this, though, we're not the same race (which matters to her family), and because of her family, she's never been spoiled (which I love doing to her) and she's really introverted and shy about herself.

How can I help her fix her family, deal with her uncle's death and get her to go out with me? (link)
Well, with the inheritance issues, suggest that they split it evenly.

And since her family are drunks and stoners, try getting her away from them for a little bit, give her a break from them.

And being different races shouldn't mean anything, bi-racial relationships have been going on since the 1700's. And probaly longer, just none were recorded. If her family doesn't like it, then try to proove to them how good of a guy you are. Show them how much you love their daughter.

I hope I helped.


yeah i had an emo b-friend not to long ago. ever since that 2 of close friends started calling me a poser. i just dressed how i felt.NOw i am the goth girl,or the poser,or the wanabe goth.I fucking hate labelz. ANd you know what i do want to be emo. i do feel punk. i use to listen to only hiphop now i only listen to rock,deathmetal,and many forms of that kinda of music. thats who i wana be.i even started to cut myself.(i dont anymore)

what should i do????? thanks i choose you cause i noticed you are emo!


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Haha, I went throught the same thing. I just ignored them. there really isn't much more that you can do. Sorry. lol.
I went 'emo' cause i was always made fun of, like, my whole life, And now i have trust issues, A.D.D, anxiety, slight skitzo, and some other random sutff, but most of it came from the name calling.


I am way too vain. I worry all the time about whether I'm pretty or not. It's ridiculous, and I know it. How do I stop worrying about the way I look so much? (link)
I know exactly how you feel. I am so self conscious about myself, and I am always looking in the mirror to make sure I look my best. My friends did an intervention with me, over one summer, they came into my house, and took out all the mirrors...and wouldnt let me look at myself...Oh, yes, it was horribly. But it worked.

And, you are beautiful, no matter what anyone says. No one is ugly.


do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
No, it's not slutty. And don't listen to all the jerks on here that say that it is. It's natural for you to want to do this stuff.


Ok so me and my bf have sex like everytime we are together. Its not that I dont like it or anything like that but I would like to ave a great day with him with having to have sex. Is there something wrong with that? And how can I tell him this without making him feel bad? (link)
Well, just tell him that you would rather just spend a day with him cuddling and makin out instead of having sex with him. He'll probaly laugh or give you a weird look...But he secretly likes it. He just won't admit it.


wat is the normal size for a guy "down thur" who is 15

plzzz answer need help (link)
5-6 inches...


ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?

thanks guys. (link)
Ok. no, the world is not going to end. the devil's number in china is 444. and that has already happened, and we are still here, eh?


What is 666? I know it has something to do with the devil.. I'm an atheist, so I don't know what it is and why the heck everyone is so worked up. Can someone please explain this to me? (link)
(im athiest too) and 6/6/06 is suppose to be the day we all die.(tommorow) its stupid, and not true. Because 444 is the devil's number in China. and that day has already happened, and we are still here, eh. Hope, i helped, haha. bye.


Which of these thesis paper topics (about anything in American History)sounds more like a thesis & something a teacher would probably prefer?
1. Arthur Miller's personal life experinces were the biggest contributuions to his success as a great American playwright.
2. Many different events and issues in the later half of the 20th century helped to shape the ideology of American theatre.

(these would not be the final thesis sentences...i will re-word them...I just need a feel for which is better.) (link)
I think the second one is better.


I just got my wisedom teeth out on monday and my face has really swollen out (not alot, but i look different:S) anyway i've been doing evertyhing apllying ice, rinsing with salt water etc. know of anything else i could do, to get rid of or stop the swelling? (link)
Yeah, try tylonel, it would probaly help you more than anything else. Oh, and if you rinse with salt water, make sure it is warm, that will help too.


i think im emotionally disturebed because everytime my cousins come here there suuuuper annoying that u dont understand i feel like there little devils that came to earth to ruin my life and i just feel like killing them and if i cant kill them i kill myself i think i have seriouse problems!!!HELP PLZ CAUSE I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AND I FEEL LIKE CRYING (link)
No, you just seem to really hate those cousins. I have the same problem I have a little cousin named Hannah, and when she comes over i feel like ripping my hair out...i would just lock myself in my room or something.



What exactly does "Wishful thinking" mean?
is it a cliche?


i know this may seem dumb im sorry
but i had no idea what it meant :[ (link)
Wishful thinking means that you wither want something really bad, or your hoping for a thought to come true, and usually it doesnt.


Okay so ive got quite bad skin. Like open pores and my skin is quite rough especially on my face. ive tried steaming my face to open my pores and then closing them with cold water but it doesnt seem to help.

Is there anything i can do to leave my skin smoothe and soft? Any products i can buy??

I live in England by the way (link)
I dont know about products, but wash your face with hot water, then cold water...you dont have to do the whole steam thing.




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