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A little less sex please =/
Ok so me and my bf have sex like everytime we are together. Its not that I dont like it or anything like that but I would like to ave a great day with him with having to have sex. Is there something wrong with that? And how can I tell him this without making him feel bad?
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Just tell him that you want to lay off the sex for a while. If he doesn't accept it, then he was using you the whole time. If he accepts it, then you got a good boyfriend.
Hope I helped!:-)
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let him know that you dont want your relationship to end up being based on sex. you dont want him to think, oh im going see my gf so im getting laid, you should want him to think im going see my gf just to chill and to be w/ her... just let him know.
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My boyfriend & I used to be the exact same. Having sex every time you get to see him gets really old after a while, & it just doesn't seem as special. When I had this problem, I just told my boyfriend the truth. That I thought we were having to much sex. He was completely understanding. And everything has been so much better since. Good luck =)
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Talk to him, and tell him that you love him and stuff but you want to take it down a notch. Tell him that you just want to take a little break for a day or two and go somewhere and just talk. You can tell him that without making him feel bad but don't like, start yelling at him and stuff. There's nothing wrong with slowing things down a little. Remember, communication is a key part in any relationship.
Hope I helped.
♥ SiMA
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Well, just tell him that you would rather just spend a day with him cuddling and makin out instead of having sex with him. He'll probaly laugh or give you a weird look...But he secretly likes it. He just won't admit it.
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No, there is nothing wrong with you. Just say somethine like "ya know, whenever we are together we have sex and I just want to have a day without it." Make sure you tell him that you like it but you just want to spend some time together not having sex. I'm sure he won't get mad, and if he does then obviously he just wants you for sex.
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Oh wow..just tell him what you just told me that its not that you don`t like it that you just want a great day with out sex.He should understand because that doesn't make him feel bad and it`s saying it in a nice way.♥
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Hi, it's up to you how much you want to have sex. Different people do it more than others. For example:
Twice a week
Once a week
Once a month
Once every 6 months
For some never
There is more ways to show each other affection than just having sex. For example:
Kissing
Hugging
Cuddling
or just making out
You must tell him how you feel. If you don't then he will just think that everythings alright. We know that not everything is O.K. Tell him that. Sometimes we have to express how we feel. It's apart of being a human being, having feelings. Daniel.
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Just tell him what you just told us -
"It's not that I don't like it or anything, I just want to have a great day with you without having sex."
Or, just say you'd like to focus on the emotional part of your relationship rather than the physical part of it for a day, and just make it romantic.
Honesty is the best policy, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to lay off the sex for a day or two.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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That is perfectly fine I don't think there is ever a person who just wants to hang out. A guy no matter what when sex isn't involved then he will feel bad but that isn't your fault that is just men. Just tell him it is more special and it is better when it isn't a everyday thing it soon becomes worn out and boring if it is all the time. Just explain to him how you feel and he will be ok with it I am sure.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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